I am so tired of having no privacy, being tracked all the time 24/7, social media designed for addiction, manipulative algorithms, being forcefed ads down the throat... Like i had enough of this I feel like no one is looking out for the public and everything revolves around corporate interests. Feels like we're in some parallel universe version of the future where things went wrong. Whatever the next era is im SO ready to move on cuz im done with this bs
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Banks still share a lot of purchase data. And retail companies send CC purchase data to Google, who then match it up with everything else they’ve got on you and send it back to the retailer so they can all track what you buy (source: I worked on a data pipeline team that was all about customer data tracking at one of the largest retailers in the US (I never asked to work on that bullshit. They cancelled my original project and put us on that. I quit.), and we did this).
I’m not saying all this doesn’t help. I just feel hopeless, like no matter how far I go I’ll still be tracked. I have a new car too. I’m sure all sorts of things about it are tracked.
Also: Cars. Iot devices. Cameras with face recognition. Cameras with license plate recognition.
Just your device camera these days (MS, anyway), no permissions, no excuses, object and text recognition on your kitchen table. Scary
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Also plate reading systems in most cases could be designed in a way that does not collect or expose the data. But they are not. A strong push for better privacy is required or we really risk the nightmare scenario.
In addition, some states (looking at you CA) sell your DMV information. They’ve been doing it for decades.
Entire medical systems across the US are alleged to have trafficked patient data.
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And whenever you’re asked “Do you want an email receipt?“ they don’t give af about saving paper. It’s about tying your purchases to your profile
Until that's gone.
Right, even the neighborhood ice cream trucks take credit and debit cards.
Huh? Ka-ash?
Downvoted because your comment is silly and disconnected from the real world.
I read a long article about 10 years ago that I can't remember now, but the take home message was to just relax and let it all go. It was titled: "Privacy is Dead". But, if we have to live like that, then we should benefit in some way too. And I remember the other message that this article held within it, which was that at some point in the not too distant future the most valuable asset any of us will have is our personal data file. And they meant it economically, not just spiritually. So the way I figure it, the people with the most amount of data still unrevealed to the world will have to be the wealthiest.
Idk, seems hard to believe now, but then you never would have convinced a Roman soldier to invest their wages in coffee futures, either. Sayin' 🫤
Yeah it’s financial so if you come into an inheritance you need to protect it very carefully
Can you elaborate? What are your recommendations to protect inherited funds?
I’m just saying some people are not aware of how dangerous the Internet can be, and to change your passwords often -especially if you come into an inheritance and other people know your password. Because if I had a ton of money I’d be a bit afraid?
Use cash. Don't buy online.
Come on, man. Be realistic.
I do it with relative ease, what's the problem?
My bank is 1.5 miles away, the grocery store is right next door, which also has a gas station and home goods. It's not unrealistic. Last time I bought something online was before March 2020.
You're living in a walkable neighborhood, probably with mixed-use buildings too. That's entirely unrealistic for large swathes of the population (which is a problem that needs fixing, of course).
I live in Texas lol
Then you probably chose one of the very few not-yet-ruined areas there, and probably paid a pretty penny for it.
Haha what are you on about?
Basically, USA has been destroying living infrastructure and land which used to be present in order to accommodate a car-centric living, ignoring all the resulting negative effects, which has consequently inflated the price of living in those few areas that resisted this without being redlined (which instead get flak for being gentrified or otherwise rich-only instead, since the supply of walkable and pleasant areas gets artificially limited thereby greatly increasing their cost). That destructive process is still ongoing today.
And unlike what the Accessibility and land value section suggests, that doesn't actually lead to reduced costs in the mid to long term, it's just a false impression created by externalizing the cost.
edit: A large number of the non-redlined areas were chosen not to be rather than resisting, as far as USA goes. A lot of other countries just jumped on the bandwagon after for some incomprehensible reasons.
as an australian, this sucks, slowly see it starting here but i agree with the original poster a lot, of course there is social media and all, but cash payments in person are most of what i do, if not card payments in person, ordering online can be done through most stores and then paid with cash upon pickup, this seems to be a mostly american thing maybe?
