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Why the heck did this get gilded?

The dude who posted this is a nazi

Checked his account , does not seem like a nazi.

nazi banner tho

This isnt dank.. this is just depressing

Why is they verbatim what I thought? Please stop reading my mind

I blame the government and bureaucracy for this a divorce shouldn't mean getting taken everything from a men.

One-word prenup

I prefer hitman

I prefer Aqua Regia

Bruh what are you talking?

can disagree

*can’t disagree

Thanks for corrected me I meant to put can’t

Just doing my part

And I thank you random citizen

I prefer prenups with several words…

dont marry ever just avoid american women they dont act right get yourself a wife out of country

Facility only available in a few (very small number) countries.

Prenup doesn’t always save you

Hey let’s all be honest we’re on ready we’re not gonna get married anyway anytime soon

Kinda funny that you’re saying this because after being in a relationship for about 5 years now that’s exactly what I’m going to do lol

Lol good for you congratulations

Thanks a lot my dude

Prenups seldomly work. It's easy to get them thrown out if you're a woman.

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Yeah well try making 27k a year and have support payments set at around 1,300 a month. May not see jail but trust me you are left with nothing. Only reason to keep going is your love for your kids nothing else.

"Tabatha Southey is smart, funny and very beautiful. She has the prettiest eyes. She describes her hair as iconic. That's how men think of her breasts"

Not one mention of her having kids on her profile. Her life seems to evolve around men sexualizing her. The feminist in her left out what her divorce settlement got her, while mentioning creepy men overlooking her smart and funny side

How is that a "great example," exactly? Is half the country highly paid actors who are fresh out of a sitcom?

Also, Dave Foley is Canadian, so are you here in the US, complaining of the extremely unique situation of one Dave Foley, as adjucated in Canada, and applying it to every dude who makes a decent salary and wants to ditch his kids with his ex?

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Dude brought up a really good point though? Pretty bad hill to die on.

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Okay thank you. I completely agree with your point btw, your example just wasnt valid due to not being in US.

So, in Stevie J's and the ex-saint's cases, someone can be a several hundred thousand to a million bucks in arrears before they get arrested. Boy, who can operate under such a microscope?! /s

In the Florida article's case regarding the impoverished people, the father owes that money to THE STATE, not to the mom.

Yes, you are lazy, because what even is your point?

''Tabatha Southey is smart, funny and very beautiful. She has the prettiest eyes. She describes her hair as iconic. That's how men think of her breasts '' The feminist in her left out what she got out of her divorce settlement. While mentioning creepy men overlooking her smart and funny side

Why would you be unable to pay child support if you make $200k a year?

It's if you stop making 200k a year. They're saying the amount you have to pay is means tested. 200k a year you have to pay loads. You stop making 200k a year you still have to pay the same amount of loads but suddenly you can't.

So it only happens if you suddenly lose your entire career. What would do that exactly? Prison? In real life, the person whose career takes the hit is the custodial parent.

People get fired all the time man idk. I was just explaining the point that guy was making.

And the only reason why you would not receive what would likely be very generous severance and unemployment from your $200k year job would be if you massively fucked up. Right. Applying like 5 seconds of critical thought to this scenario.

And that if you made 200k a year, chances are that you would have enough money and severance to be quite comfortable until you find your next job.

Source: the people I know with 200k jobs

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Car accident: short term and long term disability and health insurance

Parents ill: that is not a firing offense. It's an FMLA situation.

You get ill: medical insurance, short term and long term disability

Maybe you don't understand the level of benefits those jobs have, vs. McJobs.

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Because you don't lose the job, actually. You don't. Not at that level, where you are likely a VP or SVP. You can literally qualify for FMLA, which is what it's for. You also usually have other perks falling out of your asshole, in non-wage compensation.

My last job only paid $108k and I still got stock options as part of my non-wage compensation that were worth $250k when I left. That was a mid-tier job. I wasn't the president of nothin'.

Maybe if you are a child or you work at Amazon Warehouse, scraping by being treated like a lazy jackhole for wanting to take your lunch break, you simply don't realize exactly how well-compensated a medium level, white collar job can be.

Thank you for demonstrating that you literally have no idea what you're talking about.

Uh. Or if you get, like, laid off. Or if there’s like a pandemic or something. Or if you get injured. Put your divergent thinking skills to the test!

See my statement about severance. Who exactly do you think has a job that simultaneously pays in the top 1% of income but also dumps people off on the corner with no severance, like they worked at Dollar General? What job do you think that is?

Uh… I mean, a lot of them. For example, if there’s a hypothetical pandemic and the company goes under. Or if you get injured and have to live off of UI. Or if your period of unemployment lasts longer than the severance payment.

So… pretty much applicable to every single one of my examples.

Don't you think that someone who makes $200k would have money in the bank? Lol. You act like this imaginary person is living out of their lambo.

Use your brain, kid. People who make $200k are not scraping by. They are doing quite well, unless they're living completely beyond their means which frankly, would require a concerted effort.

As someone with a HHI of >200k, no, income is independent of liquid cash, particularly if you have a shitton of kids. Any more Q’s?

Would you say most people have a "shit ton" of kids? Or do they just have 1-3 kids?

Again, just because you can conceive of a red herring doesn't mean the rule should apply to let all guys ditch their responsibilities.

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Who says it's A LaW? It's a pretty standard wage compensation package though, as structured by the company in question.

My friend is a scientist. He makes about 160k. His severance package is 2 years of compensation, full health benefits, and all his stock options vested. That is his SEVERANCE. Wanna hear about his bonuses?

Child support is a Debtor's Prison system designed with preferential treatment for the mothers because women don't pay their fucking child support when they lose custody of their kids.

Men only make up 16% of custody winners in the US.

So just don’t get married. Pretty simple.

Or you know… Get a prenup

That works too, but if she won’t sign one, don’t get married. Done and done.

Or you know... be gay

Easier said then done. If it was that's easy they would be no one getting married sadly we have fools that rush in all the time get married because we have a society of men and women who see their little boys and girls as legitimately proper and want the best for them a loving family and a white picket fence. Every father wants to see her daughter walking down aisle. Every mother wants her boy to find a good loving women. It's a vicious circle.

Not really, you aren’t anyones property. All you have to do is not propose to anyone. Over 90% of engagements are the man proposing. So really all you have to do is nothing, and since you’re suggesting men are bullied into proposing, just don’t do anything. Even if it causes the relationship to end, just do nothing. Don’t get a ring, don’t get down on one knee, don’t ask the question. It actually is that simple.

90%? Good assumption. But most proposals now a days are because the man is doing the right thing because he got the woman pregnant. And let's not forget about Indian culture where neither person has a say in the marriage. Sorry to say but it is NOT "Actually that simple".

Bullshit. If you get put into an arraigned marriage, you do have the option of just not showing up, and not signing the marriage certificate. Your family would disown you, but it’s not like they’re slaves. Also if you have no choice in the marriage like you’re implying then your wife probably can’t just leave you and take over half and get you tossed in jail. So, again if you’re willing to accept any consequences to avoid marriage, yes you can just refuse to show up and participate.

So you approve of women taking everything from a man after a divorce? 🤔

No, I’m 100% against it, but if you want to avoid losing anything just don’t get married at all. It’s a strategy that worked very solid for me over the past 40 years. I think it’s pathetic that women want to scream feminism and equality at the top of their lungs but the second things may get unpleasant they are very clear about the fact that they don’t want equality. They want supremacy.

Also, a quick google search would’ve told you census in 2021 performed found actually 95% of proposal are male to female. So you’re right, I was wrong, but it still didn’t go your way. Hey you tried though right?

Okay cool, you backed up a number that has little significance in your argument. The fact still remains that you can not census for Indian culture or men just doing the right thing. To think your "arguments" can be supported by a census that does not take into account culture, personal choice, or even doing the right thing for the sack of the child proves how asinine your thought process is. Have a good day 👍

How does getting married do anything for the sake of some hypothetical child? The argument is men are sick of marriage because when divorce happens they get fucked. The solution is clear: abstain from marriage. You’re acting like it’s 1940 and men get married because “it’s the right thing to do” or because “it’s expected”. My argument is fuck expectations and the proverbial “right thing” and do what is necessary to protect oneself, and the best you’ve got it but what about whatever imaginary situation fits your narrative.

I agree men are fed up with being taken advantage of in marriage and divorce. What I don't agree with is your initial statement of it "being that simple" fact of the matter is, it is not. The government incentivizes getting married. Just like they incentive single black mothers. Maybe we can find common ground in the fact that Government should stay out of marriage, then men wouldn't be forced to pay alimony to a women that only got married for the money. 🤔

Divorce Should still be legal but adultery Should have a fine or a crime

I believe in some states it is a crime, but never enforced.

In the mideast they just kill the women that commit adultery. Its messed up, it should be fair for both parties not just one party gets all. Might as well bot even get married and deal with the bs

Well that’s bs, I lived in several countries in the Middle East for work and that judgment is hardly ever enforced, it also applies to both men and women who commit adultery.

Ok i think it was arab countries that still enforce shariaw law

I lived in 4, trust me they barely do. Some are stricter than others but I’ve not seen it happen in my years living there. I’m not defending them or anything but I know the rule applies to both men and women and I know they hardly enforce it. Otherwise they’d be out here killing everyone lol

Thats progress i guess not murdering people over small stuff like in the medieval days

People in america get murdered by the police daily for things like “sleeping in your bed while the cops enact a no-knock warrant on the wrong house” so we aren’t doing much better over here.

In school I remember them teaching is that before adultry way punished was by both the cheater and their accomplice to be tied to a log and drowned in a lake

I just wanna a see a court where someone pulls up a sex tape of their partner cheating and the jury start discussing it.

I’ve seen it go the other way too though; ideally, the courts take every case in a contextual framework.

A kid on my hockey team in middle school had parents going through a divorce. His mom ONLY wanted custody of his younger sister. The dad ended up winning full custody of both kids, and hardly any financial loss since he had become the sole legal provider. 🤷‍♂️ this is Canada though, and it definitely goes like this video sometime too.

Good for that dad.

proven fact that majority of the time it is the men that get fucked over

These stats come from?

www.google.com

🤣 the most credible of credible databases

But is common fucking knowledge dickweed

Since you’re being a disrespectful shit, I’ve though of another one too: it used to be common knowledge that the earth was flat, what’s your point? (I.E. provide data for this or stfu)

🤣 mans is triggered

Common knowledge and not hard to observe in society. Oh yah, google too

But if it’s a “proven fact” that courts go harder on men for being men, it should be really easy to provide a source no?

I’m not leaving this app to provide you with information you can look up on your own time

That sounds like “can’t actually prove it” but with extra steps

Follow up: I google, and surprise surprise, in the first 5 pages of my google, not a single reputable source (I stopped looking after that cause it became more and more off topic). If buzzfeed and random blogs count as fact sources, then I guess you’re right 🤣🤣

P.S. I’d bet you hardly leave this app at all

Sounds like you just suck at using Google.

Sounds like there’s no official states for men being “fucked over more”, and like it’s done case by case. Shitty men get fucked over more...

Yes, I’m 375lbs with no job and a personality disorder and live through other peoples experiences

Damn bro, sounds rough

Haven’t seen my feet in years

🤣 aight, you pass the vibe check

It’s just something you see everywhere sometimes

Lmao I’m totally aware it happens, I’m just wondering why guy is saying it’s factual they get fucked over the most and then can’t follow it up? It’s just such a daft take on the legal system

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One experience is not sufficient to make sweeping claims about all divorced men.

It could have been that your mom hired a better lawyer. As far as custody goes, men certainly end up with it depending on who the mother is. I’m not saying it doesn’t happen, and I am aware that, assuming neither partner is a risk to the children, the mother probably get majority custody more often, but idk if that qualifies as “screwed over”. Sounds a little butt hurt to me.

That’s why you get a prenup

Holla we want prenup we want prenuptial. 🎶

You blame the government for stick figure breakup?

Yeah but it does

Good news it doesn’t

And the wife losing her assets too. The mediation process for property settlement is so brutal. I know from experience.

Yeah, it's divorce lawyers and judge courts that screw the family or parties involved. Those laws need to change to help families and parties involved not to enrail a mountain of debt.

I’m getting your mind and all it’s contents in the divorce

It’s sad cuz it true

It is absolutely not the way it works.

Well this is pretty much how my parent's divorce went, and I'm sure for plenty of other people too, so I'm not sure what you're basing this on?

They're basing it off of being a biased moron

Lol you sound like the video outed you…

Nah, had a run in with this d bag in another post

It for sure happens, and it really is tragic. But pretending it’s common is stupid as hell

Well it's very hard to get stats on this, but from what I remember in my childhood, some of my friends parents also had divorces that were not much different. Or even worse.

My best friend's mom straight up left for another man and cut off all ties with her kids and the father, who was left to care for the kids and earn enough to feed them. My friend was devastated at first and then developed a deep hate for his mom. Tragic stuff.

I'm not claiming all divorces are woman initiated, but I do feel the majority really is. Because of exactly what was outlined in this video. I mean if you think about it there is actually logic to it too... the 2nd part of the video, with the Facebook stuff, yeah that's probably really pushing it I'll admit.

I take you're a feminist, and there's absolutely no shame in that, but what is shameful is automatically assuming that the side you support is 100% good. Every gender, ethnicity and sexuality has horrendous people within it's group, we're all people after all.

If we’re talking just about couples that divorce then yea this is much more common, but half the married population never divorces at all, first marriages are even lower. Divorces happen for a variety of reasons, infidelity being one of the bigger ones. People cheat for a lot of reasons, and it’s shitty both ways. I don’t side one way or the other, people are shitty everywhere you look. I see a lot of people saying this makes them never want to date etc, and it’s certainly a possibility but it’s not like it’s something that just pops up out of nowhere. Choosing a good partner and not rushing into marriage is a start, getting out into the real world and not letting memes shape your worldview is even better (not directing this at you, just in general)

I think we're pretty much on the same page then, yeah I was indeed mostly talking about the divorce process, not so much about marriage or relationships in general I'd agree people should not be demotivated by this video, I saw the whole thing more as a story of divorce rather than a story of marriage.

Totally fair, I just see a lot of younger people looking at memes and thinking they are a true representation of the world and (at least in my experience) they’re frequently off base or very targeted to one viewpoint. I probably shouldn’t worry so much but it sucks when they’re almost always negative memes that get big attention. The world is still mostly good and all that

But it is common, I know plenty of people this exact scenario has happened to, including the ex getting her ex husband sent to jail

You're basing it of 1 event?

That's, with some exceptions, is about how 65% of marriages works.

And 85% of all divorces.

This is exactly how it fucking works.

Then how does it work? Hmm?

Which part of this do you think is untrue? It might be an exaggeration but still fairly accurate.

Atleast you won't have to ever worry about it lol

Worry about what? Is this an attempt at a joke?

Don't worry about it man, you'll probably get there eventually

Well it's just that it's worded like it was supposed to be an insult but I am already married with children. You saying I won't have to worry about it could only mean that you don't think my wife will cheat on me and that we will stay happily married so thanks I guess?

I feel bad for your family lol

Do you really think a failed joke made by a neck beard on Reddit is going to affect me somehow? Come on bro.

You keep replying so obviously you feel some type of way about it lol

Damn, you really need to tell yourself that you've "triggered' me dont you? You have made me feel some type of way, and that feeling is pity. 😥

Lol why are you so mad?

Let me help you. You can talk to me.

Sure, thanks man. Let me know when you're not busy abusing your wife and we'll hammer out a time that works for both of us

Shh shhh... I rub your greasy unwashed hair, the smell of cheeto dust in the air It's okay. This is a safe space. Just calm down baby.

Yooooo, and I'm the neckbeard lol.

Yep.

Lol you're a weirdo

Going to generic insults already. That's disappointing, this was just getting fun.

My bad, I should've come up with something more creative and original like neckbeard lol.

I know you're not a smart man, your initial joke was pretty terrible but you have to spice things up from time to time. Keep it interesting.

Touch grass boomer!!!!

See, this is the mistake you made the first time. You assume these things that aren't true and then try to utilize them in your insults. When you do that your insults immediately lose any value they may have had.

Whatever you say boomer

Just remember this next time you try to troll.

Sorry, I don't click on links from boomers. You guys aren't too internet savvy and spread around more viruses than a 15th century prostitute.

Shame, you could have learned a lot. SMH.

Shame shame shame. Kind of like how your kids feel about you.

Kind of like you, that was a weak joke.

Hey, I liked it and that's all that matters

Is what your mother said last night.

Just a slight exaggeration, while also nicely supplemented with racism. Oh and women bad men good.

/r/nothowgirlswork

Yup. Title checks out.

It doesn’t happen exactly like this In ever relationship but it does happen.

Something similar to this has happened in most marriages I know,

It has nothing to do with women being selfish or men being stupid

Because people forget the cardinal fucking rule of love.

BE HONEST WITH YOUR PARTNER AND YOURSELF

Yea see my below comment about communication

No amount of communication will make a whore wife loyal and vice versa

I’m enjoying this ah the world…burning to a crisp

Some men just like to watch the world burn. I am one of those men

By any chance is that possible that your opinion on this subject might be biased because you are part of the female group of humans

I guess I am a Lesbian and have no idea what straight relationships are like. Seems like they lack communication though if this is whats happening so take that or leave it. But women certainly aren’t evil lol

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No but its funny for me

Are you sure last I checked likelihood of violence in lesbian couples is highest while it's lowest in gay couples. So I don't think lesbian couples have better communication than other relationships.

Edit : word

The fuck are u talking about. Yea go ahead and tell me about my relationships

I am sorry I wasn't mentioning your relationship. I was talking about lesbian relationships in general. You seem to think that they are different when they are not.

What on earth makes you think you’re qualified to talk about lesbian relationships in general

Because there are stats regarding this.

I assure you there are not

Hey don't take any offense. I didn't mean your relationship or anything. But peer reviewed studies which have taken a large amount of data into consideration says this

Absolutely love ignoring the experiences of actual people in favor of random articles

Peer reviewed studies say all kinds of bullshit about queer people that isnt true

This person is weirdly defensive and hostile. Plus, I don’t think they know what peer reviewed means.

Now we watch the world burn

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Women-are-wonderful_effect

If you’re a loser

I’m Enjoying the comments I love it when the world gets just a little angrier MUHAHAHAHAHA

I mean, it’s like the worse possible scenario

Absolutely 2nd worse possible scenario the first would be all that but then being accused of rape or something else like that

I mean that’s kind of a different thing. But if we’re doing that, I’d say even worse than both of these would be having a genuinely caring and great wife and children, and then getting in an car accident and having them all die. In those situations sadness will be replaced by resentment and anger which will eventually fade and only come back occasionally, but nothing is going to damper the true despair, loss, and guilt of something like that.

Like my dad dying I’m my arms when he got in a motorcycle accident with me riding on a different bike I watched it all happen and I held him and he passed and it was so so horrible that it happened 5 months ago so I’m feeling most of those feelings right now every night I’ve put a loaded gun to my head because I miss him so much but I don’t die yet and idk why

Mostly depressing because of the turbo virgin vibes I get from whoever made it.

wem*n bad tho 😤😤😤 (I defenetely do the s*x 😎)

The comment right below you "Its sad cuz it true" lol how many incels are on here?

Depressing and racist.

  • A joke from The Office.

This is incel propaganda

They're just unironically posting incel shit and going "feminists gonna hate lol"

It’s depressing because the video is dumb with an even dumber title.

You're just proving the title right lmao

Okay incel

Okay dehumanizer

do you really expect someone to take you seriously when all you can provide to a discussion is a singular slur?

Well that’s step one in doing something about this. Alimony is bullshit. No fault divorces are bullshit. If a women chooses to have a baby then child support is bullshit if the dad gets no say in the abortion. These simple changes will restore sanity to a broken, cruel system.

r/societylounge

It’s dankpressing

Hijacking top comment to say that op seems to be a nazi incel racist. Check his pfp and profile banner.

This is harsh reality

Dark instead of dank

And sadly the truth most of the time

And realistic

Especially the part when his own children don't give a damn about him and the part where his ex wife fed their children lies about him having a new girlfriend he don't give the fuck about his own children were in reality he misses them alot and he's depressed.

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Depressing people thing this is an actual issue and not just fairy tales for redditors

This isn't dank it's so true.

this is just the average relationship I think

And unfortunately true more often than it should be

Agreed. This literally made me be ashamed to be a woman.

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Someone misread dankvideos for darkvideos

Well dank does technically mean cold and dark

Not really. It just means damp and musty. Can be cold and dark, but not necessarily

Yeah, it's referencing the smell of a cold dark area more than anything. Which is damp and musty.

Oxford dictionary has it at damp, musty, and typically cold. But you're right it doesn't mention dark.

The dankness is the controversy and arguing in the comment section

bro I'm just reading though the comments and having a blast about it

Someone mistook it for incel videos

This hurts to watch...

Luckily, I've never had to deal with this. But I've seen and heard some horror stories.

My boat went on deployment and when my shipmate went home, he found out that a whole other family had bought the house and moved in. His wife had sold the house and took the kids. All of his bank accounts were empty. He had to hire an investigator to find out where his kids were.

In the end, he managed to acquire 50% custody over his kids and never spoke to his ex-wife without his lawyer involved. Never remarried. Barely dated. Put his all towarsds his kids.

This was the worst I've heard. Most military couples find ways to make it work. Sad thing.

the fact that a woman can do all that shit and still get 50/50 is fucked up.

Yeah she should've fucking seen jail time for that wtf. That's stealing and kidnapping.

Because divorce law assumes it's still 1950 and women and treats women like handicapped civilians who can't get jobs

This is some incel shit. This is what happens if your an idiot and marry an idiot. This isn't what happens to men and women. Just idiots and idiots.

Edit: keep your whiny comments coming I love it. Women bad!!!! Lmao

No, it happens to good men too. And good women get cheated on. Who people are when you marry them can change drastically when they hit mid life crisis mode.

i have solution for cheating couples. stoning

You're*

Good job bro you totally got him with that Grammer catch I'm sure this isn't you compensating for the stuff you can't do like actually think of a good insult

“Grammar”

Maybe he wanted to correct him and bot insult him?

Look bud, if you can't appreciate the irony of someone typing "your an idiot," I don't know what to tell you

Grammer

This was comment of the year

It's happened to a lot of people I know. It's not that uncommon.

You know a lot of idiots. Don’t worry, I do too!

We all do. Think how daft the average person is. Half of all people are dafter than that.

Doesn't just happen to idiots my friend.

The video is reductive. It presents the situation as some sort of status quo or one-sided, when in reality things are so much more complex. Not to mention playing into the whole "women are sluts who will fuck any alpha Chad and cuck their hard-working beta male, and make him pay her for it"-shtick. It's not here to encourage men's mental health, but be anti-feminist.

Does this happen? Sure? What's the solution? Focusing on male (mental) health, men's systematic issues, and supporting men.

Not this cuck fantasy.

This video is essentially what happened with my dad but he offed himself at the end, so how does focusing on your own mental health (not that it’s not important) protect or help you from things you can’t control?

I am really sorry that happened to your dad. I truly am.

I don't know how healthy it is to focus on how your father's suicide could have been prevented. That's up to you.

You can't control things that happen to you. But what you and people around you do in response is important. For you I hope you have people to support you, and access to professonal help should you need it.

Get men to have self respect. Pretty juch get everyone to be self respect and fuck the normative shit. People need to know they dont need to give a partner everything they want and they shouldnt only take. I see this kind of stuff a lot on smaller scales.

Be careful, you are sounding like an idiot…

Time for some self reflection my dude

No it did not happen to a lot of people you know. Did they get married because the woman wanted to be married? Did they have kids because the woman wanted to have kids? Should they be awarded for taking care of their own kids? Did they not have any accountability in those choices?

Don't get me wrong: awful divorces and cheating wives exist. What does not (or only if both people are idiots) is how this video portrays it. It's so over the top just to portray "women bad" (and let's not talk about the title)

Imo this comment explained the video's flaws very well: https://www.reddit.com/r/dankvideos/comments/t52jon/even_after_all_this_some_feminist_is_gonna_get/hz37j35/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf&context=3

It's not over the top and portrays "women bad". It depicts a common thing that continues to happen to many men. It's not that hard to understand

It is over the top and that's definitely easily understood from watching it.

I do know someone which it happened to, and it's my dad lol.

Sucks that your dad had kids only because your mom asked him to

jesus christ you’re a bitch

This absolutely happens and ive met specifically 2 people with this near exact scenario. Is it normally all of this? No normally the actual unappreciated spouse ficks off by this point. Or one vetos ever having children and they get cheated on over that. Yes this is a mix of all the things that can go wrong happening to on guy but there is a weird stupid norm that men have to be some kind of provider. That men have to do all this shit its an issue of toxic masculinity that is very perpetuated by online dating and the horrid people on the internet. The takeaway shouldnt be "women bad" It should be "have some fucking self respect and dont give ANYONE everything they ask for just to make them love you"

When you see someone arguing with an idiot, what do you see? Two idiots.

