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I feel sorry for zoomers. So much shit happens to them online that never happened to us. So many different type of groomers online with easy access to their lives. So not surprising some of them grow up messed up.

Even worse, the grooming doesn’t even stop to online now.

Ooohhh you're so lucky that you don't experience the online and offline harassment, it's 200 times worse than if it is just online or offline.

fr, this post just kinda bummed me out.. not to sound like a self-righteous teen who thinks he’s seen shit, but i already know i have a few screws loose from all the shit i’ve over-indulged in. i’ve been stepping back a lot more recently to try and reverse that damage, but my soul just feels tired despite all this life i have left to live lol

Your soul's not tired you just need more relationships

We are all gonna make it, king.

It’s possible to detox from porn. If that’s what you’re referring to.

Went from dial-up to looking at 4Chan and seeing beheadings at 15. Kinda wild and abrupt growth in access.

I was born in 2001, just in time to watch computers and smartphones really take off.

My parents were responsible enough to give me a curfew and obviously block some prawn sites here and there. I didn't get my first smartphone until I was 12 when I was just about to become a teenager and needed to go out by myself, hence needing to be contactable

Fucking internet porn

So much shit happens to them online that never happened to us.

Such as?

When I was young, we did not have smart phones. So when we turned off the computer we were actually offline. Zoomers are basically online 24/7 with social media on their phones. When I was young we did not have other teens trying to constantly get us to send nudes, or convince us that we are not just gay but also trans. They are bombared with predatory DLC, like skins in Fortnite or other games. They are probably exposed to hardcore porn earlier than we were. Edating is also something that seems a lot more common now than when I was younger, and it can turn out very negative.

Those are some things I can think of, of the top of my head.

Only question I have is how Amanda Todd got a rope and halo: bleach, yall already knew she was likely gonna do it, why would u let her get her hands on those things

ive been looking at porn since i was 8

Browsing 4chan since 13 really messed me up lol.

At 13 I was hanging out with the founder of 4chan back on SomethingAwful lol. Not a healthy way for a kid to grow up and I'm glad people are realizing this.

Not a healthy way ya say? youtube.com/watch?v=JnsP1Lxq8CA&t=3m

Your link is invalid

What kind of guy was he?

A hentai obsessed weirdo. But funny, in the early 2000s internet kinda way.

A weird question, but did he ever mention his sister? I went to college with her and was shocked to find out that she was related.

Why, yes, I loved spending my early teenage years at 4chan only to later change it to polish chans.

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ale papieża to ty szanuj

same, been there for over 10 years

I started going in there at 12

Started on the chans around the same age.... experiencing the last vestiges of the wild west of the internet during the formative years was certainly an interesting time. Honestly the biggest impact it's had on me is being extremely disgusted by how corporatized and "packaged" the internet as a whole is now.

Don't question the risks, just consoom internet and then get excited for next internets!

8 years? Today you can see 2 year olds or younger watching peppa pig on their smartphones in public transport.

The 2 year old who's phone I destroyed in front of him: ☹️😭😰🥵

Ok? Kids watch age appropriate content instead of something else, is kinda defeating op's argument

The argument is more refering to how it's wrong for any child to be getting tossed phones or tablets as a means for a parent lazily keep them occupied.

It's the same as kids being curled up on the couch watching Saturday morning TV shows for hours on end, this stuff didn't just start with phones and tablets.

I see where your coming from but chances are you aren't going to stumble across hardcore porn, beheadings and other gore videos watching Saturday morning cartoons.

Yeah it's just as unhealthy but at least you won't be traumatized like you could be with unfettered internet access at a young age.

That’s just not true at all

2 real

Honestly heres the thing-- the web is full of wonder and it's a useful tool that can be great for a developing mind.

However, there's also trash on the internet and all around awful stuff that's not good for children.

I know we all want to say no the internet all together for children, or just throw our hands up and say fuck it just let em do whatever, but the answer is that the most advantageous route is to be the dork helicopter parent and either web-nanny or supervise access.

When I was a kid obviously I was I introduced to the brain rot-- I'm still an edgy contrarian asshole and I think a lot of that is just from what I grew up with on the internet. But I also took in a lot of things and formed healthy interests and hobbies that are a lot of who I am today.

The internet fostered those interests. I was a ghetto inner city hood rat, and those types of things weren't around me in my daily life, but when I came to the internet there were forums and websites that guided me and taught me what I needed to pursue those interests.

I wouldn't like the person that I'd be if not for the internet growing up. Obviously the early internet wasn't so consumer/product focused and there was more freedom and individuality beyond marginalized groups, but I still think a lot of that garbage can be avoided if access to the internet is monitored.

It sucks to be that parent, and I get that only the most cringe Christian fundies and brain dead hyper libs are hovering over their kids internet access, but in this instance it's Honestly for the best

Same re: growing up in the hood. The internet can be the great equalizer for poor people (keywords can be)

'Cause I'm a twenty-first century digital boy

I don't know how to read but I got a lot of toys

My daddy's a lazy middle-class intellectual

My mommy's on Valium, so ineffectual, oh

Ain't life a mystery, yeah?

Yeah this happened to me, you’ll turn out as a socially awkward loser

tbh kind of scared of what the internet would do to my future kids. I think it'll have to be a dumb phone and no laptop for them until year 7 tbh

I was big on 4chan from about 2006-2013 but still visit now. It didn't have too much of a lasting impact on me because i wasn't a no-mates incel. I had a life offline too

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"they also live on the bare minimum of whatever shitty job"

How can you do that if you're a consoomer? I earn below average wage and work part time but I end up with lots of money because I am financially literate. I'd go broke if I actually paid for the things I did.

I don't find this funny.

The average person will grow up fine. Like everythinf else it is about proper parenting.

This sub is fucking dogshit

But atleast I don't feel like every single thing I ever bought like my cereal and the car(instead of taking public transport) is a sin like being on r\anticonsumption makes me feel