A lot of places have few or no local stores (and many stock too few, overpriced & poor quality), this is very common in commuter towns and even worse in SFH-only suburbs, so if you're lucky you can have the stores order things for you and deliver them to your home by phone... but the overwhelming majority will ask for your credit card number at that point.
Same even if they get it delivered at the store, they'll still ask for your credit card before ordering, and then you'll have to drive because there is no way to get there besides highways and stroads. That problem, I can attest, is sadly not exclusive to USA.
The pandemic also made the proposition of interacting with other people with physical tokens a rather unappealing proposition, to make matters worse.
edit: I can also personally attest that banks are unwilling to do remote/by-mail withdrawals, so if you have no nearby ATMs and you're crippled by some injury or surgery, temporary or otherwise, you're pretty much fucked as far as offline options go.
fuck yea i didn’t know about them asking for credit cards and stuff upfront, id use cash bought visa gift cards if that was the case, but then again it’d be getting really convoluted, and compiled with the need to drive to some where and get on highways and all that maguffin just to get a bit of cash, it’s a bill a bit too steep for me, im honestly thinking about exiting from modern society as a whole and enjoying bits of it from a distance
What does that have anything to do with banks tracking your purchases and using cash to circumvent them from doing so?
It has to do with the impracticality of using cash because practically nothing is within walking distance (including ATMs), making the suggestion of using cash to buy from the grocery next door (which if it's a small neighborhood grocery like people open in mixed neighborhoods might well have little if any electronic surveillance & deanonymization equipment) entirely impractical.
And having to use a car means you're more easily surveilled, through the car itself if you're using a recent car that incorporates spyware, but also through whatever license scanners and security cameras might be on the way (or at your destination, given facial recognition), which will all be selling that information unless (and often even if) it's illegal.
Much of my post was related to the "not ruined yet" aspect. But it's also interesting how some of the indirect side-effect of all that also contributed to the normalization of more surveillance tooling.
Consider yourself lucky. You know as well as I the entire state's infrastructure is designed around vehicle transportation. Good example is Austin's public transit, or lack thereof. The system is horrible.
As an European that had to go to Texas for work and lived on a corporate apartment, it blew my mind that there was no way to get any kind of food (store, restaurants...) without a car. I mean, i could walk on the side of the road for a while and cross what I would consider a highway, just to get to a fucking Subway. Ended up having to Uber to a supermarket once a week.
Do you have any idea how unrealistic this is for the vast majority of the country? Why even offer suggestions like this if it’s not helpful to almost anyone?
I live in rural Canada and I made a decision to not buy anything off Amazon about 2 years ago. It's made my life vastly shittier. The amount of things I can't buy within 500km is infuriating.
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I forgot about Ebay. I just might do that. I try to buy off Canadian company websites directly but like 1/2 the time they cancel the order because they don't actually have it. Canada sucks, so bad.
I like Ebay because even though the company is getting a cut of this, some of the merchandise is more interesting than Amazon's and while Amazon has some small sellers, Ebay sellers are more likely to be regular people. I like the idea of supporting someone's side gig that might be paying for someone to afford a home instead of funding another Bezos vanity spaceflight.
I haven’t purchased off of Amazon in years. Maybe it helps that after leaving Amazon, I stop buying shit
OP was complaining about banks tracking their purchases. Using cash is the only way around that. And the vast majority of people live within the city. How hard is it to go to the ATM, withdraw a few hundred dollars and use that at the grocery store, home depot or restaurants?
It wasn't that long ago where we were happy and didn't order every useless shit online.
99.9% of businesses accept cash. If it were unrealistic, they wouldn't be handling cash at all.
In a car dependent city or town like those which are common in USA? It can be pretty difficult to do without endangering your life on a common basis, with things built at a scale that assumes everything is done with a car and then there's the problem of food deserts.
Yes, and in the meantime a lot of those businesses have since closed down, downsized or entirely stopped keeping local reserve stocks and zoning been remade so that you couldn't even bring back the ones in residential areas even if you wanted.
The pattern of disastrous development that led to this isn't all that old, indeed (yes it starts with cars, the internet just greatly accelerated the pattern). Things can go downhill really fast, particularly when it's a willful pattern.