When you see someone arguing with an idiot, what do you see? Two idiots.

Sure and it happened to no one that i know, so it never happens.

Neither are idiots.

It only happens to people who are poor judges of character. Almost all cheaters have numerous red flags and if you ignore them... this is what happens.

Or, maybe it's an example of an outlier case used to demonstrate how men's mental health is overwhelmingly neglected?

I would like to believe that, but can't based on the title

Fair

Not to mention his banner pic....

I disagree with a lot of this video.

Before I state my point: - Yes men’s mental health isn’t taken seriously. Dudes need a lot more support than they’re given. - Yes it’s often unfair if a couple gets divorced and the wife gets everything. - Yes it’s unfair that men often feel like they are what they offer. And that it’s their job to be the provider.

I get that this could be an outlier case. But this generic stick video shows a guy providing physical things. Physical things are not what build trust and a relationship. A relationship requires constant communication and effort. I feel like whoever spent the time making this entirely glossed over that.

We don’t know all the times the husband wasn’t there for his wife. Like did her day die and he didn’t support her through it? Did she break her ankle and still be forced to make dinner for him?

We also don’t know if his dad died and she didn’t support him through it. Or if she abused him. Or if she told him his value was only what he could provide.

Were things fine in the beginning and then something happened which drastically changed one of the adults impacting their relationship? Did they both change and grow apart? Did they get married too soon and eventually realize that they weren’t a good fit?

Whoever made this wants to make the husband come across as a victim but we don’t actually know enough. Physical stuff and support do not equal a healthy relationship.

You're absolutely correct

I really don’t think it is. That’d be a great point to make but that’s not really the point this post is making

Yeah and everyone knows healthcare for women is top of the line OH WAIT

I'm not sure what you're getting at but okay? Have your gotcha?

Nah its just some whiny ass incel shit. This is what happens when your an idiot and you marry an idiot. If you relate to this I got some bad news for you

dunno why you're downvoted

Because he's a dumbass who can't even use your/you're properly.

Or is using autocorrect.

Because he's using broad fallacies to denounce something he doesn't want to understand. It's called being ignorant

example of an outlier case

"Overwhelmingly neglected"

Pick one.

You're setting up a false dichotomy. An example of a marriage like the one shown above is an outlier case, but it is no secret that men's mental health is widely neglected.

I can't wait till it happens to this person. It's easy critiquing when you haven't been there.

Man I feel sorry for your mental state that you'd wish this kind of thing on another person. Shame on you.

No, shame on them for degrading someone who has gone through the worst that life has to offer.

Think of what has happened, someone worked for another person, selflessly, and tried to make a life for their family. To have that person cheat on them and rip their children away from them. To add insult to injury, they then take a third or more of your income to give to the person that just ruined your life........ And you got some ass hat saying that he isn't a real man and insulting the injured party.

You're right, it's me that has the problem???

Yeah, wishing harm on people is not right.

Oh yeah, I forgot to mention... I don't care.

Clearly. Anonymity is a hell of a drug I guess.

I would say it to their face or yours.

r/iamverybadass

r/iamatotalpieceofshit

Yeah, I can tell by how much you whiny bitches keep bringing it up.

you whiny bitches keep

Methinks thou dost protest too much

If you need mental health counseling and you’re man get off your lazy ass and get it, what is this comment even supposed to mean? Is it everybody else’s responsibility to see that men get the mental health care they need?

Didn't think I'd have to explain this, but hey here I am. The amount of resources put towards women's mental health, abuse shelters, and even things like search algorithms in order to ensure they have easy access ot mental health care overshadows that which is provided to men by orders of magnitude. There is still a lot of stigma about guys seeking help.

Didn’t think I’d have to explain this but not only am I a man who receives mental health care for my combat ptsd but I also work in the mental health field. Your excuses are horseshit and if you let something stupid like “stigma” stop you then just stop your bitching because no amount of therapy is going to fix your weak ass.

There are more than enough resources for men if you get off your lazy ass and fix your own problems for yourself like men are supposed to

Combat PTSD, BS. You're stealing government money cupcake and deff not a mental health specialist. Keep up with your online real man persona. It's fake af

Why aren’t you protesting the VA then? Millions of veterans are “stealing government money” according to you so why not go try to stop it from happening? Probably because you either don’t actually believe that and are just trying to piss me off or you do believe it but you’re too much of a pussyass coward to say that to anyone in real life, just another keyboard warrior. And yea, I really do work in mental health care, I’m not a psychologist but mental health care has a lot more people than just psychologists but the great thing about the Internet is little pussies like yourself can say whatever you want but doesn’t mean a damn thing. Sorry cupcake, go cry more about how women don’t want to touch your peepee and it’s all their fault for not seeing how awesome you are.

fix your own problems for yourself like men are supposed to

Oh the irony.

All adults who need mental health care need to take the initiative of getting off their asses. I specifically mentioned men because this person seems to think men deserve special treatment and need someone to hold their hands for them.

What exactly is ironic here? Or did you use that word incorrectly like so many dipshits do?

combat ptsd

Oh yeah? What branch were you with? What unit were you with? Where were you stationed? What was your MOS?

I'm calling bullshit. I used to be in the military myself, and no one I ever met in 8 years ever had the audacity to make such ridiculous claims.

Army, HHC 1-35 AR, 2nd Brigade 1st Armored Divison, MOS 19D, stationed in Baumholder Germany, deployed to Baghdad 03May2003, redeployed back to Germany 16July2004

Want the name of my sergeant who was killed 50 feet from me in an ambush?

Sorry to ruin your day with reality

What branch were you? I’m guessing the Chair Force

68 W in both 101st, 2nd BCT 1-502 and 2/2 CR out of Vilseck. This is much worse than I thought. You're apparently a member of the special forces community yet don't recognize the reality of men's mental health resources? Did you think the astronomical suicide rate in the service was because they were committing seppuku for being amber on dental?

Ah you’re a pog, figured as much. No I’m not special forces I was a Cav Scout, you’re thinking of 18 series which is SF, So you don’t even have a clue what you’re talking about, that’s pretty embarrassing for you.

Why do you think men need specific mental health resources? Just because there are resources available only to women you think there has to be ones only for men too? Access to mental health care in the United States in general is woefully lacking however if you as the individual needing a mental health treatment don’t take the initiative to get off your ass and do something about it it’s never going to get better. I waited for eight years after getting out of the army before I went and saw somebody about my PTSD the reason was because one of the guys I served with who stayed in the army was killed in Afghanistan. And in those eight years people kept telling me I should go get treatment but I refused and by refusing a ruined a lot of good things in my life like a long-term relationship. When I finally took the initiative and went down to the VA to get care a lot of stuff changed for me for the better and I am in a much much better place now, mentally, physically, financially, you name it. However nobody could do that for me, I had to get off my ass and handle my business myself which is the only point I’m attempting to make.

Is the HHC TocRoach calling me a POG? Ironic. Ah cav scout explains quite a bit about the massive amounts of compensating you're trying to do.

HAHAHAHAHA really?? You’re trying to look cool now after you embarrassed yourself? You sure you were in the Army? Because if you were you’d know that scout platoons are always part of HHC but we get detached and assigned directly to battalion when we get to the field. If you think anyone other than our platoon leader spent time at the TOC you’re even dumber than I thought.

And what exactly am I “compensating” for? You’re really bad at this

What's embarrassing? Me getting an MOS code wrong or a fucking Cav Scout acting like mental health isn't thoroughly neglected by the powers that be simply because it's not an issue you've managed to deal with(years after the fact by your own admission).

I did manage to deal with it because I went and got help but no one was going to do it for me which is what you apparently need, you need someone to hold your hand for you or something because you’re too scared to get help or you expect someone to do the hard part for you.

What is it that you expect the “powers that be“ to do that they aren’t doing now you so that you can get your clearly much needed mental health treatment?

You’re right but the point of this is how society and legal system supports this exact thing happening. You also must be a hermit if you don’t think this happens often.

Women are men with vaginas

Again…

Women are Men with a what? Vagina

This is the reason why nice guys finish last.

  • Anyone reading this should take 20 seconds to wrap your head around that statement.

You will immediately understand why things are the way they are and why prenups were invented.

Show me a nice guy. And I will show you one that has been through the ringer.

  • They learned - the only respect you are supposed to give is to yourself.

I already have limited respect anyway. So when I am out, I look right through them as if they are nothing and they are.

Fuck off with that dumbass transphobic incel bullshit

Found the offended feminist. It’s ok to be mad.

Step 1: Make dogshit video vilifying something entirely in your head.

Step 2: Frame all criticism as illegitimate by pretending to understand their motives.

Step 3: Retards like you feel granted to goad in superiority for holding moronic worldviews.

Grow up.

I mean the video goes both ways in the context of gender. But its not vilifying all woman. There are real people going through stuff like this. If anything it shows the horrors of putting your sinful wants in front of your responsibility's of others that need you.

I agreed until step 3, please don’t use the r slur

Incels will actually be seething but try and say others are offended. Go back to MGTOW.. Oh wait lol.

Found the offended incel. It’s ok to be mad.

Bruh u left this comment...give yourself some rewards..

Lol look at your downvotes, you got owned!

Yeah incels really do exist and it’s much more of the population that I thought. Funny stuff.

They're all just a bunch of kids wanting to be edgy. Hopefully they quit being bigoted brats by the time they get out of high school. The real world will teach them a lesson after they are kicked out of their mommy's house.

Yeah they almost have to, or they won’t be in a stable relationship and then they’ll hate women even more when it falls apart.

yeah let me tell you this video really owned the sjws

Yes, very angry. It ruined my day that some incel children think woman bad. Whatever will I do?

Come on, kiddos. I eat bigger misogynistic men like you for breakfast. Do you really think your wittle post is going to make me offended?

Mad enough to comment whatever that was as a response 😂

Maybe half of the population are idiots then, because half (if not over half) marriages end in divorce. So keep crying.

And this is what every divorce looks like? The hard-working man gets cucked by the cheating, gold-digger housewife who pushed him into marriage and gaslights their kids? This isn’t deep, or dank, it’s just propaganda for 14-year-old boys

You’re fucking naive if you think this is “propaganda”. Woman at work literally told me that’s why she cheated on her husband / fiancée.

No life experience apparently.

Wow, sick evidence man. Got any more anecdo...evidence?

People tend to relate to personal experiences more than statistics, but since you asked, here you go..

Absolute failure.

Don't bring that lie here

https://lasiterlaw.com/2016/06/24/key-stats-showing-gender-bias-may-not-influence-custody/

https://legaljobs.io/blog/child-custody-statistics/

https://www.evansfamilylawgroup.com/blog/children-and-child-custody/primary-custody-the-myth-of-gender-bias/

https://www.washingtonpost.com/opinions/myths-about-custody-litigation/2017/12/15/61951bc4-e0e6-11e7-b2e9-8c636f076c76_story.html

First one says that over 20% of the time that they lose, the father doesn't get a choice, and 29% of the time the father wants custody but is convinced to give up before it goes to legal proceedings, though no reason is given as to why.

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Second one says it's due to the courts saying a mother is more important than a father, since the mother spent more time with the children.

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Third one starts off by straight-up saying that there is clear bias when young children are involved, but even then this entire thing isn't data, it's an opinion piece made by a law firm who literally advertises themselves in the "article".

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The final one is also an opinion piece, however this one seems to have been written by someone who is actually insane, because 1) she claims that men get custody more than women, which is demonstrably false, 2) she is angry about a law that says that joint custody should be the standard prior to divorce, and 3) she cites a study that she conducted that is so full of objectively bad assumptions and overt bias that trying to explain every aspect of why it's shitty would require a full essay that I don't have time for, but to summarize:

She assumes that women are always perfect angels that would never lie about domestic abuse for any reason, >!especially not when dealing with an ex-lover,!< and so if they say the father did something bad, regardless of how little evidence they present, then the courts should just throw out due process and take the guy's kids away, and the fact that courts might use these kinds of baseless accusations as a sign that the mother is going to try to sabotage the child's relationship with their father is basically the same as saying that poor, defenseless women who are abused by their husbands deserve to have their kids stolen.

She also pads the numbers by including cases where the court still grants the mother full custody, but just doesn't immediately rule that the father definitely abused someone, as a "win" for the father.

The first one does not say that anywhere. The second one is pointing out that women spend double the amount of time as men do caring for the child so that is obviously taken into consideration when custody is determined.

No, men get custody at the same rate women do when they actually fight for it . I did accidentally include the one that didn't have stats

https://legaljobs.io/blog/child-custody-statistics/

Here's some even more stats. The real question for men thag try to weaponize custody should ask is: why are men not taking care of their children at the same rate as women and why are they not fighting for custody more often if they care so much about it?

I agree with you and you have great points, but your evidence is lacking if you want to squash this incel.

— In over a tenth of cases (11 percent), mediation was used to give mothers custody, rather than going before a judge.

— In another 5 percent of these cases, a custody evaluation was carried out and custody was awarded.

— A grand total of just 4 percent of the overall custody cases even ended up getting to a trial. Most of those didn’t make it through the entire litigation process.

11+5+4=20.

The second one is not a reason to not allow men to have joint custody.

Not sure what you're trying to say in that new link.

As for the first question, not sure what you mean when you say men aren't taking care of their kids as much as women are. If you're asking why there are more single mothers with full custody, that's what this whole discussion is about, is it not? If you're asking why there aren't more stay-at-home dads, then we'd start having an entirely different conversation that would eventually boil down to "because the individual couples decided on that arrangement".

As for your second question, at least half the time they do, they just lose ``roughly 60% of the time, and of the half that don't, we have no way of knowing why. Maybe it was because they were shit-bags who abandoned their kids. Maybe they agreed that the kids would get a better life with the mom(or the mom's parents). Maybe they had a career that would have made it difficult to afford to raise their kids by themselves. Maybe they thought a legal battle would be hard on their kids and wanted to make sure the split was amicable. Quite frankly, you and I have no way of knowing.

https://www.jmwlaw.com/blog/2021/01/dont-fall-for-this-child-custody-myth/#:\~:text=One%20of%20the%20most%20common,t%20true%20in%20most%20cases

And not a single one of these are credible. Guys, you can't post a bunch of links and say it's evidence. At least two of your links are opinion pieces and the other two are lawyers trying to rally you up to pay them money. Get good.

I truly didn't mean to include that one. And I really was juts trying to get the stats out there. The more reputable ones I found that, btw had the same stats, were academic articles that are pdfs.

I'm just saying, if you're going to debate with incel kids at least have better links. Reputable links are hard stone evidence that can't be warped. It doesn't matter if it has the same stats. The stats isn't what is going to sway someone, it's the explanation.

I totally get that but at the end of the day I have learned the hard way that, even when I present the most reputable sources one can, it doesn't get me anywhere with certain people. My goal is hopefully others that don't know can use it as a jumping off point to do deeper research of their own. Anyone not willing to do their own research about it is someone I'm not gonna be able to convince anyway.

... Statistics have always been better than personal experience for proving points. Sure, people can relate to a personal experience but a singular personal experience tells you nothing and can be flawed by the storyteller's perspective.

What do child custody rates have to do with what he said?

Bruh

Any answer? Y’all were talking about women cucking their husbands because they feel emotionally neglected, explain what that link had to do with that?

Women are genuinely more likely to get the kids in a custody battle.

Using complex geometry, that somehow adds up to this propaganda video.

It makes perfect sense if you've ~~never talked to a woman romantically and violently hate them because of it~~ read some things.

go lose money on gme lmao moass isnt coming

Been out of GME for about a year now, did you really go that far back in my comments? That can’t be it, you would’ve seen I actually made money off of it

here you go.

I'm sorry to say this, but you can't link a lawyer's website and say it's credible evidence lol. Yes, women do get more custody and that is unfair. No one disagrees with you on that. Not even feminists. It's the way y'all are making it is the problem.

Oh hey, thanks for that. I actually wasn't contending the disparity just in courts, but the whole premise of the comic.

It might be that women are favoured more in court cases, but I'm pretty sure women aren't some conniving group that get married, cuck their husbands, then divorce and take the money and kids.

Sadly this video is an almost accurate representation of why my fiancé ended things a few years ago. Only difference, no kids, thank god.

Also entirely accurate for me, x2, except I have had custody of my kids always. Bio mom abandoned (see video above for exact details). Step mom just abandoned (see video above again for exact details). This is the part where everyone says it's me not them. I have my kids, all that matters to me.

At least your priorities are right! Sorry it happened twice to you.

Lmao have you tried not being a redditor you fucking cuck

Friendly fire is prohibited

I will say as a person with over a decade experience in relationship counseling in some form that women who are that selvish may not be the majority but its probably about 10% which isnt anywhere near the majority and is unisex. In my opinion 30% of people overall are just pieces of shit. A lot of people raised wrong as hell. In the U.S. though id say people being raised to treat their significant other horribly are even more prevelant as thats how social norms often go.

My girlfriend’s parents split because her dad cheated when she was young. Same deal with my best friend. So sorry, I’ve got two stories and you’ve only got one, therefore I’m correct. That’s how you think it works, right, most anecdotal evidence decides the point?

If you want some actual evidence, I’ll share what I did in another comment, 22% of married men have committed an act of infidelity, vs 14% of women: https://www.divorcestatistics.info/latest-infidelity-statistics-of-usa.html

You're getting downvoted even when you smacked him with his own argument+ actually citing sources lmao

Math is for feminists and soyboys I guess.

A singular coworker is the reason you believe all 3.9 billion women in the world are exactly like this?

Did I say that dipshit? I said it’s common and this happens more than people would believe. Hence the video.

Bro, having a strong belief sucks. I'd suggest shaking it for your mental well being.

The fact you’re taking one coworker and saying “This is so common” is what makes you naive, you don’t hear about people in happy relationships or people who split up amicably because they don’t go around crying to anyone who will listen about it.

Guaranteed there’s a hell of a lot more incidents on the other side of your aisle, but keep that mentality about relationships and women up. Then in five years you’ll be the one crying

it’s common

This is why you're getting smacked around, because this is a stupid viewpoint. It's not common, not any more than murdered spouses. Look at all the crime shows, you'd think everyone was murdering everyone else. But they're not, it's just compelling. Same with stupid, bizarre stories like this video. It doesn't happen often at all, but on the rare chance it does it sticks to people because it's heavy.

"Akshually i knew a person this happened to so youre wrong" yes obviously thats how it works. This happened to me once so thats how it is.

No critical thinking apparently.

You can tell when the world's education system failed them lol.

Bro, lol! Nice trolling, but maybe don't propagandize kids. They are still learning.

"Uh, yeah bro this one chick who's friends with my dad's dentist's cousin's gay orgy organizer's secretary said this is exactly what women are like. All dumb bitches that will cuck you. So it's basically proven."

Man you’re ignorant - how to tell me you’re a child without telling me you’re a child.

This ^ This is the sort of antifeminist incel shit that you used to see in 2016 at the peak of the "anti-sjw" youtube wave, and what radicalized a lot of young men (including myself). I grew out of that but some people didn't.

It's sad that the neckbeard is upvoted more than you. It confirms to me Reddit is filled with the "nice guy" who complains that women only friendzone them, and then they are assholes to them.

This video almost never happens. What truly happens is both the man and woman work full time jobs but the woman is left with most of the chores and kid caring duties. And the man doesn't provide the same attention as they use to and ignores the pleas of help from the wife.

I truly feel sorry for women that they have to deal with this shit and there's this many shitty men out there. Yes, I get it, there's shitty women too. But there's clearly one gender that hasn't been treated equally since the dawn of humans, and it's definitely not males.

"But there's clearly one gender that hasn't been treated equally since the dawn of humans, and it's definitely not males."

Yes sure, women had their bad hand and men had their bad hand. Men were sent to die and women didn't have it good neither. Are you one of these women who claims that women are primary victims of war because men die in war?

No, humans aren't treated equally and no, it doesn't mean that men have it any better. That's what you believe because of you are a femtard.

Lol. I'm a man. And yeah, you use terms like femtard so I know all I need to know about you.

men at least gets to die in war and become hero’s in history books that generations after will learn about. the women get to live on by herself with all the kids and the farm and die someday alone as a nameless widowed hag. No matter how you cut it, women got it worse. what’s the point of living longer if the life is shitty?

I have a solution for you: don't get married as a woman then.

Problem solved?

More likely this way than the other way around, yes.

You’re just straight up incorrect, 22% of men vs 14% of women: https://www.divorcestatistics.info/latest-infidelity-statistics-of-usa.html

downvoted because I brought actual numbers instead of just regurgitating sexist bullshit, yall really don’t want to listen to the truth or have any dialogue do you?

Yeah because Reddit is filled with a bunch of sexist men who probably complain girls don't like them.

I get downvoted most of the time when I point out women are treated much worse than men. But somehow these neckbeards think men have it worse.

Dang. I didn't know that those men also got to keep the house, car, kids, child support, and alimony despite being in the wrong.

Do you have a source that they don’t, or that women in the same scenario do?

Do you?

You are the person making the claim that divorce proceedings are consistently blatantly biased towards men, I’m asking you for evidence, and instead of providing any evidence you ask me for it? I’m not making a claim, my guy, I’m asking you to back up yours and you’re not

https://www.marseelaw.com/gender-and-alimony-who-gets-it-who-pays-it-whats-changing/#:~:text=Women%20are%20still%20the%20primary,in%20the%20country%20were%20male.

In 2010, 3 percent of the 400,000 alimony recipients in the US were male.

https://www.mollybkenny.com/faqs/does-adultery-matter-in-a-washington-state-divorce.cfm

Adultery doesn't matter if it's a no fault state.

https://www.findlaw.com/family/divorce/an-overview-of-no-fault-and-fault-divorce-law.html

Of the states where you can file a fault divorce, only some will take that into account when deciding how resources are allocated.

Got sources for your counterclaim?

Yup, from your very first source: “The truth is that determining an alimony order is a complicated process and that an individual’s gender has no bearing on whether he or she is entitled to receive alimony after his or her divorce.” While I appreciate that you stopped trying to goofily push the burden of proof on me, I encourage you to read the sources you use to make your point.

There was a time I was naive enough that bias didn't exist in the legal system, but I quickly figured out that simply isn't true.

It just seems a bit odd to me that so many women are awarded alimony despite how many choose to not be faithful (14% cheat vs 97% getting alimony). I'd think it would be a bit less.

And sure gender may not be a factor in awarding alimony, but (edit: too often) neither is cheating on your spouse. (Edit: adultery should always be a factor for both sides)

I’m no law professor or divorce specialist so I’ve got little idea what goes on. fwiw, I think that split is odd too, I’m not sure why that is. But fair warning, there’s an old saying, “you can make statistics prove anything you want.” Don’t pull out the number without looking at what the article using it found.

As far as your conclusion, that’s kinda what I’ve been trying to put forwards, the video and circlejerk in this comment section gives me hella incel vibes, “women are just there to chase dick and abuse men.” The fellow I was talking with earlier comments almost exclusively on r/inceltears, defending the incels. It’s kinda sad that young het men these days grow up seeing this crap long before they actually get any experience with the opposite sex.

This is exactly what happened to my uncle. He lives with his parents now. So, yes this does happen more often than you think.

Nobody is saying it doesn’t happen at all, that said I’m sorry it happened to your uncle.

I know , but I did see this just play out with a military couple who moved in next door pre covid. It played out the course of 1.5 yr and its like they censored out their faces to save their identity. New guy lives next door now too and they both don't work. Just alimony funding their undeniable love. And I do feel for the Father and his kids. So not every time but when it does happen its pretty spot on play of events

Tons of guys go through this, it’s not propaganda it’s reality

Got a source to that?

Look at OP's profile, it is propaganda. I came from r/ENLIGHTENEDCENTRISM and this comment section is fucking wild! Dude's banner had the Nazi flag.

Not really propaganda when it's provably true in most instances.

Lmao. How is this shit upvoted. So you are saying all divorces play out like this one does? God damn

Some of them do. What I'm saying is that its better to not get married at all as a man, if the outcome will be a divorce 50% of the time.

That's an extremely outdated statistic

Yeah, what's the recent one?

It's still "almost" 50%. There was a decrease between 2009 and 2019 with it being around 40% of first marriages ending in divorce. But, COVID ramped it up to almost 50% due to people showing their true colors. Never marry someone until you've seen them in their really ups and really downs. Most divorces in the US are caused by what is called a "last straw" divorce. This includes substance abuse, domestic abuse/violence, and financial issues. Research, kids.

Or you could marry someone you love for sure to decrease those chances

That's why people get married, because they truly love that person. With all their heart and soul. They devote themselves to that person that they've held, loved, and cherished more than anything.

I don't think you understand the point of all of this. These men love their wives and would go to the end of the universe for them. But a lot of women switch up. And yes that woman that isn't like any other woman and it's your soulmate.. agree can switch up on you. And often they do. Not all of them. Not most of them. But a great deal of them really do

That is true, but it isn't a matter of love or not love. Most divorces don't end because they stopped loving each other. It's because of a bunch of factors. You can still love someone and get a divorce. They don't correlate.