Also, would you really bring your heavier purchases home with a bike if you had to do it alongside a stroad or highway for a significant part of the way?
Not to mention too that ATM machines take your fucking picture or even video of you when you use them!!!
That is indeed an issue, and even going into the bank to withdraw at the counter has the same problem (a problem that also applies with shopping in person in places where facial recognition in security cameras isn't outlawed and enforced). Which leaves for little in the way of good options.
exactly
What a waste of time writing all that out.
Because some people can't imagine a circumstance outside of their own - if it's easy for them, it must be easy for everyone.
I'm not sure why people would be downvoting you for this (???). If that lifestyle works well for you and gives you peace of mind, then keep doing what you're doing.
all these downvotes are idiots, this is definitely possible, in a lot of places around the world, it’s also possible to not be in one of those places, weird to see all these downvotes for calm, reasonable responses to questions
Maybe the downvotes are Google bots (???).
at this point im not 100% doubtful, it’s something for sure, i keep seeing it everywhere
Okay I guess I will only buy groceries and nothing else because that's all you need in life right,, no specific parts that can't be found at a hardware store, no rare ammo for firearms not at local gun stores, no custom graphic t shirts, no weights for home gyms, no specialty ingredients not available at your local grocer, no medical supplies at your local pharmacy that can only be bought online etc. Etc. Etc.
this is the way, if you need something order online, order it through a store and pay cash on pickup, send cash via postal transactions, or alternate methods than moblie phone transfers, im struggling to see the issue here?
It was only a suggestion. I still use my debit card everywhere, but have stopped online purchases. I'm fully aware all my transactions are being tracked. The only way to circumvent that is to use cash only. Simple as that. I'm not sure where all the downvotes came from, considering this is a privacy sub.
yea fr, guess they’re too busy sucking amazons dick to realise how easy it is to buy online, in an offline fashion, even using like click and collect from shops or delivery to a residence from a different IP works, but for some reason, it’s not possible in these peoples minds
None of which will work in the next generation of PCs with Pluton...VPN provider "we don't keep logs". MSFT, Qualcomm, AMD, and Intel Pluton "we do! And we have higher privileges on your own/vpn providers servers and PCs!" " And your vpn won't matter at all anyway to begin with because our chip to cloud technology will funnel all your data immediately from your local hardware!....and you won't be able to boot nor disable nor access Pluton, it's essentially a black box, all for your security!"
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Hahahahahaha...you think services are not going to require it?.....hold on im laughin brother...ahahaha.
How is it going to fail? Its already a part of new processors...and is just the first iteration like others won't follow...its also not just MSFT, its all the companies that make PCs, mobile and server hardware...
Isn't Pluton exclusive to AMD processors?
I do all these things except I have LinkedIn. But I really only use it on a separate profile in Grapheme so MS only gets so much data outside of what I post.
If you use the LinkedIn app, even in its own sandbox you may reveal (leak) information without thinking about it.
IP addresses you connect from,, when you're online, how you use the app, etc. You also need to beware of background traffic happening without your awareness.
Most apps today also have a web login, as the app is essentially just a web app. Use the web browser with containers for each service to separate better and turn off location tracking in the browser. Once you close those browser windows, there is no way to track things in the background.
...which refuse to allow login once they detect that you are using a VPN
... And/or require 2-3 factor authenitcatiin
I rather recommend people to host their own VPN server themselves instead of trusting the wild west consumer VPN market. You will most likely end up with more privacy this way. And web services less often detect it as a VPN connection.
OpenVPN Cloud has integration with at least one VPS provider (might be more now), so getting started shouldn't require that much efforts. This even hides your whereabouts better, as the IP address you connect to isn't the same as your traffic exits from. The free tier of Cloud allows 3 connected units at the same time, so the cost would be the VPS.
For the MFA, I have yet to see a service not having an alternative if your physical token is unavailable.
Are there any subreddits or sources you would recommendto learn moreabout doing this?
This is so far the best guide I found on this:
https://github.com/zilexa/Homeserver
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I was only giving a counterpoint, reminding the other person that a web login does not solvethe issue many times.