Fair but it’s pretty uncommon for them to not go together

Divorce and marriage rate statistics vary state by state. For instance, Wyoming had the highest amount of marriages in 2020, due to it mostly being a lower populated state than other parts in the US. There are factors as to why people get divorced. It isn't as cut and dry as woman bad or man bad. Most happen due to domestic violence/abuse, substance abuse, and monetary issues such as debts, loans, and the overall shit economy in the US. Most people who get married want to stay married, but they are either lured in by a monster, their spouse refuses to go to rehab or seek treatment, or financial situations ruin their love and happiness for each other. This is what is called "last straw" divorces. They are the most common types of divorces. Please actually research and think critically before you plunge deeper into the incel or right wing world. It's a miserable and dark place. I've been there. Don't go there.

All the incel subs got banned, they had to flee to somewhere. Lots came here it seems.

Not all, but a lot of them. More than folks are willing to admit, judging by this comment section.

Lmao yes half of the population are definitely idiots. 70% still believe in a magic man in the sky who loves them very much

Cringe atheist

Oof ouch tell your imaginary friend I'm sorry.

Atheist = cool and edgy

We re cool and edgy because we don’t believe in a 3000 year old book of parables that talks about believing in a sky god?

God damn dude - use your head and try not to sound like a dipshit.

No you just make yourself sound like a douche when you attack them for their personal beliefs. You don't believe in a God that's fine. If you do then that's also fine. Let people think what they want, there is no right or wrong answer when it comes to theology. Pretending like you know the answers just makes you sound pretentious.

No there is a right answer when it comes to theology - where is there ANY evidence that god exists? Any angels come visit lately? Any “‘miraculous” pregnancies of virgins?

You saying there’s no problems with letting people think what they want? Look at covid misinformation just as one example, letting people think really fucked us on that didn’t it?

So do me a favor, take your self righteous bullshit - and fuck off.

Self-righteous? Me asking you to be open-minded and accepting of others is Self-righteous?

Also comparing theology to covid misinformation is a stretch. I said let people have whichever beliefs they want. Specifically religious beliefs.

One last thing because you don't seem to grasp the topic of theology but there's lots of religions and they vary in forms of beliefs. A person could be a Christian and not believe the story of the ark and all the other stories to be factual. A person could believe that nothing but science is correct but still doubt certain things like the origin of the universe. Everyone has their own opinions and we should embrace them and learn from them. It sucks that you've closed your mind so much. Hopefully one day you won't be so hateful. Have a great day.

You don't believe in a God that's fine. If you do then that's also fine.

I don't care if you believe in god but if you believe in a church that denies homosexuality and places women subordinate to men then we got problems.

The problem is that most people look at parts of the Christian church and label every single person in that religion according to the shitty things they do. It's just like in the Islam religion how people look at the extremists and label every single person within Islam according to that. There's plenty of religious people who are very open minded and rarely even talk about their beliefs with other people. Especially nowadays where religious persecution is very prevalent in our society.

But I do agree with you, those actions need to be condemned by everyone. Including the people within those religions/churches.

Thanks I dont generally feel that way but I'm glad you do.

I'm not religious nor did I ever say I was I'm just saying you sound like fucking asshole.

Not sure why you’re being downvoted when you’re speaking truth. Oh wait….

Yeah if I had instead said "50% of the population believes that brown cows make chocolate milk" I would have hurt less feelings. But the God thing usually strikes a nerve

Yea because hate campaigns based on religion is an evil thing, normally within the religious communities but we would think as an atheist you would be better than all that! You aren't, you've just proven yourself to be another hate-monger. You are literally no different than a hateful Christian

i've lost my beliefs in god. it's like santa or any of those other holiday fairytales, once you see the holes, they get bigger.

15 year old syndrome

The fiery pits of Hell will be the only warmth you'll feel

And of those divorces, how many do you think happen because the woman is an EvIl pSychOpAthiC lYiNg BitCh?

You realize men cheat more than women? You realize men also abuse women more than women abuse men - right?

This video is bullshit incel propaganda designed self-victimizing bullshit, when in reality this scenario rarely happens, and it's most likely the woman will be the victim in real life.

I see more men committing suicide after divorces than women. I'd bet men were victims more often than the women, but okay. Keep believing whatever you want to help you sleep better at night.

This is true. I’d estimate that more men get abused than women honestly if it’s not about the same on both sides. Society today just tells men that they have to suck it up or “man up” and “take it like a man” because men are supposed to just be emotionless walls of muscle and therefore the majority of male victims just never tell anyone it’s happening for fear of being made fun of or being looked down upon for not being able to take it. Some of the things in this video are a bit out there but that part is definitely one of the more realistic points.

I’d estimate that more men get abused than women honestly if it’s not about the same on both sides.

Listen dude, I'll be honest with you. No one gives a shit what you estimate. The actual numbers don't agree with you.

The recorded numbers, anyway.

Which are sure as hell better than you, me, or that other dude can "estimate" from what we experience in our personal lives or see examples of online. Unless you happen to make a hobby of properly surveying large randomized datasets of couples from across the country.

So you assert that there are absolutely no factors, cultural or otherwise that may affect the number of men who are willing to report abuse of them by women? None at all?

there might be but can you not also say the same for women? not until recently are women encouraged to speak up about abuses. They were told for thousands of years to “shut up and don’t embarrass your family’s name/husband/village of those type of stories!” “maybe you haven’t done xyz for him so that’s why he smack your head of the kitchen counter”, etc. Hell in India today, you will get revenge tortured and killed if you come out and accuse rape of a man.

absolutely no factors, cultural or otherwise that may affect the number of men who are willing to report abuse of them by women?

There probably are. There are for women too, have you ever heard of "fear of reprisal?" Someone scared to tell people that their husband hits them because that husband might do something even worse when he finds out? Or how about fear of being ignored by police? Police might ignore men too, but surely an organization that literally stopped tracking how many officers beat their wives each year because it was so high isn't 100% trustworthy to women either?

I'd bet men were victims more often than the women

That's an assumption. You don't have to be a victim to experience mental health issues or commit suicide. Some people deeply regret making bad choices that end up ruining their lives. They realize how good they had it and can't live with the guilt.

That would imply everyone is married

More than half of the pop is made of idiots, absolutely.

So if I turn on a lamp and it doesn't light up, does it mean it's unplugged? Because I had one before that didn't light up that was unplugged and based on this logic, all lamps that don't light up are the same and must be unplugged.

The whole half all marriages statistic is completely made up. In reality it is much lower than that.

I’d say OVER half the population qualifies as idiotic, but that’s a different topic. Also, the point is bucking this cringe incel narrative in the “meme”. Yeah, marriages crumble, but are you seriously saying it’s all the women cheating and ruining the marriage, none of the guys doing it? No? That’s laughably pathetic if you think so.

It’s about an even split, because surprise, bad partners are bad people, regardless of gender! Wowee!

Damn, imagine being so stupid you think divorces happen because woman bad. Nice job, kids! You'll get far!

You're an idiot

Maybe I am, but I will never be a divorced idiot.

It's not like anyone is ever going to give you that chance anyway. Don't overestimate yourself.

Looks like you’re the one crying in this situation lmao

Lmao you clearly have seen/experienced a marriage fall apart

Damn , people make mistakes that doesn't mean that they are idiots .

It's still sad that someone out there has went through this cycle lmao, however of a gross generalization it may be

you being satire? right?

It's almost like people don't realise that feminism about equality

I don’t think that a man marrying someone who expected more from a guy than they can reasonably provide and then feeling the negative consequences of that persons actions makes them stupid. You’re kinda preoccupied when you work constantly to try to give your kids and wife a good life.

The wife disrespecting that person and taking the children they love and the courts supporting that woman and favouring her in custody is stupid.

the imbalances in divorce court aren't "incel shit"

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this reads like you're an angsty teenager

No. This is a pretty common issue affecting good men. You're in denial probably because it doesn't affect you. You just don't see it. This comment is sad and apparently a lot of people think like you do which means there's still work to be done. Seriously, take a step back and check your privilege. We aren't whining. We're bringing up a serious issue. I personally know some very good men, upstanding citizens and all, who got fucked over by a divorce judge (usually female). It happens. The system is heavily rigged against men. It's horrific and cruel. I'm not sure what you think you're gaining by denying reality, but it doesn't help anyone.

Pretty sure it applies to almost everyone, dont need to be an incel

It's just telling a story that we hear all too often. I don't see how being an idiot has anything to do with it. Plenty of horror stories from the other side of the fence too, where the wife goes through hell because of a shitty husband. Usually in divorce, though, it's the husband that gets screwed over. In the female version of this story, the wife's horror story happens while they are still married.

Woman's side can be worse. If they sign a prenup and its like 10+ years into the marriage. Man can be on business, fucking whores, doin coke, and supporting a 2nd family even. Woman has given up a career to be a mom, with no real work options and knows she won't even have a home if they get divorced.

Source: Mom signed a prenup, dad fucked whores and did coke.

Good luck with your future divorces.

You forgot your crown king

The only idiot here is the one who tries to bend the problem by calling it incel shit even though they're themselves more incel than people who have experienced this shit. It's just facts, women tend way more to have the custody as well as child support funded by the man. Depression and loneliness also factually hit men way more. There's nothing you can deny so you try making up bs excuses

Except neither the custody nor ensuing loneliness are the cause of the divorce in this video. It’s the behaviors/text attributed to the woman that’s what makes this video cringe incel material.

Or... the woman in the video is simply a piece of shit

Don't forget racism why else use a black guys pfp completely breaking the style.

keep your whiny comments coming I love it. Women bad!!!!

I mean, some women are bad. Women aren't all perfect angels, women are human beings and human beings can be bad sometimes.

bro ikr this is so cringe to watch

Love how the top comment to yours is someone correcting your spelling. This shows they are just incels who don’t have a real argument, and blame women for their shitty life when really it’s their shitty selves.

You’re a fucking asshole and an idiot. This type of shit happens a lot. The laws are rigged heavily against men in America. I know 5 close (male) friends that got ABSOLUTELY SHAFTED in divorce. I mean, life shattering, never gonna recover, living in hell type shit. All of them are decent people, loved their kids, tried their best etc etc. but it doesn’t matter, the courts ALWAYS rule in favor of the mother. Even if she is a drunk, or a druggie, or a whore etc. it is fucking crazy watching the shit go down irl.

The cringiest part is that the person who made this probably hasn't even had a girlfriend yet and is already setting themselves up for a failed relationship future because of their shitty self pity mindset

"Just idiots and idiots."

Did you know that at least 49% of the human population are idiots? I'm probably one of them since I don't consider myself smarter than most people.

So, that means that the secnario depicted by the OP would happen to just under "most" men and women, according to your logic.

If this was an incel post, it would depict the dad harassing the mom using the video as justification - of which, of course, it doesn't. Nor does it justify negative treatment of anyone.

I literally couldn't agree more. The entire video is an incels wet dream. Cringe af.

Wife bad 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

You’re the voice of reason in this thread.

OP’s profile banner is literally a swastika, they are not a reliable person

And are you giving rewards to yourself..

So you dude

Uses the "incel" buzzword on a post that accurately describes (more or less) the reason why men suicide rates are so high. Gets rewards and up votes for it. Cool reddit, never change.

It's damn clear that you've never been deceived in life by another person and do not have a single idea on how it feels to have someone "move on" from you without any say or further control on your part. Life is insanely cruel and deception doesn't take idiots. Just someone that wants to get something that they don't otherwise from you and you who's looking for happiness in another person (which is why self sufficiency is so valued now adays as people are crap in general).

Says the idiot who doesn't realize how psychology works. Some people aren't constantly analyzing their partner for breaches of trust. Especially considering everything that lead up to present day. A relationship CANNOT work without trust.

acting like good people don’t get cheated on is ridiculous. people change. couples that are married 10+ years have had their spouse cheat because of things just like in that video. they get bored and turn into someone you never expected them to. the video was a little cringe but acting all alpha male in the comments like that shit can’t happen to anybody other than “idiots” (basically saying if you get cheated on it’s on you) is fucking ridiculous.

Please enlighten our reddit family on 1. How to identify these idiots? 2. How to understand if you are the idiot yourself and work upon it?

Well your not wrong

after reading your comment, the title is 100% accurate

dont care + didnt ask + cry about it + stay mad + get real + L + mald seethe cope harder + h0es mad + basic + skill issue + ratio + you fell off + the audacity + triggered + any askers + redpilled + get a life + ok and? + cringe + touch grass + dono walled + not based + your’re probably white + not funny didn’t laugh + you’re* + grammar issue + go outside + get good + reported + ad hominem + GG! + ur mom don’t care + didn’t ask + cry about it + stay mad + get real + L + mald seethe cope harder + hoes mad + basic + skill issue + ratio + you fell off + the audacity + triggered + any askers + redpilled + get a life + ok and? + cringe + touch grass + dono walled + not based + you’re a full time discordian + not funny didn’t laugh + you’re* + grammar issue + go outside + get good + your gay + reported + ad hominem + GG! + ur mom + unknown + random + biased + racially motivated + kys + ur unfunny +ratio don’t care + didn’t ask + cry about it + stay mad + get real + L + mald seethe cope don’t care + didn’t ask + cry about it + stay mad + get real + L + mald seethe cope harder + h0es mad + basic + skill issue + ratio + you fell off + the audacity + triggered + any askers + redpilled + get a life + ok and? + cringe + touch grass + dono walled + not based + your’re probably white + not funny didn’t laugh + you’re* + grammar issue + go outside + get good + reported + ad hominem + GG! + ur mom don’t care + didn’t ask + cry about it + stay mad + get real + L + mald seethe cope harder + hoes mad + basic + skill issue + ratio + you fell off + the audacity + triggered + any askers + redpilled + get a life + ok and? + cringe + touch grass + dono walled + not based + your’re a full time discordian + not funny didn’t laugh + you’re* + grammar issue + go outside + get good + your gay + reported + ad hominem + GG! + ur mom + unknown + random + biased + racially motivated + kys + ur unfunny +ratio don’t care + didn’t ask + cry about it + stay mad + get real + so bad + so ass

Incel in what way? This is a lot more common than you think children not being able to see their children because of the bullshit legal system

I'm sure you're getting your fair share of heated responses, but you shouldn't be ignorant of the fact that this is not just some nuetral "idiots being idiots" situation.

Divorce and custody laws heavily benefit women, and that incentives "idiot" women to do shit like this and come out the other end of it with the house, kids and communal sympathy.

I"ve seen it happen to many "decent" men who were misled by ho's

It's what happens when women are raised by Kratrashian media (all the bullshit media that led to it's creation.)

I don't in good conscious ever tell a man to consider marriage and family unless they absolutely can't live with out the concept of it.

Most "think" they want it, and regret it badly in the end when it ends up pretty much like this.

Fucking thank you. I was expecting a lot more ridicule in these comments. SMH

"This is what happens if your an idiot and marry an idiot. This isn't what happens to men and women. Just idiots and idiots."

Is one an idiot if he expects his partner to be faithful?

Is one an idiot to expect no-biased courts?

Do these thing really only happen to idiots or is there something more to it?

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Some question you should ask yourself.

Well, you can look at stats on divorce and even if this is a pretty extreme case presented in the video, when there's a divorce the man usually gets fucked up (loses children custody, money etc)

Incels and edgy teenage boys downvoting you rn.

And divorcees who've been screwed by the legal system...but that's none of my business.

Yeah this post reeks of incels and anti-SJW edgelords. Happy to see there is another well adjusted adult in this thread.

Get back in the kitchen!

I will!! I'm a guy and I do most of the cooking for me and my fiance. I like making roasted tomato and Italian sausage cream pasta with Tuscan spice seasoning. It's delicious.

Sounds dilish.

For me its mince and cheesy mash potatoes. Omelette+onions+cheese+mini tomatoes
Can make a dish I cant remember the name of, spaghetti, runny egg, bacon, parmesan cheese garlic and onion.

Chicken teriyaki and Worcester sauce

Seasoned medium rare steak ...to name about 50% :(

My yoke would have been eggcellent if darth were a washing machine

Damn you sure showed him

Shut up washing machine

Damn you sure showed him

Literally. Fellas. Stop internalizing worse case potentialities. I was there when I was younger. I'm happier now. Will this happen to some people? Maybe. But it's unlikely.

Bad stuff happens in an echo chamber of single guys

Yess dude!!!!!

MY GOD, THE ONLY NORMAL PERSON I’M ABLE TO FIND HERE

Agreed always the most ridiculous off the walls story’s are always by some idiot who Gets married within a few months

I'm not sure it's just idiots but we don't talk enough about female reputation destruction about the fathers to their children.

I am a woman and it happens all the time at is a level of child abuse we don't seem to want to discuss.

Fucking right? Jesus Christ, I guess dankmemes is just where the incels ran to when everything else got shut down.

People fail to understand that bad people are bad people. The end. Guys cheat, girls cheat, and the trusting party is taken for a ride. Now sure, I think custody needs a keen eye sometimes, it shouldn’t default to women as it does in some courts, but that doesn’t mean justice isn’t served, nor does it mean mother’s don’t get screwed either.

Oh, also, OP is a literal Nazi, check his banner, haha! Is it any surprise he’s an incel?

Bruh ur the first of your species i hv ever seen on reddit, i mean ur kind is generally found in PvP and battle royale games...

I love that OP and these incel babies really think I'm mad over this. Everyone on this sub is a straight up loser lol! Very r/ENLIGHTENEDCENTRISM

This belongs in r/nothowgirlswork

It is pure incel bullshit.

This is incel propaganda. They are portraying the woman as a lying cheating scumbag out for money and trying to drum up hate against women.

In reality, most women struggle after divorce financially because they sacrificed their careers to become stay at home moms. The court knows this, yet the fathers required to pay alimony bitch about "how much money they have to sacrifice" while being completely selfish. Many women are scared of leaving their abusive, terrible husbands because they sacrificed their jobs to raise a kid.

If you actually want a realistic description of most cases, watch the miniseries Maid, not some bullshit an butthurt misogynist pos put together to fuel the hatred against women.

Meanwhile, studies show that more men cheat on women than women cheat on men. Almost all domestic abuse cases, rape, and incest are from husbands. And often, these scumbags will create videos like this because the woman "dares" to leave. 1 in 3 girls suffer sexual assault from a close family member, often the father - where is that story?

Yet, while most women divorce because of physical or emotional abuse, the story these incels are pushing is one to further hate the women. Maybe they should start asking why the men are such abusers rather than gaslighting the victim.

Where is the story of the rich millionaire husband that tosses his ex-wife (because he cheated) out without a single penny to raise their son? I saw this unfold first hand, yet these incels refuse to realize this.

These incels are just trying to find ways to make women the villain so that their hatred is justfied. This needs to end.

It works both ways as do most things. I'm interpreting this to be a message about how men's mental health is widely neglected. Both the scenario shown above and the one you describe are wrong and should be scorned equally by any parties adjacent to such goings on.

If you want to discuss the neglect of mens health, then don't abuse women in the process to create incel fuel.

I'm not doing anything. This is a depiction of something that absolutely does happen, just like the reverse does. Recognizing this isn't abuse of any sort.

Yeah, I'm watching this knowing full well my mum made my dad's living, buying his first house and then had to leave due to his abuse, then he took half of our money whilst refusing to pay childsupport. I'm tired of people trying to generalise men and women as if we all aren't individuals with different experiences.

Yeah it's just incel propaganda. I did a deepdive on the history of Reddit on my r/RedditReform sub, and Reddit is one of the major birthplaces of incels. No surprise these vile scumbags are still trying to drum up hate after all this time.

They know that young kids mostly browse r/dankvideos, which motivates them to post this propaganda bullshit stir up more hatred.

You're partially correct, and partially incorrect. Because the post is also correct. It happens to everyone, regardless of gender. It's about how a person is, not what's in their pants.

Probably because stuff like this happens

My old boss, who was very successful/millionaire. Wife cheating on him, got divorced, literally took everything. Now he has to pay her 30K a month in alimony & Child support. He’s no longer a millionaire.

It happens way too often and it sucks

there should be a rule that if the wife cheats and wants a divore the child support should be cut by 50%

Unfortunately, divorce laws are extremely archaic, even more than copyright law

They’re really pretty straight forward, it’s the dividing assets that gets messy. In a lot of marriages where the wife is in a stay at home role, she will be given a sizable alimony since she has forgone a career to presumably take care of the children and house. It sucks that divorce costs people so much, and it’s a shame that men are given unfair treatment in matters of child custody. But for alimony and retirement, etc. that’s part of the (usually) unspoken agreement of one partner staying home.

It should change with qualification. Like good degree meabs she could have good career choices. Drop out not so much etc

not necessarily. my mom’s friend was a stay at home mom and now can’t get a proper job because the 20+ year gap in the resume is a huge turn off for employers, despite her education and experience before that gap. those qualifications don’t mean too much to employers after that long of a gap. when someone becomes a stay at home parent, that is forgoing a career, regardless of previous qualifications.

please don't act like she has it hard since she was a stay at home mom for 20 years.. being a stay at home parent is a luxury that alot of guys don't have and wish they could have that instead of slaving at work almost everyday.

then become a stay at home dad bro

But really staying home and raising the kids is something one person can do, you hear about single parents all the time. So it seems like if you can’t make the marriage work or you have all the free time at home to literally start a second relationship then you should probably get nothing at all except a fucking job if you cheat. And you should be the one paying child support and you should lose custody since you’re an unfit parent obviously willing to put your families well-being in the shitter

Being a single parent is not easy, or ideal. Regardless it’s an agreement that two people entered into that has repercussions when the marriage is dissolved.

Being a single parent is not easy, or ideal. Regardless it’s an agreement that two people entered into that has repercussions when the marriage is dissolved.

Copyright laws weren't think for megacorporations that each own 33% of all western media.

Brain read this as "..the child should be cut in half."

Ah yes, Divorce: King Solomon Style

For those who don’t get the reference: https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Judgement_of_Solomon

hey just tell me in short

Two women brings King Solomon a child and claims that the child is theirs. Solomon then claims, perhaps wanting to keep things “fair”, to cut the child in half and give each half to each of the two women. One of the women agrees while the other doesn’t want the child to die and asks to simply just let the other woman have the child. King Solomon then awards custody to the woman that wants to preserve the child’s life, thus showcasing his wisdom given by God.

Should be if the bitch cheats she gets 0 alimony, 0 custody of the kid and only gets visiting rights. Some bullshit as reasons the mother gets custody

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Huh?

If you cut the child support you are fucking the kids. A law limiting child support due to parental behavior does not exist for the same reason that you cannot renounce child support in a prenup. In a state that assigns “fault” in divorce you can legally remove alimony due to adultery, but child support does not depend on the behavior of the parents.

I feel like the person doing the divorcing should be paying unless there is actually proof the other person did something (like cheating)

So a parent who stayed at home to take care of the kids but wants a divorce because their spouse turns into a jerk has to pay the spouse with the active career and no gaps in their resume? That's a pretty bad precedent to set there.

Reread my comment

unless there is actually proof the other person did something (like cheating)

Someone being a jerk is not like cheating. People change, drift apart, have personality changes, etc. Unless you think someone saying "we don't get along anymore" should be all it takes to force that other person to pay with not equitable splits

Cheating was just an example, I didn’t mean things on the same level as cheating

Unless you think someone saying "we don't get along anymore" should be all it takes to force that other person to pay with not equitable splits

So you think this is how it should work then? That's absurd

Never said it did, you just changed your stance to make my counter argument look absurd

Giving examples of reasons people get divorced and asking if you think that should force a stay-at-home spouse to have to pay is not changing my stance. As I said in your other reply since you decided to make two separate comments for some reason, I gave you multiple examples of why people get divorced. So do you believe a stay at home spouse should be forced to pay because they don't get along with the other person anymore? It is a straight forward question.

Yeah, if you want a divorce for a reason as simple as “we don’t get along” the divorcee shouldn’t have to pay child support

Glad to know you want to trap people in unhappy relationships after they gave up their careers to raise the family. Or I guess you want the children to live in poverty for 50% of the time because the spouse who kept their career has the money and isn't providing for the kids half the time.

The parent that isn’t working shouldn’t always get paid, they can do bad things too

I hope you are a child because you clearly don't understand how this all works. Child support pays to support the life of the child. The stay at home spouse has been putting all their working time into the family. You are punishing both the child and someone who did a key job for the family but wasn't compensated for it. Them being forced to pay to leave an unhappy marriage is forcing them to stay otherwise they will be financially destroyed and the children they have spent X amount of years raising will have a far worse life because one of their parents is completely broke being forced to pay child support after giving up a career.

If the stay at home spouse does something bad the other one is still supposed to pay? That’s crazy, that would be punishing the person that didn’t do anything

Are you serious right now? Plenty of people get divorced without either doing a specific bad thing.

And in situations like that the parent that initiated the divorce should pay

So again, you want to trap the spouse who gave up their career for the family and you want to harm the children by forcing one parent into poverty.

Yea, if it’s over petty shit like “we don’t get along as much as we used to”

You think it is petty to be unhappy in a relationship? Have you ever been married or in a years long relationship? Sometimes people change and added tension leads to an unhappy marriage with neither person doing anything "bad".

I think it’s petty enough for one of the parents to not loose a shit ton of money because their spouse divorced them

Child support is for the children, why do you keep getting confused on that? They aren't losing a ton of money, they are paying for the children that they created. And why do you think it is petty to want to leave an unhappy marriage? Would you prefer they stay until it is unbearable and have a mental breakdown or kill themselves?

Also why did you switch from the divorcée being a jerk to the divorcer using “we don’t get along anymore” as an excuse?

It's an example. "They are a jerk now" "We don't like the same things anymore" "We want to live different lifestyles" They are all reasons people get divorced but aren't close to the level of abuse or cheating.

if someone wants a divorce for “we don’t like the same things anymore” than the divorcee shouldn’t have to pay child support

So you want to force a stay at home spouse in a relationship that is bad for them (which makes it bad for everyone in the relationship) because they can't afford to leave because they gave up their career to raise the shared family?

You keep going back and forth between “stay at home Spouse that doesn’t get along with their partner anymore” and “stay at home spouse that is an unhealthy relationship”

Here's a secret, if someone isn't getting along with their partner anymore, it is an unhealthy relationship. Why are you so afraid to confirm something you declared so confidently earlier?

True. I wonder how anyone can possibly survive with less than $30,000 a month.

There also should be one that ensures that the child support money actually is used to support children

1000% this

When my parents divorced, my mother was getting child support and only used it on us. She could have used it to buy herself stuff, but it went towards feeding us, clothing us, our car expenses, etc. she had too much pride to use it on herself as she wanted nothing to do with him. I respect her for that, and him for paying it every month even with no court order.

Parents don’t have to like each other after a divorce, but child support should be just that - money used on the CHILD not the ex spouse.

My old stepmom bold-face lied to family law courts and over the years secured child support for her three kids from THREE men - the biological father, my dad and then some poor sucker afterwards who got taken in by this well-practiced serial divorcee.

Long story short, after years of withering shittalk to her kids about what a deadbeat POS my dad was, well into her 20s the middle daughter sought him out I guess on a fact-finding/reconciliation mission. She told him that they had to sleep on inflatable mattresses because, as she was informed by her mom, dad was just such an unrepentant deadbeat that they couldn't afford beds and she needed to know if what her mom said was true.

They'd met up at dad's apartment and so he retrieved all the receipts for 13 years of timely, full payments to the province. It took her a bit but she put two and two together and remembered just how uncannily often her mom had to go on "business trips" to Costa Rica and seemingly every tropical destination under the sun while they slept on the floor back in those bad old days. Oh and adding to her ever growing galaxy-sized Swarovski crystal collection in lieu of fees for her children's school/class excursions, etc. And I guess that released a whole cascade of "Oh my god, now this other event/situation/behavior I remember from childhood about mom now makes sense" realizations.

She's candid that always have a love for her mother, but she has come to terms with her being an incorrigibly deceitful, selfish and well-practiced piece of shit by trade. I think she fits the bill as a psychopath, given her 'it's all about me' disregard for the pain she's wrought on her own kids, my dad and I, and good trusting people in general.

Anyway, yeah. Receipts and occasional audits should be abso-fucking-lutely mandatory to prove money was spent towards sustaining and enriching the children, and not what I described in paragraphs prior.

Torture, best option

I don’t understand why it shouldn’t just be zero. If you cause a divorce, then too fucking bad either get a job or maybe the other parent gets the child.

No that should result in the father of the children being the one with primary/full custody barring a major grievance.

Punish the children? How does that help?

No it definitely shouldn’t be. Let’s say the child has a very poor mother, and a relatively well off father. The mother, for whatever reason, may it be the choice of the father or simply a severe misjudgment of the responsible judge, gains custody. Why does the child, who’s completely innocent in its mothers cheating, deserve to be punished for its mothers actions by having to live in poverty?

You can make the case that the father could either offer to take in the child and stop paying child support/ pay 50% less of the split is in his favour, but otherwise you’re just pissing all over an innocent kid because you condemn it’s mothers actions

Child support is not about the parent. it is about the child. That is why in some case you are forced to pay for support for a child which is not yours, in some nasty divorce.

I don't see why the child should receive less money because of the actions of the mother. If anything the alimony should be cut back, not child support.

Since men are more likely to cheat than women, I guess if the man cheats you'd be fine with the wife getting an extra 50% as well?

In general, men are more likely than women to cheat: 20% of men and 13% of women reported that they’ve had sex with someone other than their spouse while married, according to data from the recent General Social Survey(GSS).

https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america#:~:text=also%20means%20infidelity.-,In%20general%2C%20men%20are%20more%20likely%20than%20women%20to%20cheat,gender%20gap%20varies%20by%20age.

No that is exactly what everyone is talking about and you are saying its ok and its not.

What fucking child needs 30 thousand fucking dollars a month

Can I be that child?

I'm an adult, but still

Those laws are designed so that the child has the same lifestyle that they would if they lived with the higher income person full time. If parent 1 is a millionaire but parent 2 is now lower/middle class due to divorce then the child will be in an environment that they are not accustomed to half of the time with split custody. Its designed to benefit the kids, but shitty people will take advantage of any situation they can, rather than saving the extra money for college or a house, shitty people will just spend it on themselves. Fuck anyone who takes money from their kids.

I don't understand the reasoning that a higher income divorcee is somehow obligated to provide their non-custodial child with the same lifestyle they had before.

What would make sense to me is requiring the higher income individual to provide what the child needs and allowing the parent the opportunity to go above and beyond that.

The law as you describe is really going too far.

I call bullshit on this story. Most states have a cap for the amount of money it takes to raise a kid or kids annually. In NY where I was divorced for two kids the cap is 150,000. So the pre divorce income has to be relatively high to justify that. Then it gets broken down by how much of the income each partner was contributing and how much time the kids will spend with each parent.

In my divorce we met the requirements for 150,000 for two kids annually. Once all the math was done I had to pay around 40k a year to my ex.

30k a month for child custody.... Only thing I could think is that it would be like 8+ children and this guy wanted no custody... Even then... Highly unlikely

there has to be a law against paying alimony for spouses that cheat during marriage.

I totally agree, but these things can be so messy thats putting more laws in would just make the whole thing even worse, what really needs to happen is each case should be looked at more thoroughly and with morals taken into account, WITHOUT costing someone entire lifesaving just to get back they're life, I almost wish marriage was a personal thing, not something acknowledge by the state, but hell I can see that causing problems as well

Varies by state, but in most cases, infidelity has zero bearing on the settlement of divorce.

Are you a lawyer? Because my experience with it has been the complete opposite. Spouses who cheat get fucked in the divorce, as long as the other spouse can prove the infidelity or the cheater admits to it.

Look up No Fault Divorce

Its a backwards law

Prenuptial agreement 😔

Only applies to assets that were gained previous to the marriage. Most that is gained during the marriage is a shared asset and split with divorce. Unfortunately a prenup isn’t that much of a protection as a lot of people think it is

You can have a prenuptial agreement that prevents this. It applies to anything you agree for it to apply to. If you agree for the husband to give 84.7% of all pre and post marriage assets to his wife, that's the agreement. At least in my state.

I was told when we looked into it that there isn’t really anything you can sign for post marriage assets that would hold up in court. We could have made a prenup agreement to split pre marriage assets a certain way. Maybe I was advised incorrectly

The reality is that the judge in the case has very wide discretion in what is going to happen. If you get a judge that doesn't want to take your side on the matter then it doesn't matter what happened before. They can just decide how its going to be.

You were told inaccurate information.

I had a pre nup. I got divorced. Our pre nup fully covered all monies earned for the decade we spent together. There are some things that can't be put in pre nup: custody of children, child support (this is mandated by state laws), and some other things that I can't think of right now. But for the monetary aspect there are few rules or guidelines. Our pre nup was definitely a unique and curated contract.

Prenups tend to be less reliable than they should since the judge can(and often does) just throw them out.

Huh? That does not happen often at all. There are only a few reasons they get 'thrown out' of the pre nup was signed under distress, if the pre nup was signed under the influence, or if the pre nup is wildly unfair to one party.

Do you have experience with this? I went through a messy divorce, or pre nup held up fine and my lawyer said she had never had one 'thrown out'.

I was more referring to how the judge is able to throw out the prenup if they arbitrarily decide that it is "unfair", but after looking it up, you're right in saying that it happens a lot less than I had realized.

The court can overturn it.

Which is easily nullified by a decent lawyer

Interesting. My divorce attorney is old and had done thousand of divorces. Mostly high net worth individuals. I inquired about our pre nup and if it would hold up. She said she had never had one that hasn't held up in court.

Are you an attorney? How did you come to the opinion that a good attorney can nullify a pre nup?

One of many reasons to never get married.

This is why you get a prenup, I don’t care how much you think you love her, protect your damn assets. Love will blind you in the moment.

Not statistically usual. And any "millionaire" should be able to afford 30K, which is usually time limited as well.

The economy of the family changes for the worse after a divorce, particularly for mothers. Men’s incomes are much higher than women’s following a divorce.17) Between 1992 and 1994, the median family income of divorced women who did not remarry or begin cohabiting was less than half that of their continuously-married counterparts.18) A 2001 study found that women who divorce suffer significant declines in family income, even if they do subsequently remarry or cohabit. This study found that single divorced women’s median family income dropped 45 percent, while the median income of remarried or cohabiting women was 14 percent lower than before their divorce.19)

Following a divorce, the financial situation of the custodial parent is drastically affected by the children’s presence. The parent with custody of the children experiences a 52 percent drop in his or her household income.20) For divorced mothers with children during the years 1987 to 1994, that drop in household income translated into $20,000 less, according to analysis of the National Survey of Families and Households.21)

http://marripedia.org/effects.of.divorce.on.financial.stability

This study found that single divorced women’s median family income dropped 45 percent

Not sure what that's trying to show. With the man being gone from the family, it means that, if this was a two income household, it went down to a one income household after the divorce. A drop of 45% means she's still making 55% as much income with half as many workers.

And any "millionaire" should be able to afford 30K,

That's 30K per month, which works out to 360K per year. That's a LOT of money, and can easily make you not a millionaire. If he was worth only one million, it'd take all his money in less than 3 years.

Who cals themselves a millionaire if they have ONE?

No millionaire I know of can afford a $30k a month expense. You would need $11 million in investments just to cover this one expense and no others.

Yeah because you know all the details of their relationship lol

How is bezos doing?

https://youtu.be/Y1ZJiBHh-Yw

Old but relevant

And then they say that men got advantage and more rights

That money prob doesn’t even go towards the kids. She prob spends it on shit she doesn’t need

Can I get the address of the girl? Uhh, I just wanna talk

man with all do respect but fuck your country rules it's sucks

Haha he got mad cucked

any woman who would accept that kind of money from a man is trash. She must of planned this awhile ago and just used him for the money. Cause if she truly loved him she would not accept these terms

30k A FUCKING MONTH, THAT WOMAN IS ABUSING THE ALIMONY SYSTEM JESUS FUCK!!

I thought if you get caught cheating you can’t go after their money?? Did he decide to not bring that up in court or something? adultery is actually a class 4 misdemeanor in my state lol

Damn, i hope I don't met that kind of girl

you mean you hope you never meet any girl ever?

If they act like this then yes

Nice warped sense of reality you've got there.

Lmao okay incel

No way you are older than 12 bro.

Also dang. You really gotta learn when to hold your typing fingers. The last 30 comments you have are downvoted to oblivion. You've probably lost 1000 karma already.

Lol he’s on r/wallstreetbets

And allloot of cringe r/tinder posts

Do me a favor, the first instant that I give a flying fuck what people on the internet think of me... just end me. You continue having your opinions and I'll have mine. No idea why people think being "liked" is a good thing, I'll happily be the grouchy old man who lives in a cabin in the woods by myself if it means not sacrificing my principles just to conform to the masses.

LMAO you’re trying to influence how this internet commenter thinks of you with this reply. So should we end you now?

Definitely like 15

Someone either has a bad life, or is trying to manipulate my response. Either way, calm down bro. Cabins are nice and all, but they don't have the best insulation. The woods is full of critters that try to sneak in the house and steal your food. Being happy and grouchy at the same time isn't a thing. Seems like you need a friend. I'm not an expert or anything, but tinder probably isn't the best place for that.

Damn dude that's an awful lot of words to say that you don't give a fuck. Maybe at least just a single fuck? Although considering you're an incel you're definitely not going to get a fuck

You seem like the kind of person who believes conspiracy theories about sasquatch and water turning frogs gay.

just get a woman from another country with better rules

I agree with ya about this

Isn’t there a meme where people say women aren’t real or smth

I'm sorry a girl hurt you in 7th grade

Yeah bc if its literally all of them or its you, statistically its all of them. Yup.

Most relationships are perfectly healthy, and if they aren’t then they usually end in a healthy manner.

Not all girls are like this, bro I know someone hurt you

This guy got married against his will, had children against his will, and then didn’t exercise boundaries or communication. Will you do that?

You’re acting like this says anything remotely insightful about women as a whole. This entire thread needs to go to the god damn bar, have a drink, and get laid ffs

Well you follow incel propaganda so it's safe to say no girl wants to meet you. I'm afraid it's jacking off to underage anime tiddies for you.

What’s the song?

Buttercup

By Jack Stauber

Holy heck Jack Stauber made that????

Yes, my first taste of Stauber was Buttercup and Peppermint and I was like "he's a good singer if he gets on tiktok as a background song for memes." and. And then I saw "Opal" and I was like "oh this man is more than just a indie singer..."

Id call him an artist more than a singer, me makes music, music videos, art, animates, makes fairly decent 3d models, does stopmotion, realism and all that shit, overall the guy is EXTREMELY talented but he's just known as "The TikTok Weirdcore Songs Guy" and it sucks

I had no idea that he created animation until I saw Opal. Opal is his masterpiece!

True, I love that mini film so much. Its so meaningful and full of detail, you could rewatch it like 15 times and still see new details lol. Absolutely beautiful film, deserves more love

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This is a little too real for this sub buddy

got like half a dozen married friends and myself. not one like this. just sounds weird and like, for people who have no self esteem, and their self hate and suspicion of others, which radiates a bad vibe, probably sabotages their own relationships, which then reinforces their twisted views on women.

I agree. I think people read stories about how a woman screwed them over without actually being in a long term relationship and, like you said, the self hatred reinforced with these stories causes a sort of paranoia that they will be hurt as well.

To be fair though, I think mentally troubled men have only increased so it’s somewhat expected that there will be more of this stuff.

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Love yourself and stop being paranoid. Then just get to know them.

That's what many men who got cheated on did. Not all of them were paranoid.

Doubt. Humans are extremely complicated and divorce is almost always predictable in 95% of cases. Sometimes the man is condescending/controlling and that alone ruins the whole relationship. Rarely does a neurotypical healthy male marry a type B personality (narcissistic/sociopathic) woman who screws him to high heavens for no reason.

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Yeah John and Julie Gottman, the leading academic experts on marriage and consequently divorce.

Mr. Gottman is thrice divorced before meeting his now wife Julie and is famously known for having a 95% accurate couple’s divorce prediction in his lab, even 20 years out, and which ones will stay together happily.

Seems interesting, I'll take a look into it.

Do you have any recommendations on any articles or videos that will give me a good idea about their methods used to predict divorces?

Yeah they are most famous for their “4 horseman” divorce predictor analogy if you wanna research that. But they have a YouTube video which is 47min called “Making Marriage Work” and a book with a similar name which go into detail about their wide longitudinal relationship studies.

Personally he has restored my faith in humanity quite a bit. And he is most definitely not a relationship therapist or expert he’s a scientist. I feel more empowered to choose the right partner and make the right choices rather than stand at the whim of a dark and dreary world with untrustworthy partners galore.

Cool, I'll check it out

Bro, look it up anywhere. The most common reasons why people divorce is because of "last straw" marriages. These types of divorces include domestic violence/abuse, substance abuse, infidelity, and/or financial situations. It's not always men. Women can do all of these things and it does happen, however men do cause the most abuse and violence against women, substance dependency, cheat, or have a long line of secret debt/loans. Most marriages will last if you just be a good partner and communicate with your partner. Don't be bigoted towards people, treat them with respect and as an equal, be yourself, and talk everything out and you'll be fine.

it ain‘t victim blaming. this video is just cringe and is material for incels to jerk off to for how bad women are

How do you know which man to trust?

How do you know which milkywayian to trust?

How do you know to trust anyone? You either do or you don’t, but it sucks to live your life without trusting anyone.

How do you know to trust your car won’t blow up each time it starts? After all, it’s happened to plenty of people before.

You have to choose which things you really want to be afraid of in life.

Be normal? It isn't hard. Women aren't usually out to get you, dude.

Yeah, I'm pretty messed up so garbage like this gets in my head. I struggle with independency because "mommy and daddy told me I was stupid and gay". So I get all twisted up over the dumbest shit, I'm honestly happier alone because I don't have my demons going apeshit like they do when a woman is around, but at least I know that it's a me problem and not a "woman bad" problem.

that sounds messed up and i’m sorry to hear it. seems like nothing messes men up more than a mom (specifically) that is mentally or physically abusive. i hope things start to look up for you in the future.

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its all the dudes in the comments going, yup, that’s how women be. like come the fuck on. this is a strawman video for incels to get hate boners for women over, clearly. i’ve talked to enough of these people to know their feelings towards women and themselves affects their relationships. but hey, they/you aint ready to hear it. they wanna hold on to that. fine. they wanna live in a women hating echo chamber. fine. let’s see how it works out. good luck with life.

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yeah i’m sure the guy with a nazi flag in his profile is using this video as an example to promote men’s mental health and not to be sexist!

it’s like…who do you think makes these videos? and then doesn’t even take credit. no link to an instagram. no website. nothing. it’s just straight propoganda. prolly created by some white supremesist, or some paid troll in st. petersburg, russia.

I agree. Just like the anti-vaccine posts

if the video was for that, i don’t think the only real face they’d use is the black guy bangin the wife in 4k. no way you can convince me this video was created to “shine a light on what men are going through” lol. this may be about more than one thing, but none of them are good. this is about enflaming rage.

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its a propoganda video. why do you think the only face they use is a black guy banging the wife? who do you think makes these videos with no insta or website link? why do you think the guy who posted it has nazi shit on his profile?

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dude, the poster has a swastica on their profile. go fucking concern troll that. dumbfuck.

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anger against women and black people go hand in hand my dude. and racists love plausible deniability. believe what you want. don’t matter to me. you’re probably a teenager. you eat enough of this shit up, you’ll end up like the dude who posted this bullshit. start recognizing it for what it is and maybe you won’t go down the drain hole, raging about feminists and jews and the woke left!

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if someone wants people to “see it both ways” they can tell it in a way that isn’t clearly created to induce rage. imagine if twoX made videos like this about how guys are secret rapists, domestic abusers, and cheaters that will ruin your life. you wanna tell your story, go the fuck ahead and no one will say shit. you start making sexist racist strawman propoganda videos and (some) people are gonna see through it.

Yeah, it just sounds like men who were shitty, twisted the story, and are now telling other young kids that story and telling them woman bad. It's so obvious.

The truest part is that when a woman and a man split the woman mostly come out on top.

Me and my ex split 3 months ago. I keep myself bussy, i traine, i taking my MC licens, im going to learn to dance salsa etc, go out and do things. But i am so alone...

I moved to my exes town 3 years ago, sure i have some friends but they are hers from the beguinning so kinda weird to hang out. Im a decent looking guy, but after 3 months, just 3 matches on tinder and no responses.

In my point of view woman own the dating market. If they just want a hook up or a date they can get it easy, sure the decency of the person can be discussed but atleast is a date. I just cant... Dating as a man sucks ass.

As i said i keep myself bussy on the day with work, training etc. But when the evening comes then the lonleyness comes creeping and i dont know what to do about it. While my ex fill up her lonleyness with friends, families and casual dates.

I just want to be able to cook dinner for someone and have someone to hug again.

No it’s fucking not lmao.

1st of all, over 50% of households are dual income. Meaning both adults work so the mother won’t be home cheating.

2nd, this only happens if you’re an idiot and get married against your will, have kids against your will, and don’t exercise boundaries and communication.

But of course I can’t expect redditors to be socially adept. For fuck sake, this is some incel shit

It's not real. You need to grow up is all

Yea I definitely need to start acting like you by telling strangers on the internet to be more mature. Thanks for the tip!

It’s so real they needed to recreate the scenario using bathroom symbols. This is the most pathetic shit I’ve seen this week. If you want to indulge in your persecution fetishes, there are other subreddits you may visit.

We just gonna not mention how the new boyfriend is actually banging the male stick figure ?

wife cheated? get topped on grindr

Yeah that tells you all you need to know about people that think this way lol

And how would they have signified that it was the female stick figure there? Don't hurt yourself thinking too hard.

Using a female stick figure?

Which looks like what?

“Don’t hurt yourself thinking too hard” lmao who hurt you?

Lmao I thought the same thing, guess people will even be pricks over stick figures

Society

This says a lot about industrial revolution

That’s EXACTLY what I was thinking. I think this is the story of Henry Ford IVVI and how his dick was painted on the first ever aero plane that sung songs to the motherfucking purple aliens. Or paliens as Henry Ford IVVI once said on Marz candy bars.

We live in a society

Literally Animal Farm

This happened to my brother, brother in law, moms boyfriend, my cousin and countless friends. Infidelity > divorce > financial ruin

That just means some men aren't able to judge people who they fucking mary. Just don't mary anyone or do it with a contract or get some people skills to detect garbage humans before you mary them.

You gotta be really dense if you think that you can't get fooled by the person you love, sometimes they change, sometimes they get an addiction which turns them toxic, losing a job, becoming poor... A bunch of things can change the behavior of people and turn them into pricks

I hate how people reinforce a myth that good people don't turn bad and bad people don't turn good. Bull fucking shit, we're all humans, we all ALL capable of doing harm. The alcoholic husband MIGHT have been always an alcoholic that becomes violent, but he also MIGHT NOT have been. In the cases where there aren't obvious signs of toxicity, its very hard to spot, on top of the obvious fact that while in love, we tend to forget the loved one' bad traits.

Weird that you wrote that after my second comment. In that case that a once good person turns bad it is just bad luck. Sad for the affected person indeed but not worse than being involved in an accident or what ever. I just mean that in the most cases there are red flags and if you don't see them you are partially to blame.

"just bad luck"

This implies that the probability of your S.O to change and become toxic is very low, which i doubt thats the case.

"not worse than being involved in an accident or what ever"

I think avoiding a car accident requires much simpler skills than predicting you're being lied to by a loved person. Compare the number of people who have experienced heartbreak with the number of people involved in car accidents.

"I just mean that in the most cases there are red flags and if you don't see them you are partially to blame."

Sorry but you didn't back this claim up. Prove that in most cases you can spot it.

Imagine saying the same about an abused woman

I do. It is pretty clear that the behavior of the women in this video or the physical abuser in a relationship is reprehensive and bad. But of course is an abused women partially responsible for being in a relationship with an abusive counterpart and especially staying in that relationship as there are usually pretty obvious hints to it. The same as men that mary women that will ultimately ruin them. That's my whole fucking point tho don't mary people that will harm you in the end doesn't matter if women or man or in what context. A marriage isn't a thing that you just do after 5 times fucking and a nice holiday together. Just live in a relationship with someone for one year and reflect on it and you are most likely going to be fine. If you aren't well than it's just bad luck but that shouldn't matter as everyone can be struck by it. People need to understand that their decisions have consequences.

Bro most problems in life are avoidable in some way, and they still happen. Humans are imperfect and to take a stance that blames them for being so is kind of ridiculous.

This is some serious victim blaming here. Holy shit.

They should all marry better people probably

This hits different.

would have hit harder if the last pic was him killing himself

That's what I thought would be the end

Honestly thats there I thought it was going

So can I cum on a frogs ass now or what

ik this women is a fictional image, but humor me.

WHY are you getting mad at him for just spending a lot of time working? He's trying to supply the family with money, karen! And the moment he gets some free time to enjoy a hobby (Golf) you pull the plug?

Fuck you, karen.

Ikr! Man literally working his ass off to support his family and she thinks her “needs” are more important. Some people really overvalue sex.

There's a video by Nobita from Japan about interviewing women who cheat.

The words that she spit are down right retarded. I've never seen such pride, ego, selfishness and copium come out from a single mouth all at once.

Not all women are like that, but goddamn was she a fuckin' bitch.

You literally just made up someone to be mad at

Try actually talking to a woman so you don’t have to get made at pretend ones

Nothing more satisfying than Redditors telling other Redditors to go outside and talk to real women lmaoo.