But MFA for fantasy sports, triggered because i use a VPN, is pure dystopian nonsense. Same for LinkedIn ... Linked in DGAF about my security, what is there to hide in a LI page? Nothing of value to an attacker. Yet logging in by vpn triggers MFA. Itis silly nonsense.
Try different vpn. I had the same issue until I switched
Good insight. I use a VPN and kill my session taking all of the other profiles offline when I'm not using. I know I can't block 100% but I can do what's balanced between privacy and convenience.
LinkedIn was alleged to have been selling data since day one.
Not surprised.
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I appreciate that, and that's true, but at least they don't get data from the other apps on my phone.
Why is iCloud bad? If I may ask.
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I see, personally I agree with you 10000 percent, but luckily I'm not really hiding anything, but once I figure out a way to leave my kids the millions of photos, I will dump the cloud for sure.
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Very true, gotta love technology but man is it costing us.
You may have nothing to hide, but you have everything to protect. It's your life, not theirs. They should not be snooping around you at all for any reason whatsoever.
For privacy? They have all your data you put there, and you have absolutely zero control over them.
Any service that you have no control about, and you can not see to its inner working is unsafe and probably sell your data (you have to expect the worst always)
I generally am not for total privacy to the point I would stop using services, I take my data as a payment for the free or cheaper service I am using, and I am personally fine with that, but you can not expect any company to play nice.
Apple is not a privacy-friendly company, they are not keeping your data safe, and I hate that people have this mindset of Google bad Apple good. They are both bad and having an iPhone instead of an Android phone won't help you (if anything you can put a custom privacy centric ROM on Android and be miles ahead of an iPhone).
Its not secure by any means or have you not heard of all the celebrities that have had their iCloud accounts hacked? Then lets not forget the Hunter Biden, the presidents own son had his iCloud account hacked... so yeah iCloud aint so bad ...
That was from an era where iCloud didn't have 2FA and breaking into an account was as simple as finding their reused password from a leak. Today 95% of iCloud users have 2FA enabled.
Hunter Bidens account was just hacked recently, and he's the current sitting Presidents' son.
i think this is what OP is tired of
its a constant drain on our coping energy, which is already at rock bottom due to all the other BS going on in the world.
ya I feel like we passed the point of tradeoff and now it's just sacrifice. But it is very difficult to opt out because these companies are so big, influential, and so deeply entrenched in our lives. I started deleting my socials and getting all these apps and stuff for data protection but I don't really see everyone being able to do this.
Looking back it seems like they shouldve been put in line before they got so big and laws should've been updated with it but politicians and legislators didnt understand the technology(still don't, as we saw in Zuck hearing with congress) and they got this sweet loophole where they can just do whatever they want
It's sad cuz like 10 years ago I was involved with tech scene, startups and VC and all that and we were all genuinely excited and optimistic about this technology. Now internet feels like a corporate machine with no ethics or boundaries it just doesnt feel to be good on it. I resorted to practicing digital minimalism which makes me life happier tbh
we let tech have a portion of our rights without so much as a peep.
and we need to reclaim the balance of our rights.
this is how i see it
Digital Bill of Rights to protect our 4th Amendment rights to privacy in the digital age.
#DigitalBoR
Original #4A Language:
At the time of its writing the only places personally identifiable details could be found were on their person, in their house, or among their papers and effects. Cloud storage, digital medical records, financial databases or stock exchanges, and certainly social media – did not exist.
Today, private details can be as widely scattered as social media and shopping habits. Digital bread crumbs trail behind all aspects of our modern life. These modern effects reveal much about our inner thoughts and habits and deserve protection by law.
To protect our Constitutional rights, these personally identifiable effects we create need to be secured from unwarranted examination by others. They do, after all, belong to us. Our digital existence belongs solely to We the People who created them by our actions in the world.
#digitalBoR :: Specifically:
@skyfishgoo
Even Edward Snowden doesn't practice this level of OpSec. Be realistic, folks.
This is a great tip that literally everyone should do though, since Private DNS is on Android and you can change DNS in any OS and most routers.
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Yeah. The only reason he does that is that the US and its allies probably still specifically target him with zero-days for RCE for spyware. For the vast majority of people, a software-level toggle will suffice. DoD specced machines tend not to have integrated microphones or webcams anyway.