Not sure how common the scenario in this video is but there’s a lot of comments here of people saying this happened to them or their friends etc so it’s common enough that people can relate to it in some way. Not saying this scenario happens all the time because I’m sure it doesn’t happen all the time but the guy you’re replying to didn’t necessarily “make up” someone to be mad at. Some people have done this shit, he doesn’t need to make anyone up to be mad at.

I don’t doubt it’s happened, it’s just funny that someone is so mad at women despite never interacting with them, and has to get mad about what a theoretical woman did to someone else

Lmao are you 12?

nope, going on 16 with the mentality of a 3

Wow. Getting so upset at a stick figure.

Men are just too emotional.

A man is a human being just as a woman is so why would they not have emotions just like us and maybe if society would wake the hell up and realize that and stop telling men emotions are weak a lot of perspective and literal changes could be made

Should have used the /s.

Surely you got the point that women's complaints or anger are so often dismissed as being "emotional".

Bruh he even stated at the beginning that he knows the woman is fictional yet you say this. You’re straight up dumb tbh.

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So she cooks 2 meals for 4 people a day puts clothes in 2 machines that do all the hard work for her then folds them and the washes dishes . sweeps and mops maybe once or twice a week. And has basically 7am to 4 pm to do 2 hours of chores and then whatever she wants 5 days a week. And he leaves the house works 8 to 10 hours a day with maybe a total of 45 mins to an hour of break time. comes home walks the dog does landscaping for the yard . And when he wants a few hours to himself to relax she hen pecks him into watching the kids so she can relax. But yes let's for one second pretend she is the one getting shafted in this deal. Does him wanting to play golf once in a while or providing for his family justify. Cheating on him, divorcing him , taking his house dog and half his money plus alimony. Or Turning his children against him and threatening to never let him see them again if he tells them she's a liar?

we can blame karen all we want but she does not own him.. part of this is his inability to have his owns needs met and opinions heard

sucks that he got with someone more dominant than him but at the emd of the day a man has to have balls

Shut the fuck up

Shut the fuck up

this is why movies have ratings

Having a wife who constantly bitches at you has nothing to do with “having balls”.

At the end of the day, is it smarter to argue when you know it’ll just end with the same result?

Having a wife who constantly bitches at you has nothing to do with “having balls”

it absolutely does and i can attempt an explanation if you allow me the time

One doesnt just fall into this type of situation. Its something that builds up over time from very small incidents which become huge in the end. Have you ever heard "if you give them an inch, theyll take a mile"?

While inprisioned in a soviet gulag, Solzhenitsyn had time to theorize all the events that led him ending up there. He concluded (correctly) that although the government was rotten and no external aid was offered, the bulk of the blame was to be laid on himself. Not because he literally caused this to happen, but the value system within their population was so skewed at that time that it helped the Stalinist regime to tighten its grip on its people.

He stated that the rise of tyranny grew from the inability/ lethargy/ and fear of the people to protest.

This isnt me trying to "own" or beat anybody at the reddit game. Im simply empowering you with the knowledge that you have the strength to fend whatever comes at you if you dig deep within yourself

Stop living in fear and speak up

Let me get this straight. In an attempt to teach me a lesson about unhealthy relationships, you decided to tell me a story about some guy who was locked away in a gulag in Soviet Russia? How does one relate to the other at all? Standing up to a dictatorship is a very different circumstance than dealing with a poor marriage.

It seems as though you aren’t familiar with how a manipulative person uses their partner in a relationship. Manipulators tend to be very charismatic people. They draw people in, and wait as long as they need to before revealing their true colors. This process can either be conducted consciously or subconsciously.

Nobody is perfect, so cracks eventually appear in a manipulator’s facade, especially when a couple moves in together. However, when a victim of manipulation believes that they are genuinely in love with the manipulator, they typically move past the red flags and label them as “one offs”.

The further committed a victim is to a manipulator, the worse the relationship gets, as the manipulator slowly makes the manipulated feel trapped.

When you aren’t the manipulator’s victim, it’s easy to say: “They should’ve just done this and that, then they wouldn’t be in this situation.” This is because it’s obvious to everyone else that the manipulator is an asshole, but the manipulated feels as though he or she can fix their behavior, because that’s what you do when you are in love.

It’s a whole process, it doesn’t just boil down to bickering or “lack of balls”.

I will admit that my "lack of balls" statement was harsh and oversimplified. I also didnt adress an important factor that you brought up which is that there are true predators out there and they will use whatever arsenal they have against someone they see as a target.

My point was about how a lot of problems in life, be it small in scale or colossal, can be avoided or at least dealt with forthrightly by having an honest conversation with your spirit and allowing yourself to be the one to blame, thus the one responsible for remedy

you decided to tell me a story about some guy who was locked away in a gulag in Soviet Russia

He wasnt just "some guy" locked in a gulag. He was one of the most important figures during the dismantling of the USSR. His book "the gulag archipelago" exposed and brought forth a massive amount of grievences and injustices suffered by the citizens at the time, empowering the people while demoralizing the government. It is well known that without his inner strength acting as the voice of the people, the USSR would have consolidated more power. He was awarded the nobel peace price for his contribution.

as i read the comments i see a lot of guys saying theyll never get married or have kids which is a huge loss, as they are throwing in the towel before the match even started

Standing up to a dictatorship is a very different circumstance than dealing with a poor marriage

of course these are different but i would argue it takes just as much strength to stand up against someone you love.. if he did it trapped in a goulag, you can too

ps: the reason i brought Solzhenitsyn is that his literature can be applied to too many things, specially given the climate we live in right now

Bitching, complaing, screaming and being a toxic spoiled brat is not what dominance is, you must have had a pretty fucked up life.

i dont, i have a good life with a great partner and years of experience in the dating scene before meeting her

i dont know much but i know this about people: the loud minority usually overpowers the quiet majority

i dont know much but i know this about people: the loud minority usually overpowers the quiet majority

This is regarding relationship dynamics between two people, it's not a political statement and political theories don't apply.

However, this is an interesting analogy even though it's not exactly correct. Human civilization could be described as something like a struggle between the two poles you mention, and of course our beloved liberal/conservative duality in the west that stems from the French revolution.

To go further down this rabbit hole of an analogy, don't confuse "loudness" with power. Actual power is being able to physically or organizationally achieve dominance to accomplish a goal, projected power is not real power and not reality.

We see examples of this now in Ukraine, and previously in many protests and governments across the globe, where reality does not reflect the narrative and real power was not sufficient.

The successful loud minority is the one that achieves it practically. The unsuccessful ones don't exist anymore as what they were, that is why it seems like they always do. History is written by the victors.

All this to say: a catchy phrase does not move mountains and people are dynamic. There are no absolute certainties.

Abusive men usually hurt you physically, while abusive women usually hurt you mentally. Both are terrible but abusive women are rarely acknowledged which makes it much more of a problem.

I lived with a step-mother who was abusive to both me and my dad (they're going through the divorce process right now), and lemme tell ya, she got plenty physical

Yeah, I guess I should have used the word usually since there are exceptions

Hmm. Well I would say that women also physically abuse. Just speaking from experience though. But yes in either case it literally gets laughed off or not treated the same in any way.

I remember a story of a 6+ foot tall man being physically abused by his 4'10" wife. He had trouble taking her to court because he would just get laughed at. In the end he was able to prove that she was indeed abusing him and justice was served. But it goes to show why so many abused men suffer in silence. There are too many folks out there, lawyers and judges included, who believe that it's simply impossible for a man to be physically abused by a woman, and if you even bring it up, they'll laugh in your face.

Women also abuse physically and sexually. I'd say we see abusive men control through fear more often, and abusive women control through psychological aggression.

Ya had a point but fumbled at the start.

This is a stupid generalization. Plenty of men are emotional abusers and plenty of women are physical abusers.

This is simply not true, and is perpetuating the same problem you’re saying men as a whole have.

Putting either sex into a box and saying “This is how they abuse” just makes it harder for those experiencing physical abuse by women or emotional abuse by men to speak up, because then someone might say something like “What do you mean your wife hits you? She’s a woman.”

Abuse is abuse, it’s as simple as that.

But don't you think that there's emotional abuse when a woman is physically abusive? She knows that despite him being a man, he won't fight back: because he's a man precisely. She knows how society thinks and she'll have a back up plan. "If you tell someone I hit you, they won't believe you. Plus, I'll say you are the one hitting me".

It's true that both genders can be physically and emotionally abusive. However, imo, a woman who is physically abused knows that she doesn't stand a chance to fight back because she knows she can die at any moment. Men who are physically abused mentally can not fight back (society's stigma, threats by the abusive partner because they know society will believe the woman instead). They're cornered differently than a physically abused woman. Don't get me wrong: both are awful. But I just think there's a difference: slight, but still there.

Sure, "both genders can be physically abused" comments aren't wrong. But OP's initial comment isn't wrong either.

You’re generalizing, that’s the issue I have with OP’s comment. I also think you’re agreeing with my point here, as all I was saying is that either sex is capable of either type of abuse. The fact that you draw conclusions between the physical/mental when it comes to women abusers is in-line with my own argument.

Haha what???? Physical and emotional abuse isn't a sexed issue...

This is the best fucking way to put it that I’ve seen yet.

No there’s physical abuse and emotional or verbal abuse. I’ve known women who are physically abusive and I’ve known men who are manipulative but aren’t physical. Use those terms instead of mEn uSe tHeIRe FiSts aNd wOmEn uSe ThEiRe vOiCe

Because everyone knows abused women have no mental trauma

Both do both bro

A lot of women abuse men physically as well because in todays world if a woman hits you you deserved it but if you hit a woman your an evil monster who should rot in hell

That's untrue and a silly generalisation.

Military life summed up

Just really convincing me to avoid getting married or having kids

Nah just if ur partner cheat get the milk

Thanks for the advice dad

Because of some cringe video?

Then don’t?

it’s not like u have a choice

You don’t have to

I wanted to see dank memes not incel stuff

Yea this is heavy handed incel bait. Guys complaining about equal rights, women, feminists just you name it and incels in these comments are whining about it because of a fictional situation in this video.

Does it happen occasionally? Yes. All the time? Lol no.

If someone disagrees or is offended by this post please comment here. I really love arguing with dumb people

But what if i agree with u?

Then we can kiss.

No homo, right?

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That’s so good bro

Beautiful copypasta allow me to 'borrow' it please.

This is proof that the earth is flat!!

Im not disagreeing with the video, although it feels a bit like a strawman, it does bring up the idea of men's mental health being more ignored. What I do have a problem with is the title. OP sounds like an incel and is implying that this is a situation that feminist would cheer on and that he is going to receive backlash for painting it in a negative light. This isn't the feminists' problem, or the women's problem. It's the whole society that allows it. Guys will make fun of you for showing emotions too.

It's also a strawman because it assumes so many things. My wife worked while I was unemployed for several months. This is not a society where couples can live on a single income; for most of us, both partners are working full-time.

I don't care about the post so much as the tone of a lot of recent posts being, "women bad, men are so brave" as if there aren't deep and systematic problems affecting genders uniquely. Women's rights have a long ways to go, and toxic masculinity is only resolved by changing how we treat men.

Very complex and smart answer. I like it

If I had an award I’d give you one

While I agree actual feminists wouldn’t approve of this there are unfortunately a lot of women who do (and men as well). You know about make incels, allow me to introduce you to the other half: r/femaledatingstrategy

Yeah but that's got nothing to do with feminism. Female incels definitely exist, but honestly the guys who blame everything on feminism are such a pain in the ass and give off incel vibes. I don't go around blaming "urgh fuck men's rights activists amirite girls???"

It's dumb to say "yeah it's not feminism but a lot of women think that way" cause it's giving an excuse for OP to misuse "feminists". Yes, there's female incels who think stupid shit like that, but they're not feminists. It's tiring that some people throw the word "feminist" around when they see a karen or a femcel

male incels and female incels are two of a seperate kind. Incels get cucked once and decide that they'll become menaces to society(like half of the things they decide to do are major crimes against humanity) and blame women and attractive men for their problems. Femcels on the other hand, while not equally as bad, have morally wrong intentions. They see men as items, and trick men into thinking they have chemistry, but just want to keep them around to get something like a free five-star meal. they also don't really like the idea of casual men being into them, but would faint for someone like at Football(soccer) player.

TD;DR: Femcels are assholes, Incels are on house arrest

Hmmm, well I have definitely seen self proclaimed feminists cheer on this type of behavior for sure. Anecdotal, maybe, but it happens.

no one is dumb enough to get offended by this at least on reddit

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but man this was sad and i feel so sorry for this guy

Thanks.

what do u mean by thanks which line is it been told 1st or 2nd

Lol the 2nd part. My bad.

its fine i don't even know why i asked the question in the first place

Think you’re putting too much faith in Reddit my dude, people get offended by anything and everything round these parts

well we can all agree that no one got offended by this one

There are multiple subreddits full of people that get offended by this

Well it's pretty clearly a one-sided viewpoint.

Not that it should offend anyone necessarily.

I wish you were right man

He was stung in the bee pit? Impossible!

nah fam this is the truth. I ain't disagreeing 💯

Ok so I have 4 main criticisms of the video. (They might overlap a bit but bare with me)

1. the guy is a completely unrealistic idealization of the average male, and the womans whatever you call the opposite of an idealization.

We see the dude working his ass off, taking care of the kids and doing all the physical work.Meanwhile the woman doesn't do anything. Does she not have a job? Is she not taking care of the kids? Who's doing all the stereotypical lady work (cooking, cleaning, laundry, etc.) around the house?I mean come on, in what reality do you live where you think this is an actual situation for any?

Also this is the most ratchet, belongs to the streets ass, ignorant, gaslighting bitch I've ever seen. I don't know about you but I've yet to meet any woman like this irl.

2. the man is portraid as having no influence or accountability in any of the things that happen.

The woman wants a marriage and kids, the guy says "ok". Like did he not want to get married and have kids? Why portray those things as just the womans choice when obviously they're things most all couples both have to want to have happen? It's to make this imaginary dude look like more of a victim.

Or why doesn't he consult his wife about how much he's working for the family?Why after they divorce does he just sit there depressed? Surely a standup guy who was working so hard before could put himself together and at least find a new partner?

It's because this video wants to make the dude seem like the biggest, and the only victim in the whole relationship.

3. Most stuff the guy goes through is either very rare, or happens to women as well.

As for the work dynamic, in ∼60% of marriages both partners are employed. And I think everyone knows that women, unemployed or not tend to do way more for taking care of the kids and the home in relationships.And for the record in cases where either partner feels their baring more of the work load, it's on THEM to express that in a mature way.

As for the cheating, men do seem to do it more often.

I can't speak on how common women gaslighting their children is, but I'll say you marry a crazy bitch like that, some of the responsibility is on you dude :D

I feel the divorce split is pretty much the only fair critisism in the whole video (She even kept the dog lol). That's not to say it's the only problem men face btw. I often feel like prenups should be the status quo, instead of the 50/50 split. And the way men get treated as second class parents or whatever it's called is honestly disgusting.

Then, finally 4. So many problems end up being modified or oversimplified to fit the creators argument

I think I've given all the necessary examples already, the lying and simplification end up making this a horrible bitching incel representation of reality.

Also, this seems to be an unpopular opinion on Reddit, but a decent fraction of the guys telling their sob stories about their ex-wives are just straight up lying because they're shit people. My dad was a freaking Lifetime Original Movie^TM villain who tried to kill my mom and he still had all his buddies convinced that their marriage was just like this video. Men just lap this shit up and don't even question it because they had a bad relationship once.

Now sure my dad's an extreme case, but for every guy like him there's 10 who were just raging assholes and 100 average guys who just don't realize the ways in which they were a bad partner, and all those guys are telling the same story about their ex's. Plus all the guys who did have a shitty partner but just omit the part where they were equally shitty.

Shocking that the parent commenter hasn’t replied to this

Haha yeah. I hope they're just asleep, cause I really do want to hear what he has to say about it

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Thank you for writing this up, it's horrifying to see so many impressionable people here getting influenced by this shit.

Thank god, these fucking incels need to get in a relationship first

finally someone who’s in touch with reality

Thank you for putting everything I was thinking into words. This dumbass video portrays the man as a robot who just goes along with everything the woman says and does no wrong, while the woman does jack shit and just bitches to him, and half the comments here are saying "So true!!!" as if this is your typical relationship.

A bunch of comments saying “so true” as if they’ve ever even been in a relationship before

straight from 15 year olds lol

Funnily enough based on his comment history, OP is 14 years old lmao

straight outta tiktok

It would be a more accurate representation if it detailed a marriage with an abusive woman. I feel like some of that is implied, but it just glosses over that part. The man just says "Ok" to marriage, when in reality there is pressure, guilt tripping, trying to get pregnant without the man's consent (poking holes in condoms, pretending to take birth control, insemination with used condoms, etc...); all ways to try and lock someone into a life-long commitment they were on the fence about.

Also, abusers rarely show their true colors right away. The abuser seems like the perfect partner until they get the victim locked in (not just women in hetero relationships, which is why I'm using non-gendered language here).

My one response to this is my mom’s existence. Cheated on my dad with her highschool sweetheart, and kept this from the family of course. Well, she left dad to be with this guy, and they’re now married. This is all bad enough, but it gets worse because of course it does. When I didn’t know the situation and assumed my mom was just leaving because she was unhappy in the relationship, I let her into the house while dad was meant to be out of town. This seems shady, and in retrospect it was, but she said she just didn’t want to risk him starting an argument or fight. I was a kid, maybe 18 at the time, so the logic checked out.

Well, of course dad comes home as she’s packing her stuff, and in fact mom starts an argument by making sure to tell him her new partner is better in bed, etc. Going for low blows completely unprompted. It started to get physical when she shoved him, and he was going to retaliate so I got between them to break it up. Dad then tried to hit me with a baseball bat, which I managed to get out of his hands.

So what does the crazy fucker do? He pulls out a revolver loaded with buckshot because why not? Obviously I run, and just as I turn a corner there’s a bang and suddenly the living room wall has a hole in it. I make it outside, and there’s my mom. Jumping in her car and driving off, leaving me with a suddenly homicidal person with guns. It got worse from there but this is already a wall of text so I’ll skip out on that.

Anyways, guess what I found out a few months ago? Remember the guy she ran off with, and the aforementioned crazy guy who tried to shoot me? Yeah, turns out she NOT ONLY dropped the charges on him, including the ones I filed, but she also regularly cheats on the new guy with my POS dad.

All this to say, women like the one shown in this video, and worse, most definitely do exist. But as far as I’m aware, nowhere near the norm lmao

Holy shit that's one shitty family situation man, my condolences. You're right though I actually meant to, but forgot to note that on very rare occasion women and situations similar to those in the video do exist.

It’s all good with me, man. Only big downside is my little sister still lives with mom and I don’t make enough for her to move in with me, but I check in on her regularly

Not to take away from your point but revolvers don’t use buckshot, that would be a shotgun

It actually is a revolver that can be chambered in .410 shotgun shells or .38. Or it might be .380? I always get confused. It’s the Judge, by Taurus. I can completely understand that not being a well-known model, though

Well…my apologies on that one

All good! You having an alright day today?

Yeah, been great so far how about you? I looked up what you were talking about and I’m actually interested in buying one for home defense and again I know this has nothing to do with your story, I’m sorry to take away from it!

You’re fine! And I’m happy to hear it, my guy. Although, a suggestion if you get the Judge. I would not recommend the slug rounds, or the non-shell rounds for home defense. I think it might actually be .45 now that I think about it. The slugs carry a significant risk of over-penetration which is something you don’t want for home-defense. Same for the handgun rounds it can fire, depending on the round you buy. I would stick to birdshot, just because less collateral damage and it’s more of a “stop the threat” and not necessarily “blow a hole in someone” like buckshot tends to be.

described a singular personal anecdote in an attempt to undo a well-thought out rebuttal

No, no, wasn’t trying to undo it in the slightest. The person made a lot of excellent points! I was just pointing out that situations not unlike the one in the video can happen, even if they’re incredibly rare and unlikely

blatantly doesn't have reading comprehension

That's one of the worst parts about this. The dude goes along with everything, chooses that every single day and then plays the victim like he was trying to make a functioning relationship work by just saying yes to everything and then is shocked that he was getting taken advantage of. Talk about weaponized incompetence.

Isn't "weaponized incompetence" when you try to get out of chores by doing them horribly, AKA using incompetence to your personal advantage? The man is incompetent in a different way but he doesn't use it to his advantage, he's just losing. It's regular incompetence

I guess you could say the guy is just regular incompetant in his relationship through his lack of agency and then when it expectedly falls apart acts like it was all done to him without his really having a choice.

I agree with this point completely.

Thank you for writing this down. I hope everybody reads your comment.

Aw thx dude, took me a while to write so I'm glad I didn't just get downvoted to oblivion :)

You nailed it

Yea thank you. This is just one big straw man nicely movie start to end.

As for the cheating, men do seem to do it more often.

I've seen statistics that show that women and men cheat about equally often.

Yeah that could well be true. I just googled it and in some survey 20% of men 16% of women admitted to cheating, but the women definitely could just be reporting more dishonestly.I think I'm more so upset with how many dudes seem to think women cheat MORE than men, when that almost for certain isn't true.

Fair point regardless.

The only very real thing in this is the child support and how the women gets the children almost 100% of the time

Most stuff the guy goes through is either very rare, or happens to women as well.

This is false. Shit like this happens to men all the time. You just don't see it for some reason. And sure, it may happen to women too, but not even close to how often it happens to men. Your whataboutism is showing.

What exactly do you think happens to men more often than women? And do you have any kind of evidence that the stuff in the video is in any way common? Because I really don't believe it is.

Also you can't call it whataboutism when we're literally talking about the RATE of the SAME issue in two groups lmao

but I'll say you marry a crazy bitch like that, some of the responsibility is on you dude :D

This is victim blaming. I hope you realize that.

I think victim blaming has to intrinsically imply blame to have any weight as a concept.

So say some dude is walking on the street naked carrying a knife. If someone approaches this dude and gets stabbed the blame is fully on the naked maniac, but some responsibility is also on the idiot who decided it was smart to approach a guy like that.

We can't operate in the world expecting that nothing or no one can hurt us.

I'm not implying blame on the dude in the video. I am implying responsibility. He wasn't the instigator but he definitely could've affected his outcome

And if you want to call it victim blaming to address a victims responsibility in any give incident, then I'm completely willing to be a victim blamer.

Seems like a incel made this. It’s true about pof how guys have harder time and divorce how women take the money. Rest comes across like a nice guy. Women moan at man, women cheat, woman cause divorce and misery etc

I can concur my woman brings me misery.

then break up you nft sucker

She'll take my kids away from me. She's got em for ransom. Either take care of the kids and me included or I'll take you for everything and make it hard to for you to see the kids. It's cool cuz I'm low key recording all the shit she does so I'll present my case to the court with evidence AFTER she lies to the judge. Cuz I already know her plan of attack. She'll get nothing. Well deserved.

sorry for my shitty response. i've seen a lot of people stay in toxic relationships for no good reason, and then just, complain like it's out of their hands, and i thought you were another one. i shouldn't've assumed. but even if you were, i shouldn't have responded like that. that was a dick move of me. i hope things work out for you and the kids. smart move recording her abuse

Not your fault. Takes courage to apologize. Much appreciated and thank you. Be well. Stay safe.

King shit, I approve.

Rake her over the coals

From what I understand, you have to present your evidence at the beginning of the trial.

Ya, maybe. But if I say here's all this evidence then they ask her about it, it doesn't leave much room for her to lie. So maybe they take the evidence and look it over and then get her take on it. Then show her the evidence after she lies (if she lies). I don't know how it'll go, I haven't got an attorney yet. Divorce attorneys are expensive af.

The idea is generally that both sides have to present all their evidence prior to the trial, that way both sides have time to come up with a reasonable explanation.

I'm not a lawyer though, so my word means nothing

Gotcha. Thanks for the info tho. Then chances are I'll present my evidence to my attorney then they'll prolly take it from there.

I wish it were that simple. Divorce is expensive and he may never see his kids again

I’m sorry 😢 I hope things work out for you buddy

Thanks fellow shibe. Go Dogecoin lol.

Thanks homie lol

Then somethings wrong with your relationship chief, either work with each other to fix it or split up tbh

Got kids in the mix. It's easier said than done.

Also the subtle racism doesn’t help.

Yep exactly. Someone someone has had almost this exact experience I’m sure - but taking this one little story and pretending it says something insightful about women is ehhhhh 👋

In an abusive marriage, this may really be the case.

Yeah, in an abusive marriage.

But using that and saying it says anything about women as a whole is just idiotic

I agree that would be stupid and misogynistic

I've got some good news for you pal. If you enjoy arguing with people on the internet you won't ever need to worry about having a wife.

Thats good to hear. Thank you for those kind words

I dont disagree of feel offended by this but it just seems like it was made by an incel, it has incel written all over it

Well I didnt really want to argue I just wanted to talk with someone so I guess you are right

It's pandering to common insecurities of (young) men, basically just, man good, woman bad. It's childish at best.