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Being “the same” is underrated, I totally agree. In these cases, it’s good to be a sheep because it’s harder for companies to tell you apart from everyone else in the crowd. Makes it difficult to track, but if you add unique things to your overall digital profile, it’s easier to pinpoint you.
I'm a little technically challenged, so... But aren't you just talking 'hard to track' in the UNABOMBER sense? A data-harvesting algorithm surely wouldn't differentiate between, or struggle any more with, pulling your code from a group of a billion people, or one with just ten. Or would it?
It should not necessarily "struggle". The instance here is that it may not recognize that it is specifically "you" if your profile is identical to another individuals. A company would have to track you down specifically. A vast amount of the population uses google search, gmail, youtube, amazon, smart phones, gps, drinks starbucks, etc.
If a company is harvesting profitable tracking metrics like those, then you generally will look like everyone else. Once they have your credit card, bank account, ssn, you are now personally identifiable and the game is over. It is almost impossible to get away from those types of data collections, but for typical company algorithms, you can hide in plain sight by looking like everyone else's profile.
Ahhh, ok, I get it now. One thing I've noticed lately (though I haven't taken my privacy that seriously so far), is how apps are making it more difficult to leave them where you have a profile of any kind. Not as bad as Facebook, but getting up around there. Reading the T&C's of some apps is scary too, especially some of the less reputable ones (though the effects may be the same, with the difference simply being that they may employ cheaper lawyers). Usually they'll justify privacy invasion by couching it in language like: "...to use for internal security or quality controls"" or some such guff. Then you see under a different section: "from time to time app security may need to be tested by independently managed apps" and so on and so forth. But the end result is that by signing up to the app you tacitly agree to your data being used, and sold, for the next decade, even if you delete your account.
Another trend is the EXTREME harassment (often where it appears you have no option not to accept whatever the condition is) to allow cross-app sharing of anything and everything.
I'm not concerned due to financial worries as I rarely have more than a few dollars in my account, and I don't have kids, so privacy isn't even a Biggie, but I DO object to these assholes on basic principles of trading and fair play!
God I wish I could use Graphene
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I'm using lineage and my device just got an android 12 build. It's not bad but graphene is better. I'm hesitant to use a google device tbh.
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If Google was putting some tracking chip that could communicate remotely and sell your data it would still be dependent on the system itself and 3rd party ROMs would block it anyway, or it would be extremely expensive and with very limited data set. This is why it's not worth for Google to even think about.
Also, if this chip would exist, what makes you think that every other company wouldn't jump on the thought of quick and easy money?
Banks. Cars. Iot devices. Cameras with face recognition. Cameras with license plate recognition
What’s the difference between privacy and OpSec (operations security)?
Thank you. 🙏 Quite possibly the sanest, most practical, and inspirational words ever to have been put down in white on black.
with the email service would i suggest if you can, try hosting your own server
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i have 4 server that i let others use but only people that i know personally
Agrees with all this, however I am feeling slightly hypocritical here in a way...
In the sense that I am thankful for iCloud and it's backups, especially when dealing with my elderly relatives and when they have problems or just transfer all their stuff to a new apple item and it's done. It's time saving for me and it's sorted and done and the older folks are happy once more.
A win win.
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You know it's definitely over the top when even people who fake their deaths don't go that far...
Yes, that's it. Cut yourself off from everything. That's your solution? Cause that's not the solution he/she wants.
Check out this new operating system that makes all of the above easy: https://fractalnetworks.co
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Thank you for your thorough reply
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This. If people really want to go offline, they might want to check Nicolas Cage "Pig".
Although it's not about privacy, the way of living is to be considered if you want to get off.
Still it's not possible if you are still in this Orwellian society. You need to be connected somewhat.
Just have digital condoms to some degree while personal data is being currency. And push through your democratic institutions(so called govs) to get these tech companies in line.
No Microsoft and no Apple. How do you computer?
Why not iPhones?
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So basically if i will not use iCloud im okay?
lost you on that
i'm not losing my fucking 3.5mm jack for any piece of shit os
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non of these privacy oses support phones that support sd card and 3.5mm jacks which i need for my uses