This is what incel a tell themselves to feel better about being alone

I guess they do huh

Why does this even exist? What is there to agree or disagree with? It's just an entirely made up scenario. It reads like a cringey incel fantasy.

"Hi I'm OP and this is how I imagine marriage would go, because women bad!"

Yea, everyone would agree that the completely made up woman in this scenario is a shitty person. What the fuck is your point?

People like this exist. Thats my '' fucking '' point good sir

...ok....yea.....all sorts of people exist.....

I'll ask again, what the fuck is the point of this video?

You cannot ask again since you never asked the question. You asked whats my point first time now you asking what is the point of this video. You are a bit confusing mate

Man, you are really reaching in an attempt to avoid saying anything with any substance at all.

Nah man I am just saying

The only person that'll get offended by this post are some dumb feminists.

I wish you were right friend. I wish you were

I bet nobody disagrees

They do unfortunatly

I easily disagree. Find a better woman who won’t do you like that. Find a woman who supports you instead of of needs you. Don’t let that become your life, I won’t let it become mine.

I don't think this post aims to change things from 'the' man's pov, but to see what is happening to lot of them from a third perspective, so that we don't casually judge men and call them oppressive over their wives

Here’s a different perspective: don’t casually judge anyone and call them oppressive to their partner, men or women alike. Some men are shit. Some women are shit. Be a better person and look for better people

But what if you want a hot woman?

Learn how to get one

I guess that makes sence but I dont think some guys would be able to do the same as you

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Yeah I always find myself working my ass off to prop up a deadbeat boyfriend. Would be more accurate for me if the woman worked a full time job and did all of the household chores while her husband drank and did nothing all day and then he cheated.

Holy shit, that was my marriage too! Him having the affair and asking me for a divorce was a blessing in disguise. I even decided I wouldn't have kids because I'd be raising HIM my whole life.

I'm so happy to be away from him and becoming a better person to myself. I was a doormat. We have to work just as hard or harder for less than the same respect, and we're also still expected to do the traditionally domestic stuff and any pet/child care. All my ex did was drink and play video games. When I started working 12-18 hour days, I had to pay for a maid by myself because otherwise I'd never get to rest.

Glad we're away from deadbeats!

Either peg him or leave him sweetheart

On my way to buy a strap on

That’s the spirit

Good job then. If you want to keep at it then do that but maybe try to be more happier by any means neccesary

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You call woman retarded? Based

I'm offended by this post. Bring it on

You are offended by this post? Well then I am sorry but I got to say....you are not very based

LMAO BASED HHAAHHA LAME AS FUCJ

this is just incel whining. No doubt this has happened, but this video seeks to paint the picture of "the typical male" and "the typical female". This isn't true, and it really just comes across as niceguy propaganda.

You can not believe how common this shit is in divorces and wooow you really wanna try to ignore this by calling it propaganda that's just sad

The video scenario isn't common at all, for one thing the vast majority of women work and on top of that they do most of the child rearing and housework. Men usually just work and minimally contribute to housework and childrearing. So now we have an overworked mother that's frustrated because she feels like she has to ask her husband to watch his own kids and help around the house a little only for it to last only a little while and then go back to normal. This leads to decrease in attraction and dead bedrooms. Which usually leads to divorce with or without cheating from either party. Married men cheat more than married women because of dead bedrooms. Women usually cheat because they feel unsupported and fall out of love with their husband. Most men still want their wives so they cheat to take care of sexual needs so it is usually the wife that initiates divorce. This is the most common scenario. The video above does happen but is uncommon and really is just incel propaganda

https://www.sciencedirect.com/science/article/pii/S2352250X21001299

https://bestlifeonline.com/women-initiate-divorce-more-than-men/

Didn't say that it didn't happen, nor did I ignore it? But this is a "worst-case" scenario clearly designed to make women look like vain assholes

Nope not really it's much more common than I would like

I think it's more common than anyone would like, but that's besides the point

No, you're just an incel lol

so maybe the guys getting fleeced shouldn't be shitty husband's and fathers. any guy worth his salt is involved enough in his kids' life that he should easily be able to produce proof that he's a good father and is entitled to joint custody.

Wierd, you make a statement that its not true yet in the next thread you say otherwise. Try to gather your thoughts and try again.

I didn't say this doesn't happen. Read my comment. I said that this is an edgecase, and women should not be defined by these stereotypes.

,, This isnt true and it really comes as nice guy propaganda''. Huh

This sub is full of incels

Then leave and there will be one less.

Have fun jerking each other off to made up stories about how bad women are

Jesus Christ you're a sad person. Calling everyone incels, when you're clearly single. You're more depressing than the video.

Hate to break this to you but not everyone on reddit is single and sad. I suggest you stop looking at women hating memes and interact with a woman in real life

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Because he's calling everyone incels for liking a meme. I don't downvote people who disagree with me, but he insulted me directly and incorrectly lol. That's probably why.

I have a girlfriend, buddy, and I'm happy. This is a meme but it happens all the time.

Lemme guess your one of those assholes that would love to marry a guy just to betray him and rob him for every penny?

I guess it is. I mean I dont know if you are informing me or you are just annouce that you dont like that. There is a leave button just in case you wondered

It’s kinda oversimplified and half the time the roles are reversed

"Half the time the roles are reversed"

Tf??

Pretty sure they just meant that men cheat on women too. The post just comes off as very "this is the summary of what's wrong with relationships today" and paints a really weird narrative that men aren't capable of agency or standing up for themselves in their own relationships

That being said it is the equivalent of a Not All Men response, which isn't cool, but neither are all of the comments saying that this all women are like this, which has very FemaleDatingStrategy vibes, but from the other perspective

I mean man on women domestic abuse was a pretty major topic for a while

Yeah that is quite far from the truth

As an ex-wife who worked full time the length of the marriage (comparable salary to ex), took half the equity and none of the stuff, and didn’t ask for spousal support because I don’t want his fucking money…that’s it, that’s the end of my thought.

Well if you end your thought unfinished I cannot really argue with you :/

This video is racist and misogynistic lol

I actually think this is racist as well. Like, why are all the stickman characters black?

no it’s racist cuz the fictional man that the fictional woman cheated with was portrayed with a black man’s face cuz ooga booga big scary black man will steal my female because black men have larger penises and are homewreckers

Disagrees? Lol just don’t marry the first person you ever sleep with

I think you figured it out just now

You're an incel. We can argue for hours

I bet we could

I mean people are just going to say I'm 'offended', but really this video is just a super cringey and whiney pity party.

I am sorry but I dont think being sad about divoce is whining

i agree that this is an unfortunate scenario, but not common for most women💀 it’s just a cruel person, they could theoretically be male as well, it just seems like op is trying to stereotype women as money hungry sluts, but ik i’m preaching to the wrong target audience rn

No no, you are absolutly right but that is what I am upset about. People like this exist not just woman but people.

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I cannot project myself because I dont have projector. Good day to you sir

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Thats a really heavy statement you just made. Do you have a way to back it up or you just call him nazi for no reason?

aight. I mean this sub just turns more kids into incels everyday so I'm not the one at fault

Go see the cross post on r/justneckbeardthings

Doesnt look that entertaining to me sorry. But thank you for the recomendation nevertheless

Say you’re an incel without saying you’re an incel

Let’s argue pussy

Wait, if I am incel for wanting to argue and you say ,,lets argue pussy'' then I dont see it too good for you either.

This is more shifted toward men's mental health, which is really important. But the fact that stereotypes about women are constantly being pushed just make it incel (the black stick figure, "women leave nice husbands for black mans/bad guy")

you picked her dude.. put your foot down

i operate under the philosophy that we have way more control over our lives than we think and most of the bad shit that happens is because of your own actions or lack of action

Tell that to the judge that's going to take away both your kids and your life savings.

He chose to get married knowing that was a possible outcome if divorce occurred...

"She chose to go to the bar knowing that was a possible outcome if someone spiked her drink"

"She chose to go to the bar knowing that was a possible outcome if someone spiked her drink"

  1. Marriage is transactional (i.e. requires agreement by both parties) and the consequences of divorce are public knowledge and state sanctioned (i.e. laws).

  2. Marriage is literally one of the most important life decisions a person can make.

Nothing about that is analogous to choosing to go to a bar on a Friday night and having a rando spike your drink...

Edit: No one wants to take personal responsibility for making shitty life choices these days.

Edit 2: Formatting and clarity.

Shitty life choices like... Getting married.

Your advice is to never get married, never have kids, and in some areas, never even have a long-term relationship since that could be considered the same as marriage. As for marriage being transactional, so were those old mining camps that kept people in debt by charging them for the equipment they needed to earn money, but nobody's arguing that that's fair.

Your advice is to never get married, never have kids, and in some areas, never even have a long-term relationship

Correct, that is my legal advice to every client that has ever inquired about potentially getting married, with a solid prenup as a necessity if they are going to ignore my first advice.

As for marriage being transactional, so were those old mining camps that kept people in debt by charging them for the equipment they needed to earn money, but nobody's arguing that that's fair.

You're equating the disparate bargaining positions between an impoverished miner and a mining company with the bargaining positions between a couple in a relationship... I'll give you a hint, those things are not analogous.

You kinda suck at analogies huh?

In the same comment, you said both that 1) men have to either take a shitty deal that could result in having their lives destroyed for no reason or give up on ever having a fulfilling family life, and 2) that men don't have a terrible bargaining position.

You kinda suck at self-awareness, huh?

1) men have to either take a shitty deal that could result in having their lives destroyed for no reason or give up on ever having a fulfilling family life

The shitty deal applies to both sexes, whoever makes more gets screwed financially in divorce, it's literally math. It's just that more often then not the guy makes more, thus guys get screwed more, thus guys bitch more...

Guys should probably stop marrying poor chicks...

That's true, but it's not really a strong argument against the idea that women shouldn't be allowed to ruin a man's life

it's not really a strong argument against the idea that women shouldn't be allowed to ruin a man's life

Like I said it applies to both sexes. Men on average are just dumber for marrying poor chicks and agreeing to the whole "stay at home mom" shit.

If you act like a sucker don't be surprised when you get taken like a sucker.

Lol you don't just trip and fall into marriage dude...

You should have a pretty solid idea of how well you work together as a team BEFORE you go and get married.

It's a mutual thing.

You realize that marriages can last a long time, and people change over time. If, in 20 years, your spouse decides they want some fresh meat, why should the person who kept their end of the bargain be forced to lose more than the person who didn't?

This has some incel vibes but does happen sometimes irl and that's depressing af.

Some? this is classic 4chan incel talk. "Man good. Man work hard. Women bad. Woman nag. Woman fuck black man. Black man bad. Woman take Man money and kids away. Man victim, Woman evil."

Seriously. like this gif is completely ignoring the fact that the vast majority of women work full time jobs too and do most chores and kid caring duties.

It's acting like the wife is a stay at home mom and expects the man to do all the chores. Does it happen? Probably once in a while but far far from the norm. I would call it extremely rare

Ironically that's what they want, a trad wife, but only if she's completely subservient to the man. They don't exactly tend to think of women as full fledged people with dreams, hopes, desires, etc. To them women are akin to property, like farm cattle

this is straight from 4chan. remember seeing this dumb shit over 10 years ago there

Yup, it's making a comeback rn

What the fuck are u talking about man speak in human terms. I've never opened that website in my life

I'm talking about the video...

It's from 4chin?1

Yeah, the content is. It's classic incel shit and is nothing new, I've been seeing that same type of stuff since 2014 on there

Look at his name he not in on inter lore he on reddit to beat it. I respect tho.

yeah, they had to include “Tyrone.” that’s what confirmed that it was an incel and not just some random 13 year old that got broken up with once

I recognised what it was as soon as the "nagging" showed up, but the racism was the cherry on the cake.

Incels are not getting married.

That’s their problem. They don’t have any romantic relationships, which makes them hate women.

Ok, but then it not an incel story.

it’s not a real story retard it’s stick figures

Incels blame shit like this on a society which they feel is keeping them down and "the feminists" are too entitled.

There are so many shitty assumptions in this video, it's just ragebait for young impressionable men.

MGTOW guys then. regardless they have the same stance on hating women over made up comics like this

Yeah it’s definitely a shitty situation for men, but this just sounds like “men good, women bad” mentality.

Also did you notice OP is a Nazi?

This entire sub has incel vibes. Y'all are sad and pathetic as fuck LMAO. Don't go crying about how no woman wants you when all you do is hate women. Like what the fuck is with all these "dank meme" subs and being filled with crazy incels? Is it because yall are all literally 13 and have no idea how the world works? Mom took away your computer because you sent rape threats to insta models and now y'all are mad at women?

This has nothing to do with women wanting them. It’s about what men have to go through, specifically, the adult men.

Ayo wtf

Everyone gets mad wayyy to easily.... And it becomes overblown, and the discussion just gets really fucking heated holy shit.

I hate how women always act like men are the assholes even if it's them

I don’t understand why people say how “women act like this” or “men are always that” and then proceed to spit out one of the most basic functions of the human mind possible

it’s only ever the woman too right. never seen a man be an asshole and lack self awareness. oh wait that’s half these comments lmao

Keep down this path of thinking and you're going to end up a lonely, grouchy person that nobody loves

Unfortunately, we live in reality where this shit happens, and your projection doesn't change that lol

how are they projecting

That’s not just women. No one is the villain in their own story.

Shut the fuck up. Seriously, I fucking hate how people use “women” and “men” like they know 7+ billion people personally. SOME women. SOME men. Making sweeping statements of entire genders is just blatant sexism.

This generalization borders on sexism

Yeah I hated when I was cheated on and felt something wasn't right and was manipulated into thinking I was crazy for feeling that way, then my partner was the victim when I found out and had my trust shattered because I yelled and their mommy did that to them. Oh wait I'm a woman nvm couldn't happen.

Nope. Incel alert

Your the type of guy that simps for women and gives them their every need. Omg women do nothing wrong like stfu we get it you are a modern warrior making straight men have no opinion

Person calls out a strawman of heterosexual marriage.

“Whatever simp.”

Keep proving their point.

I can’t believe you guys are this bent out of shape about the men and women’s bathroom signs.

Wtf is this shit

Nothing of value that's for sure

It’s just like depression material why is this “dank”

Reality for a lot of men, sadly.

I bet your mom did the same if that’s the case. Go talk to her

Incel bullshit, that's what

OP probably has never even had a girlfriend

Bruh he has a nazi profile picture lol he's never talked to a girl.

Nice swastika, you fucking tool.

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Bullshit. That is not a traditional Indian swastika. That is the German Nazi flag. He’s trying to be edgy. He isn’t. He’s an asshole. Like you.

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“I know you are but what am I” vibes

He's like 14 on reddit. It's a swastika for nazis.

Girls: "We DoN't HAvE eQuAl rIgHtS"

Boys: "NO SHIT"

Thank you for speaking my mind

Explain how this has to do with equal rights

Huh

Yeah what does this have to do with women's rights?

The entire point of the video is that now women have more rights and less expectations.

No it’s not, the point of the video its to try and portray women as the enemy or evil for some reason.

literally just an insane incel video, you realize women like work now a days too right..?

OH MY GOD THANK YOU FOR BEING ONE OF THE ONLY SANE PEOPLE HERE

I know this post is absolutely insane, it’s crazy peoples view on women

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a bit overboard…? is that a joke? it’s insanely overboard and is literally just far right incel shit.

This is insanely overboard, women do have more rights when it comes to marital conflicts, but this is much more than that. Straight up sexist and racist, and if anyone genuinely agreed with this they are a sad person.

The points being made can be put in any other form of media to show them, instead they make this thing which invalidates most of the points they make bc of how they portray women and relationships

… what the fuck are you talking about? What does this video have to do with women’s rights? And how is this made up video proof that women deserve less rights?

One (fake) woman in this video: is a cheating bitch

Boys: lol women don’t deserve equal rights

????????????

Yeah, Google "my wife is yelling at me" then "my husband is yelling at me" this is some Bullshit

We literally can't have access to get sterilized without asking our male partners 9/10 times and some states are taking away the option for abortion all together. To name two.

But sure go off.

Where is the funny`? Be 14 elsewhere

OP is literally a teenager. Judging by the comments, most people here are as well. Kind of shows the problem with taking a shitpost from 4chan at face value.

His profile has a nice banner…

He used to have a swastika in his banner dude is a nazi prick lmfaoo

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Does it differ in law if the woman works?

Ew, this has massive neckbeard vibes.

What vibes would it have with swapped genders?

Do you understand now?

...the female version of an incel. That wasn't very difficult. Visit r/femaledatingstrategy, if you think they don't exist.

Annoying how they banned all the male incel subs but not the female one. All the male incels are clearly in this thread now.

Agreed to both points. I understand they were looking for equality, but equality would have been banhammering all of them.

It would get screenshoted posted on r/Cringetopia if the opposite happens lol

This dumbass thread is already all over reddit just the way it is.

Well the genders arent swapped. This is incel shit no matter what lmao

Still would feel pretty cringe but probably less people upset anyways

...also incel vibes? I feel like the answer you were fishing for is "good and wholesome" but we're not your straw men lol

No, it wasn't.

Dumb cunt vibes. The character is a fucking idiot acting like a victim regardless of whether you gender swap it or not. I have girlfriends who routinely get suckered into relationships with entitled manchildren who don’t contribute anything to the relationship and I’m long past empathizing with it. I just go “told you so” when stuff inevitably goes south. Same applies to men like the one in the video. You don’t stumble and fall and accidentally move in, marry and have kids with a narcissist. There are always red flags, even if the people who got suckered into these relationships lie and say that there weren’t. Take accountability for your relationship decisions.

Not sure if I understand. So you're blaming the victims of narcissists for being with narcissists?

No, I think the problem is you have to be accountable for how you act. We live in a society.

It's massively cringe either way.

Everyone in the comments would be saying “not all men”

This is always the worst argument to ever use. Everyone understands your way of thinking, it’s just wrong.

Most people know that bitter and incel women also exist. You thought you had something there, didn’t you?

Then you get another shitty Facebook post

I like how they made a point to make the "other guy" black. Obviously, obviously he has to be black, right? /s

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You sound like an incel

  1. This is made like it happens everywhere all the time. That’s just not true or how it works.
  2. It’s pretty obvious this is made by some incel with the racist shit and the way the creator views women.

There’s not even a joke here so you can’t just say “oh it’s just dark humour”. You’re just being an incel

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While divorce laws are messed up, what everyone is saying is how this video situation isn’t nearly as common as an Incel would want people to think. Not every divorce is about a stereotypical nagging bitch that cheats with a partner of a different race, almost always black in these arguments.

I'll be branded an incel but this is legit what happened to me with the woman who I thought I was going to spend the rest of my life with. Neg me all you want on unreliable narrator talk but I backed up with talk with action showing my concern for our relationship and love for her. No kids thankfully but she was ready to get absolutely nasty in the courts over the dog.

She manipulated me (happy wife happy life, amirite? "Don't you love me?") to sell our darling little home in a place I was quite happy with to a place I consider a shithole. She "had a friend" sign her up for Tinder "by accident" (the CC charges say otherwise) and she was fucking behind my back. She dipped out as soon as I tried to remind her of our shared (discussed, planned, agreed upon, mutual) financial goals and how her habits over the past few months were derailing that. She immediately wanted to divorce and received nothing but praise and support as she flitted off to the next idiot to subsidize her lifestyle while she dropped me alone in a new place I hated at the beginning of a pandemic.

So not everything that doesn't align with your rosy, and I assume childish, understanding of life qualifies as incel and it really erases a lot of issues men face socially, mentally, financially, and emotionally. We're deserving of a little empathy and support as well. Yes, I didn't know what I know now. Yes, there were some warning signs but there was also a ton of love and lots of happy memories and moments until the day she looked me in the eye and cut my throat (throat cutting metaphorical) while telling me she'd been planning this for two years.

Whomever you are I hope you aren't ever put thru anything like this it almost killed me and I consider myself to be awfully resilient.

I’m sorry, that’s rough. You’re not an incel for that happening, it would just be incel a who would brands all women under one identity because they saw this happen to someone

OP has a swastika as their banner image when you click their profile.

No but it’s a joke because uh um uh

I was expecting someone to say that unironically.

This person isnt trying to say women bad, they are just illustrating what may happen

We live in a society

Bro I don’t think this is the right subreddit for it

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Damn you weren’t kidding. I’m honestly kind of shocked by it just because of how big the swastika is but then again, it is the internet.

What is the right subreddit for this trash lol.

I came here to see funny things, not depressing

This is some of the most incel shit I've seen all week, lmao. Woman bad, wah wah wah.

This is not what happens when you marry a woman. This is what happens when you marry an idiot that reinforces a warped perception of women onto you.

Let's be real, you're just sucked into some weird ass content on the internet. Most women are not like this. Stop living in this world, for the love of God.

Why do people marry women like that in the first place? Your decision to spend life with an asshole comes with consequences.

Reminds me of the quote "The person you marry isn't the same person you get divorced from".

Seriously the stick dude in this clip has zero agency.

Don't want to get married? Don't. Don't want to have kids? Don't.

Like sweet Jesus little stick dude, have some self-respect. If you are always being bullied and pushed around by your "partner" BEFORE marriage...

Well then don't marry that person, and don't have kids with them, cause that shit isn't just going to "work itself out somehow" in the future.

Don't want to get married? Don't. Don't want to have kids? Don't.

Even if the story was changed to him wanting marriage and kids, it still doesn't end as a happy situation.

Sadly people change

Masterbation looking better and better every day...

"Masturbation"

Realistically she would not get all the money she would get 50% which is more than that lying bitch deserves but he would not be poor

I'd be poor af with only half my money. Must be nice.

I mean yh but for the video it shows he was rich af before divorce now he's broke

Rich? Because of the bags with dollar signs? I guess you could interpret it that way. I saw him as just a normal guy.

And lost his kids. Probably hurts too

Wrong. She gets 50% of assets. Then dad must also pay monthly spousal and child support. Support is based upon the spouse and children’s previous standard of living. Dad now supports two households out of the same income as before. The ex and kids continue living well in a nice home, while dad moves back in with parents or rents a crap apartment. The end.

K bro I didn't think about it like that but yh ur right

That’s simply not true, he has kids therefore he will pay a much larger amount than what it actually costs to raise them plus gets to give half of his assets even though she also works, source: I almost lost everything to divorce, took me a long time to get past the financial damage. Also you don’t even have to get married in many places just living with a person places you in this position.

Lol this sub is for children I stg. Do any of you work or go to school with women? Do any of you actually speak to any of them? This is major cringe and so is every comment supporting this weak AF strawman

If this sub is for children why are you here. And even then just look at any major divorce case, it really favors women

Wea real

That's why trusting another human being is dangerous and you should live a isolationist lifestyle and be suspicious of everyone

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u didn’t need to say ur a child of divorce, we already knew

Be careful. Internet people will call you an incel

That nazi flag in his profile doesn’t help his case very much.

Oh… crap

I don't know if I'm more annoyed at people like you who go "heh, bet you think they're an incel" without checking whether obvious incel post was posted by an incel or the person who made the incel post

Ok i made a mistake but shut the fuck up

“Pfft, OP isn’t an incel.”

“He literally has a Nazi flag on his profile.”

“Oh well shut the fuck up.”

Yeah that’s exactly what happened

Oops just a one time thing though! You couldn’t possibly be on the wrong side of an issue 😳

Yeah who would have seen that coming after a societally analytical masterpiece such as this one; with hot new takes such as; women bad and oppressive; men good and hard working - but only white men are good because black men will fuck your wife and completely ruin your life.

Half-measure, people. Learn about it

I mean... he is

He fucking is lmao

rightfully so

That’s something that happens more often than you think, and talking about it doesn’t make anybody an incel

Yeah bruh, some of this is true (the divorce favoring the woman, the alimony going to her) but the “woman bad, make man sad, man alone now” is such r/niceguys shit.

That’s absolutely not the message to get. You see, that's the problem with this expression, people who use it can’t make a balance, like when you say "not all men" when a woman denounces a male vice.

Its not trying to say women bad? Its just showing what happens to some people

Is that common story in US?

Not as common as this thread would lead you to believe.

Not common, but everyone knows someone it’s happened to

Well for one thing the vast majority of women work and on top of that they do most of the child rearing and housework. Men usually just work. So now we have an overworked mother that's frustrated because she feels like she has to ask her husband to watch his own kids and help around the house a little only for it to last only a little while and then go back to normal. This leads to decrease in attraction and dead bedrooms. Which usually leads to divorce with or without cheating from either party. Married men cheat more than married women because of dead bedrooms. Women usually cheat because they feel unsupported and fall out of love with their husband. Most men still want their wives so they cheat to take care of sexual needs so it is usually the wife that initiates divorce. This is the most common scenario. The video above does happen but is uncommon and really is just incel propaganda

Ah, I remember my first time.

I'll say its definitely based as fuck but this does happen and does create a social dialog that all women are like this and it simply isn't true. Not all women are like this but on the same note I have watched a good friend of mine go through this (still is) but he handles it pretty well gave up his house and dogs and studio equipment and instruments everything,(all things he earned, even building said house)but chose to focus on himself and what really made him happy, he know has majority custody, a new home, a new girlfriend who loves and supports him and his child.

I guess the rant I just went on is more or less summed up as such. If you marry a trash woman (partner) and this happens stay focused stay positive, and persevere. Dont let anyone stop you from moving on in life. If you can't get custody fight tooth and nail to make sure your kids see you, hear you, and know you love them, they might not understand now but they will later. And lastly and most importantly, be kind to yourself.

I’ve never seen a meme that made me want to cry so badly, and it only hurts worse because there are some foul women that have actually done this in the real world.

Well I’m sad now

Women aren’t the only victims.

Nice swastika there fuckface

OP is a Nazi

You get, no bitches.

Go back to 4chan

over 6,300 racist incels liked this video. dank

Don’t be a racist nazi incel

oooh smells like 2016, edgy! #rekt #antifeminist #trump #MAGA

serious question though, did the self proclaimed “meme lord” teenagers from 2016 never grow out of this phase, doomed to lurking on 4chan, convincing themselves all women are the root of their problems and refusing to live in the real world? or is a new generation of impressionable yet angsty 17 yr olds falling for the same bullshit?

i fell for this naive mindset years ago and it stunted a lot of emotional and social growth. living in the real word was like a kick to the face. when you become an adult and start forming friendships, relationships, and actually talking to people (outside the internet), you’ll wish you’d never been subjected to so much poisoning from the web. there’s much to learn, and eventually, you’ll live in the real world and see things the way they really are. assuming most of you on this sub are >20 yrs old, do yourself a favor and don’t be so gullible. being stuck in this mindset won’t benefit you.

Maybe it s because you have a swastika in your profile, neckbeard dumbass.

This got a fucking platinum award

And they didnt check if the user has a swastika on the banner

HOW THE FUCK DOES THIS HAVE 11K UPVOTES??? THE FUCK IS THIS SUB

First of all, why the guy gotta be black? Second of all, this shit is just an incel's wet, hate fantasy.

OP what’s with that cover photo?

r/lostredditor

Bro you are a fucking loser for posting this incel shit

So, all women suck, black guys are always trying to fuck your wifes, you have a fuckin swastika as your banner & we’re supposed to accept this video as “dank”?!? Wtf.

Whoever made this had no intention of being funny or "dank", they're venting a sincere belief that women are evil people. People upvoting the post are doing it completely unironically. Cry about "Feminazis triggered xDD" all you want, this is pure cringe.

r/AreTheStraightsOk

Haha what a totally non-serious nazi poster. Nothing wrong with OP’s profile at all.

I like the representation for men and how this kinda stuff screws them over, but let's be real it was made for the sole purpose of making people mad and doesn't care at all about people who actually go through this.

Holy, you're a sad person.

An accurate depiction of modern marriage

THIS literally happened to my husband by his ex wife!!!!

As a woman, I feel like the man in is this video is a pussy. He’s just letting the woman yell at him while he’s at work. Doesn’t push back on anything? I think that’s the root cause here.

Women ☕️

What is this incel shit

Par for the course around this sub unfortunately

look at OPs banner 💀 incel and nazi

He is from indian denk memes alredy not a good person lol

i mean if that nazi flag didn’t spell it out

I cant see it i am on phone

yeah me too, just gotta tap on OPs name

Comes from the same people that think "my spouse sucks" jokes are the height of comedy.

Nah it’s past incel shit. Seen it happen to many men in my life.

The same guys that blame women for their shitty taste in partners, but this guy...he is a victim bc he is not responsible for his taste in partners.

Alimony is the dumbest thing the USA invented.

TL;DR Marriage sucks and you can have a happy family without the need of marrying

More like don't get forced into anything, and take responsibility for your choices. You don't need marriage, but it only sucks if it's something you actually don't want or you're with the wrong person. Same thing can be said of any relationship, really.

Fr, marriage is an obsolete practice from the age when a person had to engage with someone from a rich family to avoid starving.

No it's the faithful bond between people who at the time truly love each other (though sometimes on of em is lying) you simply have to find the right people and avoid narcissistic wretches such as the kind of woman from the video

You may have a relationship without marrying.

Ain't gonna be a stable one telling you that much

Then it wasn't made to last anyways lol. A marriage wouldn't change dick.

Facts

man you couldnt be more right,fuck who disagree with this

But this is incel propaganda. I have seen this posted many times on braincel

No dude it’s totally a coincidence that the guy you’re supposed to be afraid of cucking you is black

its a stereotype and its disgusting

Similar thing happened to an acquaintance of mine, called acquaintance because we are no longer close since highschool, but he married his highschool sweetheart at the ripe age of 18, it was good for him for a while but his wife started hooking up with my ex girlfriend's fiance (this was after we broke up) and the irony is she ended up getting pregnant with my acquaintance's child. He didn't find out until months after the child was born, and yes its his but now he's forced into a married and a child he doesn't want to be in, and can't divorce because she would take 50% of his assets since he didn't do a prenuptial agreement

This shit must just happen with people who marry too young. I swear that the people in these stories are always like married super young. I just don’t hear this crap happening to people who married in their late 20s and 30s.

Thats why you have to make sure you're 100% good with the relationship

And you expect to be married in your 40s They call it a spring chicken for a reason

Sad really that guy must be mentally fucked after all the thought of love is just deception to make us breed and continue our species.

Ima need to child proof you with all that edge you got there

Wouldnt be normally doing this but this is way too real scenario that happens too often and i think its better not to get involved in marriage, love shit rather to see this scenario happening to you in reality

No bitches?

No, according to this video you can either be the alpha side piece, or the beta husband because all women are Jezebels and poor Nice Guys™ are only good for making children and alimony. And non-consensual cucking. That's all men can be, you get two paths and women only get one.

Pretty spot on

if you're a racist incel loser

What about this video is racist? What a weird thing to say

Cuz the only real picture in the whole video was of a black guy fucking the girl

Lmao idk why you’re getting downvoted. The whole video was “Guy work. Guy is good guy. Wife bad. Wife fuck black man.” Why is it a black man? Literally the first character to not be a stick figure

Saying why a black man is racist itself you numpty.

its a known stereotype/inside joke, it is kinda racist to always use a black man as a caricature

Wouldn't that be a racist ideology in itself. If we can't use black men as caricatures then we're segrating them from these kinds of content.

You're missing the entire point

Care to explain it then? Because I don't see this as racist as they show white and black men coming over to hers.

It's a "Tyrone" joke. It's a conglomeration of racist and sexist stereotypes that White women are cheaters who are irresistibly attracted to Black men because of their "BBCs". This is made perfectly clear by the fact that the only character in the video whose race is explicitly specified is an attractive Black man. Can't believe I really need to spell that out but this is a conservative subreddit after all :(

You clearly didn't watch it properly because with 15 seconds left an attractive white guy is knocking her door... So yeah maybe look before you judge

Oh for fucks sake. You pointed out a slight mistake in my comment, great job.

MOST of what I said is true. The Black man is still a "Tyrone fucked my wife" caricature, which is racist. The ex-wife is still a "lying bitch took everything" stereotype, which is sexist. The people who believe in these stereotypes tend to brutalize innocent people, so I hate this bullshit video.

You asked for an explanation. This is the explanation you asked for. Please be generous and try to understand arguments you disagree with, even if there is a minor error like the one I made above.

"slight mistake"? It was your whole point 😅. If you want me to understand your point at least try to see mine. If you say it's racist for having a black guy fcking the wife that's basically saying you can't use black guys for cheating memes which is racist in itself. I'm done commenting about this so please leave it at that :)

you should probably read my comments again, carefully

I advise you do too champ ✌️

So are you racist? Because a white guy definitely comes over too lol

There’s literally 2 pics of white guys

They’re comments

What about the one who was knocking on her door?

Lol like you don’t know

This is very true for most women ive noticed… but a lot leave from abusive husbands, so they have an excuse. Not “he made me feel special.”

Sad cuz I've believe it

Muslim countrys have no such bullshit if she wants a divorce she gives your money back

Some serious incel energy in here.

This isn’t dank, just sad

This is my uncles life story. Great guy.

Now that I think about it, this is how my mom is

Sad,but unfortunately is the truth, guys if you are reading this just focus on yourself and your hobbies, sometimes you are gonna fail in life but never give up, all good things comes at the right time

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That's how Shawshank Redemption starts

Boom boom thump thump boom thump WEEWOOWEEWOOWEEWOOO

This hurts how true it is. Thank God I refuse to date women

"Looks like meat back on the menu boys."

Lol implying the reason you don't get dates is because you don't want them. Classic incel shit, stay classy my friend

Its obviously satire dumbass

Lol ok weirdo

This person is a furry, they already know they wont get women

Im sure they refuse to date you too

Hell yeah. No time for women. Trying to keep kids hidden in my basement from her would be very difficult

R/OddlySpecific

Use a lower case r if you want to link subreddits, just for next time

I'm gay but this is still insulting to women

Women thank you too, as long as you stay that way

You forgot the suicide part…

Or become buff and start hunting ppl

POV this is “””male privilege”””

I don’t think anyone who talks about male privilege is referring to this stupid cartoon

...no it's not??? nobody is saying it is??

I know the comment was sarcasm, about how feminists always claim men have privilege

Men have privilege and this isn't an argumet for men not having privilege. Having privilege doesn't mix very well with you persecution fetish soo you have to out right deny it.

oh i'm fully aware of what your comment meant, dude. it was shit

Men have a lot of privilege. Just because we may be disandvantaged in some situations doesn't mean we aren't privileged in many other ways. Take spiking, for example. Out of my friends there's only one woman left who hasn't been spiked at least once, but the men? None of us have, in fact most of us have never even had anyone even so much as eye us up. This is consistent with data as women are more than twice as likely to be spiked than men. And that's just one example, you can generalise this to all sorts of sexual assault and risk from predators and creeps. Most girls on reddit have experienced pedos in their DMs, sometimes even if they've never posted their face. I used to mod r/AskTeenGirls and the sheer number of creepy guys we had to ban compared to the mods on the sister sub r/askteenboys was astonishing.

There are many other ways men are privileged, and I won't bother to list them, but nonetheless you are in a chronic victim complex phase where you don't want to accept the privilege you have because it's easier to feel like you're a victim than admit your gender gives you extra. And I know that because I was once in that state. You will change eventually.

Take spiking, for example. Out of my friends there's only one woman left who hasn't been spiked at least once, but the men? None of us have, in fact most of us have never even had anyone even so much as eye us up. This is consistent with data as women are more than twice as likely to be spiked than men. And that's just one example, you can generalise this to all sorts of sexual assault and risk from predators and creeps. Most girls on reddit have experienced pedos in their DMs, sometimes even if they've never posted their face. I used to mod r/AskTeenGirls and the sheer number of creepy guys we had to ban compared to the mods on the sister sub r/askteenboys was astonishing.

Just because women are disadvantaged in some areas, doesn't mean that they don't have a lot of privilege in others.

Feel free to disagree, but I think that women are privileged over men in western society.

I agree that both binary sexes have advantages in different areas but think that women are generally disadvantaged in ways that are more severe and affect more of them than the situations with the reverse. Very broad statement and there's too many things to list but that's my view. Though it is also worth slightly splitting these issues into age bands, for obvious reasons. Custody battles generally affect a whole other generation to spiking.

This is a slight tangent but it's relevant to part of my previous comment, but realising that feminism did care about a lot of the men's issues that the MRAs would have you believe it neglects did a lot to help me gtfo of that victim complex phase myself. Whether or not you hold that view idk but the other guy does, so just in case he reads this huh.

but realising that feminism did care about a lot of the men's issues

Ah yes. In fact, they cared so much that they tried to shut down gender neutral rape laws in India and Israel.

https://m.timesofindia.com/india/activists-join-chorus-against-gender-neutral-rape-laws/articleshow/18840879.cms

https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.jpost.com/israel/womens-groups-cancel-law-charging-women-with-rape/amp?espv=1

Misandrists are a different and louder small subsection of feminism which unfortunately places like r/MensRights have framed to be the majority of the movement. It seriously overshadows the efforts of liberal feminists especially (though I consider a fair few radfem views to be fair as well).

If it was such a small part of feminism as you claim they are then they wouldn't have been able to shut down the law in a country of over 1 billion people. I'm not saying that all or even most feminists are like that, but way too many people downplay the amount of people needed to pull this off and barely any feminist calls them out.

I mean india is a different culture and a half to places like the US and UK which would be the countries I'd talk about the feminist movements of because I actually know about them, idk much about indian culture at all but it's likely to have a wildly different movement. Although the little I do know about indian culture seems to point to it very desperately needing proper feminism, so goddamn if they've set themselves back by doing something like that.

Damn this video is a “Snap back to reality”

Ope, there goes gravity

I get that us men have a certain level of privilege but I you can't accept that women have them as well then your part of the problem

Men have no privilege the hell you talking bout?

Dude we have lived in a society where the right for women to vote isn't even 200 years old, and you want to say in complete confidence that we have no privilege?

Also lemme guess you are also the kind of person who is wildly racist and spews the white privilege bullshit aswell

What? Of course not. All I'm saying is that both genders have privilege that manifests different ways and that gender equality can't be achieved until we all realise that the problem goes both ways. I never said that the privilege of either gender was a good thing. As for white privilege, yes we have it but again that isn't good either.

we HAVE lived in a society where the right for women to vote isn't even 200 years old

Men were definitely privileged in the past, however women gained equal rights and rightfully so

I get that but there still some things we take for granted. Especially in unenlightened parts of the world

Yes men are still privileged in a lot of developing and/or authoritarian countries, not in the west though

Yeah very confidently

This made me angry to watch

You need to talk to people more

Ngl this made me just sit and stare for 2 minutes while thinking about how this is so common

This is tru

Simple solution

Don’t marry. Don’t play the game, it’s no longer fair for both genders

In some cases this is hard reality dawg

Woman moment

The sad thing is that in reality similar thing happens to people. Oof.... Poor guy

Hm *sorts by controversial *

r/arethestraightsOK

OP either

A) is a child who made up a fake scenario to whine about or

B) got cucked and immedeately hopped on Reddit to make memes about it

Or maybe you are like that women in video.🤣🤣🤣.

Maybe if I was a woman

L

If any gullible 16 year old reads this, please just stop watching this garbage and don't become an alt-right troglodyte

Stop spending your time on Reddit or YouTube or whatever else and just go touch grass with your irl friends. This is is alt-right propaganda that's gonna make you really hateful and more importantly bitter.

Dude, seriously, this is just straight up alt-right propaganda. Disgusting that people are either too stupid to see or completely complacent with it

Why?

Why what? Like why is it alt-right propaganda?

Yeah, I also heard someone say it was alt-left propaganda

Oh, that person was just copy pasting the main comment to show their disagreement, If you’re talking about the one attached to the one I replied to.

To answer your question, though, there are a lot of alt-right ideas dog whistled here. What are the main takeaways from this video? If you boil it down it shows stereotypes almost exclusively. The only women in the comic are portrayed with the incel stereotypes of mindless whores who fuck anything and don’t have basic human empathy (the wife) and a horrid depiction of women on dating sites being hypocritical and demanding. Arguably, the even worse stereotype on display is that the only black man in the video (who by the way, the creator specifically went out of their way to make a black man) is portrayed as a bad person who just mindlessly fucks too. It plays on old stereotypes of black men doing this to married white women.

The fact that the only actual 3 dimensional human being in the video is the white man (who we know is white because, again, the creator specifically made someone black) and that all women and racial minorities here are 1 dimensional stereotypes means those are the ways you’re to leave this video believing the world to be. It very simply isn’t. This is a fictitious video made up in the mind of someone who has never actually challenged stereotypes and has secluded themselves from a world where they might interact with different people. The people who see the world this way are incorrect, and they hold the same beliefs as people on the alt-right, even if they’re unaware of it.

Exactly. These dudes have never spoken to a woman in their lives, fuck is this shit about family lmfaoo

Take your own advice.

If any gullible 16 year old reads this, please just stop watching this garbage and don't become an alt-left troglodyte

Stop spending your time on Reddit or YouTube or whatever else and just go touch grass with your irl friends. This is is alt-left propaganda that's gonna make you really hateful and more importantly bitter.

Motherfucker you sound so unconvincing. Both sides un-ironcally spout the stupidest shit without actually willing to hear the other one out.

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So you read my comment. Decide that even though it has nothing to do with women you'll get offended over it and better yet you manage to make this about me being an incel? Jesus, do you fuckers even know how to insult someone properly anymore? If you're going to insult me, at least be fucking intuitive you witless worm.

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Are you gonna make an effort to try and make a rebuttal or should I take your lack of arguments as a sign that you are to bitter to admit you are wrong, witless worm.

Wow you are a sad sack of depressed potato left in a moist sun room. Chill.

Now that's what I'm talking about! Thank you.

But still, no.

Your welcome and yes

dude you're literally admitting you're an incel unironically that just makes you look like less of a man than you are

You're really fucking stupid like actually. How can you folks keep missing my point so badly that you keep proving it to me

alt-left literally doesn't exist tf you mean

Whether you want to believe that the left either are or are not capable of extremism, my point was that both sides both say the exact same shit about eachother as a means to try and convince folks to join their view and bash the other. It's a stupid cycle of pointless debates and polarised politics. TL:DR my point went over your head

no, I mean the alt-left doesn't exist as a group like the alt-right. like, the alt-right only exists because a schism occured where right-wingers said 'you guys are too mainstream and not extreme enough' and made a new label. that hasn't happened with the left.

also that's not what the left/right thing is. take race. black supremacists aren't leftists, they're a different group parroting right-wing rhetoric used by white supremacists, just reversed. or, for instance, misandrists, who are just misogynists but with reversed word order.

Still not getting the point. Im only saying that folks say the exact same shit regardless of which side of the political coin they belong to. Whether the alt-left doesn't exist in your book. Folks on the right side of the political spectrum still refer to extreme leftism as the alt-left. And now you forced me into the one thing I was trying to avoid. Further pointless fucking bickering.

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no, I'm also saying that, in relevance to this video, extreme leftists aren't categorically misandrists. extreme rightists are either misogynistic or misandrists.

tl;DR leave the left out of this, we have nothing to do with your misogyny/andry because our goal is neither

Wow. You just proved my point!

"My side doesn't do this thing, the other side really does it. My side isn't the bad guys, the other ones are."

Stop thinking you are right just because you believe in your ideals. Both sides exist for a reason. But both sides have collectively decided to take a swan dive into a pile of shit, because you both are unwilling to compromise, blame eachother for your problems and say the exact same things about the other in the false hope you will convert someone to your side. It's stupid.

No, like seriously, I don't think you know what left and right mean lol. it's not left good or bad, or right good or bad, it's literally "Left wing doesn't want hierarchy, because left wing believes man is not inherently evil, and, unlike the natural order of other animals, does not therefore need hierarchy to control the evil. The right wing is the opposite."

It goes back to the Enlightenment, the left wing taking ideas from Rousseau and the right adopting the ideas of Locke.

That's what left and right mean, the terms being derived from which side of the room certain political leanings post-French Revolution sat on. Those that opposed a government, or wanted a very, very weak one, sat on the left. Those that believed a government was necessary sat on the right.

Misogyy/Misandry are inherently right-wing, as they intend to enforce a hierarchy. Equality is inherently left-wing thought, as it intends to remove/prevent a hierarchy.

Listen. I really appreciate your extensive knowledge on policy. And do understand I'm not undermining your point. But my point still remains the same. In our modern day world folks are so quick to point the finger and blame the opposing group. You cannot deny that there aren't leftist people extremely closeminded, ill-informed, racist and sexist. Both sides are capable of spouting the stupidest shit to slander one another. Both sides can say stupid shit.

I don't disagree with your point. Che Guevara was notoriously homophobic, for instance. But what I'm saying is that has nothing to do with him being a leftist, where as somebody if someone were far-right, it absolutely would be related.

Disagree with your original point quite heavily, this video is definitely some incel far-right "woke leftist sjw destroyed BS", but I don't have time to debate that. it's a dumb argument, I'm a busy lass, you're probably pretty busy too. Closure?

Yeah, dude. You raise some good points though. Have a good day.

Alt-Left>>>>>>>>>>>> Alt-Right

Everything's better than being a misogynist nazi-coded cunt, so yeah.

See this is the exact bullshit im talking about!

You say the exact same brainless shit the opposite side says! You're unwillingness to compromise shows how you are in able to actually strife to a better middle ground. A right wing person talking to you would say;

"Alt-Right>>>>>>>>>>>> Alt-Left

Everything's better than being a man hating anarchy-coded cunt, so yeah"

Thinking they contributed to the argument. All you just said was "My side good their side bad" without making an arguments.

Yeah, as someone who’s got an idiot as their dad, stuff like this is really not the majority of how it usually goes for married couples

This has to be a troll lmao

The flying fuck has this got to do with politics? Maybe you should go touch some grass. Smoke some while you're at it.

irl friends?

Its not alt right its a large percentage of divorce outcomes for (mostly liberal) men in America.

And reddit is massively populated with far left people. The right are in the minority.

This is some incel shit lol

I can sense that you are the kind of woman featured within this video

Hhahahaha

Ima take that as a big old yes

Lol no its a massive no. I have two very loving very successful and honest relationships. Im doing just fine

Two you say TWO you say yeah you cheating on one of those guys

Neither of them are men first of all, and thats not how polyamory works lol

So you cheating one one of these ladies that better? Also polyamory is doomed to fail no matter how much you people do not want to admit it

Yep you know more about my relationships than I do ur right CactusFucker420

Really tryna reach for something here ain't ya?

By telling you that Im more of an expert on my long term relationships than you, a stranger who doesnt even know my name? Thats a reach?

I am simply saying a general statement about the kind of relationship you are in it's doomed to fail and it's most likely gonna happen one day or another

Yea exactly ur claiming to know more about the intricacies and health and longevity of my relationships than i do, which is funny and ridiculous

Maybe it wouldnt work for YOU, but buddy ive got plenty to say about why that probably is too that you would get mad about

Enjoy fucking that cactus and your anime pillow, she’s getting twice as much action as you’re dreaming of getting

Lmfaoo exactly these dudes are sad

Also neither of them are ladies either but ur not ready for that convo lmao

“When you can’t feel anything, so you invent shit just to feel something”

Ohhhhhh so their mental patients I see

It's very difficult to keep up from what I gather but I have no idea why it can't work

Besides one of my problems with It (the extremely increased chance of STDs and the unfaithfulness and sexual greed held by someone who wants to be with more than one partner) no matter what a person cannot possibly maintain equal attention to two romantic partners meaning sooner or later jealousy will grow then, it will all crumble

Sooooo did you fail to love both your parents equally? Did you "broke up" with one due to the other being jealous?

Because love according to you is a zero sum game.

Also what is success or failure in a relationship for you? Is there like an achievement you can unlock so you know your relationship "succeeded"?

Even though it happens?

Finally a sane person

it just hurts to see that this is true

Who hurt you? They don't deserve you.

I failed to see the comedy, Just saw a dark reality.

lmao this is some r/niceguys shit

Downvoted by incels lol

Literally incel bait, inventing a scenario to hate women over. If any teens read this, people, women and relationships are a lot more complex than what this pointless video is trying to portray.

I agree, but this does happen quite often on both sides the marriage though

Oh yeah, I think this is simply an oversimplification and you are thinking of an excuse to defend your offended ass

Lol not everyone who talks about something is "oFfEnDeD"

I just think its sad so many people would follow this obvious incel bait.

Yep, radical feminists talk right there. You know, women, having equal rights as men is fair but it's not fair to abuse this movement to render every male person as anti feminist only because they don't agree with you

I never called any male anti feminist? What lol I'm against Incels because thats not a good thing or a good mindset to live by. Even incels don't WANT to be incels lol, but its that mindset that keeps them there, and videos like this radicalise young and impressionable men to that idea and I think its sad.

You're just making stuff up at me lol

Okay you are right, sorry, this person obviously has no idea what he is saying. This is probably a situation with very low probability of happening, but very common

How can you aft so toxic while being Irish, game designer and playing games.Hell, how can you be able to express your opinion that well when you are playing genshin

1 sane mind here, thank you

People still in the epic feminist rekt phase? Fucking hell this stinks 2016 edgy teenage boys

Innit. Saw this in popular and downvoted cuz this topic has been so latched onto and overused as basically a strawman by teen boys with victim complexes

Which is particularly hilarious considering they've obviously never gone through half of what this is

It seems your in your “eww men bad oppressors” phase

But yeah i have seen this shit happen before

Nah I literally saw post like this alot on reddit and tiktok

Reddit teens are societal outcasts

I'm not though

Quit lying to yourself I'm a reddit teen people would rather speak to teachers than me

Guys are still getting ruined by divorce and left out on the street so its not really that out of fashion.

This is cringe with a cringe title

Feminist spotted

Incel spotted

Ok and what of it dumb

What's wrong with being a feminist?

Everything.

Nice joke

Am not joking . The whole idea of feminism is trash.

No it's not. You're just an incel. You're saying that equal rights shouldn't exist

Yes am sayin just that. Coz they arent equal tf

Yes they are and you're obviously a troll lol

I would rather not stain myself by talking to a feminist this long.

Alright incel ☺️👍. I hope you learn to stop being a 6 year old and mature into a decent human being

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Karen for wanting equal women rights with men? Alright kid, how about you go back to playing with your dolls

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Male Strippers exist too kiddo :)

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So it makes this point invalid bc men can feel the same way. If you think Women don't deserve equal rights with men, then that sounds like a literal problem that makes you sexist

Feminists usually suck and dont actually want gender equality, they want women to be more powerful than men, thats why they use the phrase "Kill All Men"

lol, this statement is funnier than the actual meme. Keep thinking that incel.

Its true though

No it's not, you clearly don't know what feminists are lol. You're assuming bc negativity speaks louder than positivity

Generally they are dumbass not all the time

Generally they are not all the time

Yup some of my buddies are going through this exact thing.

Lol incel more jesus people lol

if he was an incel he would be better lmao. Choose your words properly

Lol the fuck is this fake deep shit

it isnt fake. its our reality

Bro you literally think mega knight is broken stfu.

No shit they’re stick people. Obviously it’s fake smh 🙄

This right here………..hit deep as fuck,keep your heads up kings

There’s not a chance that anyone clutching their chests in this sub has actually been cheated on. No own who gets duped by this propaganda has ever fucked

impressionable minds and all that….

being gullible and falling into this mindset at a young age will also hinder your chances of having any sort of healthy relationship. or understanding how people work in real life. or, getting fucked any time soon.

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Blue hair and Onlyfans intensifies

I’m guessing you got cheated on too 🥺🥺😂

Not all of us are buff guys with strong accent that spend 3/4 of their lives in some bar chugging beer and telling mysogynist jokes

You’re right

r/terriblefacebookmemes

So this one of the oldest things I’ve seen to date btw. Probably(I may be wrong) around in the 2000s.

The people who downvoted are 100% incels

Literally me

Aww man have a hug :D

yes, you are now fitting for the r/niceguys initiative, get the fuck out of here

This has actually happened to my father

I found out after stalking my mum's phone

Reasons why I have decided to just stay single, Exhibit A

“decided” now there’s a dank meme for yah

Now that's just hurtful

The sad truth

Well that was an emotional rollercoaster.

This is the first time a post on reddit that made cry

That’s insane that some incel shit would make you cry, this is literally just a dude making himself to be a victim in a made up situation that happens to both men and women

Lol yea why’d this show up on the front page?? I kept thinking it’d turn out to be some ironic joke, but no it literally just kept being incel trash lol

I mean I don't want to get married cuz the fear of thst happening to me or even worse it's just sad

This literally won’t happen, just marry a decent person (most people) and have similar values to them.

This is scaring you for no reason, most relationships aren’t like this

You obviously haven’t had experience with a divorce court this is exactly how it goes.

No it’s not lmao

Im not even gonna waste time having this argument lol. If ur really that detached from reality look at the statistics from divorce settlements, and then look at suicide statistics from divorced males theres a reason people make vids like this.

And if not i guess just keep living in a world of blissful ignorance.

Yes, i know males get screwed out in divorce cases. But this video isn’t anywhere close to that, it’s a lot more complicated than this and this is literally just incels spewing random shit

Fuck that was depressing. We all fall for it too

lol no we don’t

If it ain’t got you yet… it will.

What are you even talking about my man

The video dude, Statistically it happens to us All

Yeah I don’t think that’s true

Well support your brothers in arms it does happen to then, cause it happens to A LOT of us.

In arms? The fuck are you talking about? I wasn’t aware we were at war with women

Dude if your wife cheated on you that sucks, but that’s not something that all women did to all men. Let alone the weird racial component of this video

Ok you’re just being difficult, a child raised in the internet Era, consumed by social media norms. Good day sir.

Toodaloo guvna, sorry your wife got some good dick

Every night Broski!

She cheats on you that much? Damn I get why you’re so salty

She says it kinda like salty and sweet at the same time, I eat my PinAps!🍍

Thank you for telling me how your cum tastes, very normal behavior

Thought you might enjoy that 😘

“statistically it happens to us all” lol. who’s “us”?

most of the comments are saying this video is “heartbreaking” and “so true”, and yet the majority of users on this sub are teens and pre-teens who’ve never been in a relationship (easily influenced by propaganda, surprise), let alone been married. “statistically”, that’s a lot of people who don’t know what they’re talking about.

i hope she sees you going this hard in the comments

Well, now you know what to expect, so hopefully you won't be interested in women and you'll leave us alone! Right?

I am pretty sure he will leave you alone ms u/idiotuglyfat.

🏳️

Yeah, things were CLEARLY better when the only way to get out of a marriage was murdering your spouse. #makemarriagemurderagain

I came here to laugh

Not to feel

I took physical pain from the cringe

Hahahahahaha 😐

somehow it’s the year 2022 and redditors are still making memes about made up men fucking women that don’t like them… some things never change

It’s even sadder that this is considered a “meme” nowadays. I was really hoping there was gonna be a punchline and to discover it was just mgtow propaganda on a meme subreddit I cringed

Yes because it actually happens? The divorce systems favors women way more than men

I got $0 from my divorce where my ex-husband had an affair. Wish I would've had you as a lawyer so I could've got something out of it, since I apparently didn't get what divorce court usually gives women in a divorce proceeding.

This is 75 days old, you must know I’m right if it got that deep in your head

There's no statute of limitations to commenting to people, and no you're not right but you ARE misinformed

Oh sick, you just made up a super generalized scenario that has definitely never happened to you so you can get mad and blame a large group of people for the thing you wish you were oppressed for? Fuckin sick man

No the divorce system is fucked and favors women a hundred percent of the time it REALLY needs to change so for example kids can stop being put back into a home with their abusive mothers while their father is a good person and men can stop getting robbed by greedy rats that married just to divorce and steal the money

While i agree the divoce system is fucked, i don't think this video's theme was that or else they would have left out so many unecessary details and would have showed the man trying to get custody of his kids, failing, but trying anyway and be depressed because of that and not some randoms saying "she deserves better"

r/terriblefacebookmemes

Where's the part where he gives up his life

How to make a murderer?

Depression Vibes

Equality is just a buzzword for people use to get what they want.

I think it's kind of good that I'll never get a girlfriend

My parents in a nutshell...

NEVER GET MARRIED.

Exactly what happened to my dad, now it's impossible to talk to him anymore because it's fucked with his head so much

This is so painful to watch. cause it’s true

This isn’t dank, it just sad

Muslim countrys have no such bullshit if she wants a divorce she gives your money back

...... It's like this was based on my life. Now I'm depressed again.

Op is a literal nazi this is some real incel shit tbh

So…. are we just gonna ignore the swastika on OP’s profile, or the fact that instead of portraying a failing marriage in a realistic manner while still pointing out a genuine issue men face with divorce, we went with stereotypical roles for BOTH, and painted the woman as trashy as possible?

I’m pretty disappointed in how many upvotes this got. Which honestly doesn’t even fit the sub. There’s nothing dank about this.

Bruh wtf is this cringe

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Ah yes, generalize around 50% of the population bc of some icel video, that makes total sense

Well look. This is a meninism page now, I guess. How gross.

Edit: those who downvote, read the thread for context. Or just thanks for proving my point.

Not really, this can happen to both genders, and this one just happened to be one that caused suffering to a man. Both happen. No one said it only happened to men or viceversa.

Definitely understand that. What I’m annoyed at is when a woman posts her side of things, men flood the comments with “not all men” & “stop generalizing all!” But then go & post this with a title of “some feminist will be offended!” & then when any woman speaks out about how ignorant that is, they’ll scream “hah, we got one! Stupid feminist!” even if that woman understands that it happens to both genders.

I completely agree with you, both sides of the equation hate on one another when in reality there are very few people in both genders who actually do it, and both are often ignored. There's a really interesting video of a man hitting a woman and how everyone stops him, and when the roles are reversed, people say that he deserves it, even when it is just a random couple in public who know nothing about them. But on the other hand, there are several disadvantages for women in settings such as the workplace. In conclusion, both sides suffer abuse, and both are ignored extremely often, and it truly is a shame.

It has dank in the name. I had never been on it before but I wasn't surprised

Life according to middleschool kids. Wow, thanks, I guess.

They downvoted you for speaking the truth, r/dankvideos Jesus

We are so oppressed by society 😔✊️

To learn about this guys story please go to autismspeaks.org

yea! personally my favorite website is nobodycares.com

I already ironically offended people lol

This shit is a love child of incel post and boomer post of why women bad in a weird one sided made up story. It's annoying how people on this constantly gotta show they're a victim of something cause of their sex,skin, etc. Grow the fuck up and shit some actual post

Yeah, that's why it happens a lot right? Lol

i hope this will happend to you. and we won't give advices like the majority of reddit does, we'll laugth at you. this is the most serious video in this sub, and this is the most serious comment i made, this thing is going too much, it's ok for equality of course but when the "woman" shit-talks about you, you cant do anything about it, just accept you will gonna be hated for the rest of ypur life. womans of today have too much attention by everyone and we passed from equality to trating women like queens. hope you learned something from this essay. have a nice day and remember that before speaking you have to think at least 30 seconds.

goodbye

"Where have all the good guys gone"

Not to this comment section

This is reality

1) it’s the men who insisted on marriage as a way to secure their hold on women. Blaming that on women is chickenshit. 2) Naturally she cheats on him with a BLACK MAN, who does her doggy-style. Let me guess, original OP likes to use the word cuck. 3) oh, and of course all claims of abuse must be just women being vengeful.

Nostalgia for the culture of the 1950s and before won’t make you more of a man.

The whole family was black.

Almost all stick figures on a light background are Drawn in black.

So then why assume the family is white? The only white people in the video were the two guys at the end who were trying to hit on the wife.

There isn’t any such thing as the stick figure race. The first person who is attached to a human face is the black dude. It’s the picture equivalent of, “and then she runs away with a black guy” why not simply have another stick figure if his race is unimportant?

Cuckold tropes these days center around white men being unable to keep white women to themselves. The rest of the narrative fits the whole silly trope, why would the race of the guy pictured not be distinct from who he’s cucking? You have to be naive not to see it.

Tf are you talking about

When somebody tells you a story like this, it’s not random. I’m laying out the tropes in explicit terms.

Im crying so hard Im laughing

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After this I'm gonna kill myself.

This is eerily true. Damn that’s sad.

I work with somebody who’s making the same small income I’m making, has an apartment, and can’t keep up with rent because he’s paying over $1000 a month on child support and rent.

This isn’t dank, more like moist.

dude.....damn

What is this song?

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And this is why I carry my Kukri with me

I could bet my left testicle you don't even know

  • how does that fit in here

  • how to use it

  • how grass feels like

Hey, I’m in this

Hahaha what a cuck

Oooof.

Whats interesting is that that spousal murder was way up before Reagan's no fault divorce was passed in the U.S. congress but it only dropped lower for 5 five years after that it went even higher when women began to abuse its ethics

Only because you put happy music behind something doesn't it is happy

Could’ve did what my parents did. Speed run that shit!

Fuck sake, this shit isn’t a meme.

My life in 60 seconds :(

Damn. This is the big sad

Exactly what happened to my dad, now it's impossible to talk to him anymore because it's fucked with his head so much

Holy shit!

I was waiting that whole time for the video to get funny

Someone poured their whole life story into a meme video

I mean talk about over generalizing... I get it I've been divorced and pay a ton of child support but obviously it ain't always like this sometimes people let things work harmoniously for both parties and other times people exploit their power given to then by the laws. It sucks but trust me dudes try to do it as much as possible too. I've seen it

lol the music

Always those goddamn n..

Yo... are men okay 😂??

This is dark bro. But society in a nutshell, this means that society is a joke and a bunch of FATASS simps who use istock images for their pfps.

Nice strawman you have there, incel

:( bro I wanted to laugh.

Oh my god I didn't ask to be in the incel part of reddit. Get me back to the small, incel free niche I've cultivated for myself

This is sad, i feel bad for people who have women treat them like that

Can normal people actually read that fast?

Why are dudes always the victims with this shit but when a man steps out on a woman or abuses her, she's stupid for dating a piece of shit or she just "let it happen"?

Regardless of whether or not she's a shitty person, she was straightforward about what she wanted and he just went with it blindly and then somehow couldn't believe it didn't work out. Of course a dumbass like that would take the victim role.

Talk about weaponized incompetence.

r/oddlyspecific

Sir, I agree that this type of thing happens to men a lot more than people realize, but why the fuck do you have a Nazi flag as your banner?

I hate this more than I thought it was possible to hate something. This has obviously happened to a lot of men and it makes me hate reality. Thanks, I truly dislike you for posting every man’s worst nightmare.

Society

What’s the name of the song?

All ya'll gotta do is sign a prenupt and maybe find a partner you can actually trust. It ain't that hard.

The kids will learn the truth about that bitch, eventually.

My biological and adoptive parents had this toxic energy. But stayed together. And now, in the sum of all that, I never want a partner. Just an escort.once every 2 or 5 years. Or just pornhub 👽

Prenuptial agreements are a thing.

Sad but true at some point

I see no lie

Video should have ended with him hanging himself

This actually happened to someone I know. His reaction was to try make things work, knowing damn well his wife was cheating on him and stuff and then gave up once it was too late, destroying everything that involved his time with the lady who ruined his life. This included burning the pictures of his newborn child, which I tried to emotionally support him while he was near uncontrollably crying... That was the only time I actually felt empathetic for someone. Now he's a depressed alcoholic and I am actually horrified that this happened to him.

ladies and gentlemen of reddit, this video is all the proof i need to explain why i choose to die alone

What song is this

Yep. I know this story.

Fuck that type of people, burn in hell, deep them in shit, cut their legs off, make them drink acid. They don’t deserve human treatment

Reasons to maintain singularity

r/nothowgirlswork

First of all why the fuck is this in my feed, second of all why the fuck are so many teens in here circlejerking over a post made by a guy who has the comment history on an Incel?

Homie got the nazi flag proud in his profile and everything, im sure he spins it as 'ironic'

Thanks I hate how true this is...

I don't see the point of this video if it's not just a vent tbh, like i said in a reply, if he wanted to show inequality, he should have made it about something legal like women always getting custody of kids and ending up being terrible if not abusive mothers, or men going to jail with no proof whatsoever because a woman claimed he raped them, not some stereotypical personal sob story that didn't even happen with most men.

Use me as a downvote bucket, but i am just speaking the truth. Before you reply, i'd like to remind you i'm part of r/pussypassdenied.

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Very good post makes everyone happy and think deeper about society yes

This is depressing but really true.

Idk what I’d do if my daughter did that to me. Probably suicide.

I'm completely sure I won't share my bank account with a woman in my entire life, if I want to gift or lend you some money is my own decision and I will do it as a self initiative. I will do it because I love that person and feel like it's ok If I gift or share with them a little part of my lifetime because I feel it is worth it.

What kind of incel alt-right shit is this. We get it, you hate women but this video is just extra cringe

I can feel sadness after watching this

“Plenty of Fish” = “What The Fuck” 🤣🤣🤣

This is incel fuel

Not even joking, this is happening to my favourite teacher atm. Except the computer breaking

What is this boomer tier trash

Dam this makes me hate life.

This only happens if you’re a loser/idiot to begin with and you marry another loser/idiot

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Remember kids, that’s why you don’t have to marry a woman before at least 10 years of staying together

Vibing to that song though

Ha it funny cause it true. Concentrate on ur self development kings

Just be gay and you'll never have to experience any of this. Go even further and don't even talk to women. It works amazing for me.

what a fucking incel post huh. all women indeed.

Please show me on the doll where women touched you.

YOH🤣

Truth.

This is why if you chose to marry you better vet TF out of your woman first, and still get a prenup. Also don't be the sole breadwinner, make her pull her own weight financially.

r/TooReal

Dumb gender war stuff

There's some pain behind this video's creation.

Good though.

Classic incel shit, boooring. Come up with something new, I beg

Woman 🤮

This is the reality that Red Pill and MGTOW communities teach. You don't fully understand or appreciate the complexities of its teachings unless you went through the pain and suffering depicted in the video.
Say what you want to say, but milage from this line of thinking varies per person. For some, it will be a gateway towards being an Incel. For others, it gives them clarity on modern adult relationships between men and women. It will embolden men to work/focus on themselves, never putting ass over cash and self improvement. Think of it as learning the dark arts; it consumes some of its students, while empowering others.

Why do the women talk like some guy who hasn't gone outside in 20 years wrote their dialogue

Oh wait...

This is the truth. My ex gf left me for another guy because I “didn’t give her enough attention. ” I was busy with school, work, and trying to spend time with friends. I always talked with her nearly every single day. I even offered to let her and her family come stay at one of the beach houses I work at for free, it usually cost around $100+ for just two people for one week. But she ended up leaving me, I was depressed for a long while, but now I’m just trying to be friends and forget about the whole thing, and now she has a boyfriend who buys her things every now and then. Im completely over her and want to try to say nice thing about her but how can I when I try to be friendly and ask for opinion on something’s or try to get into a good conversation and she just leaves me on read all the time.

Leaves you on read? That's messed up, she sounds immature and not worth being friends with for now. On the other hand, I have no idea between yalls relationship lol

Yeah I feel ya

What kind of fucking garabage is this

The fuck is this some incels gif rant or something?

How is this dank. This feels like it was only made to shit on woman

This sadly happens often

In what word do y'all think you earn enough to even support a housewife that can hypothetically cheat on you???

This isn’t about women dude. Incel shit. This is a breeding ground.

Men’s mental health is not taken seriously enough at all, and if that’s the overall message I completely agree, we should be helping men. But obviously NOT in a way that tears down women for no fucking reason? “Feminists are gonna get angry at this” get lost, feminism isn’t “women good men bad” it’s for equality. I’m really glad that men’s mental health is being talked about more, but painting women as monsters in the comments here is not helping anybody.

don't get married just use them useless bitches.

This is the sad truth for some people, this should be enough to go to jail.

This would be perfect for r/wsb just add a dumpster with a Wendy’s logo and maybe a stock chart or 3

Cringe

This video hits super close to home

Is this every single shitty not funny "wife bad" joke ever made in one shitty not funny video?

Marry someone who is a partner not someone who expects you to work yourself ragged, who makes time for you just as you make time for them. Communicate and find compromise when you run into issues. Eight years two kids later and me and my wife are still as happy as the day we said I do and I fully credit this to constantly cultivating our relationship and never growing too comfortable with where we are.

This is why I will never ever, never ever, get married and have kids. Family/divorce courts only benefits women.

Based

God damn. This post was sponsored by the NiceGuys^Tm foundation

What I learned

Don’t have kids and don’t get married

God it’s hard to be a dude. This is a video for incels and by incels

What’s the purpose of this video? Major incel vibes.

Pathetic video. Why these type of men always want to be oppressed sooo bad?

Crazy somewhere out in world someone is going through this exact situation

Dont have kids?

Ya’ll are just ugly and i’m fuckin your wife. Cope.

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Bro do you have schizophrenia lmao

Do you need therapy?

so this is supposed to mean... what exactly?

"all women are lazy, dishonest gold diggers and all men are good, hardworking dads"?

Man’s livin in this weird ass fantasy world, how much you wanna bet he hasn’t even talked to a girl before

ITT: People who have never come close to getting married but still think this is some universal truth

Based video

Let’s see:

Assumes men aren’t interested in relationships or spending time with their spouse.

Assumes only women cheat on their spouse.

Assumes the person they cheat on their spouse with is a black man.

Assumes the man works his job and takes care of the kids in the evening.

Assumes the woman poisons the view of their father to the kids.

Reddit is awesome.

This is more sadder than those “Sorry old man your phones is fine WHY MY KIDS DONT CALL ME!”

Dad should have tried hooking up with dudes

Weird way of saying "women bad"

This reads like a incel manifesto

Note to self never get married.

/r/suspiciouslyspecific

this some serious incel shit

i’m not even going to comment.

Some serious incel vibes

I don’t want kids

That's why marriage should not exist.

Never getting married ever. Not that I had a choice in the first place

moral of the story: dont marry someone you dont truly love lmao, if someone askes to marry you and all you can respond with is "ok" maybe you shouldnt marry them

Equality/s

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A lot of commenters don’t use context clues and go through the posters history. I don’t blame them, I was young and edgy once.

No bitches ? 🤨

This is womens version of wife beating, except it’s accepted in our world. :(

Too many comments agreeing with this incel bullshit

kinda shook

So be gay or stay single

sad and true, for anyone

I legit almost cried... I go onto reddit to escape the real world

get a prenup, and don’t marry an asshole. people don’t just one day decide to cheat, learn who you’re marrying.

incels

Idk. I’m a wife and I find this to be true in many cases. Just join a mom group on Facebook and you’ll find women venting about their spouses (and describing this exact scenario without even realizing it). The comments under those rants are just other women egging them on and enabling entitled behavior. It’s sad and it’s definitely not black or white - as in this type of miscommunication occurs from deeply rooted issues. TLDR; couples therapy before it gets to this point lol

Women, HAHAHAHHAAHAHGAHAHHAHAHGAGAGAGGAHAGHAHAHAHHAHA

Good for her 👏🏼

nothing is worth the risk nothing is worth the risk nothing is worth the risk

Yes I too love incel shit

It's always a black guy doing the fucking.... Why

Dude, are you allright?

If you want to chat, DM me.

It’s your fault for marrying her in the first place

This is some incel shit.

Oh hey look, it's literally my mother

Lotta incels in here, yikes.

Life is much more complicated than this simple depiction.

Always ALWAYS get a prenup!

Sums it up

man good woman bad

lmao

Hahahahha fuck me dead, incels gonna incel

holy shit that's a terrible wife

That will never happen to me because women don't acknowledge me :)

The truth my guys. Stay single.

I need a video of one such woman getting beheaded, RIGHT NOW!

A good lesson on how you should be extremely careful who you get married to.

Marriage is a scam. Just date the person you like, and break up normally instead of losing your shit

Honestly kinda sick of women

This got me in the feels, currently dealing with this minus the kids… well enough Reddit for today, off to hate myself in Elden Ring

True and sad

This is literally how it works

The sad thing is it actually happened those were real comments and real photos I didn’t realize this till the end some guy in this world lived this story God bless him this is why we can’t have nice things this is why the world is shit right now because people are too toxic and too selfish and they blame everything on other people instead of blaming it on themselves and working out their problems they just blame everyone else therefore they never have to own up to their mistakes and they can keep making them and making other people have to pay the consequences it takes our generation everyone of this comment section everyone in this world who wants people to not go through this it takes us and takes us to make the world a better place

Tbh this video tells me this guy lacks any agency in his life and he had it coming, because he straight up let his partner be his leader instead of being excited about anything positive at the start, he's indifferent, could guessed it would end with him alone.

Imagine being enslaved by a woman.

Now do one about incels and the women that go to extreme lengths to avoid there white night behavior

And women want to be trans men pfft

Women in the comments be like

"this NEVER happens you just hate women"

A gentle reminder that people can be assholes regardless of gender.

Man, if only my father actually was like that, my parents broke up cus he neither worked nor was he there for me and my bro, I’m actually starting to wonder if you are my dad making this post. Either way this post is stupid and so are you

What kinda incel shit is this?

Fucking asshole. I'm dancing and my heart is hurting.

Spineless coward gets cucked the movie

Screw wemen

While it is not fact and universal to everyone’s situation, there is enough truth to this to make it depressing.

People don't realize the system we live in has rules that implicitly tell us how the system works through it's results. Marriage has no benefit for two people who honestly don't plan on having children to leave something to. It honestly is a financial move and idk why American culture is intent on making marriage the supposed apex of a relationship. Sometimes it really seems like men are the pushers of the system that keep the cogs going and women are here to reap the material benefits of the highest status men they can find. Up until now to where we're supposed to be more egalitarian.

Misoginy and racism in one post. This is just the animated version of an incel comic really old that gets reposted every once in a while.

Utter garbage

OP literally has a swastika cover photo and y’all are like “wow good point king!”

Nice fanfiction bro, this is the most cringe inducing incel shit I have ever seen. Have any of you ever even spoken to a women?

Incel level post.

Solution: convert to the gay

heavy r/MGTOW vibes

incel

The incel energy is strong with this one

Thankfully divorce is not always skewed in favour of the ex-wife / mum.

Jesus, seek help and touch some fucking grass

“females reeee” like this isn’t even funny lmao half of reddit bases its “humor” off of being shitty towards/wishing actual death on women, and it isn’t even clever.

The divorce settlement would not go that way.

Haha, that's the thing though. Don't get married. sobs

This sub and r/Dankmemes is just turning into an incel cesspool. Post it in r/incel, not dankvideos. I’m sick and tired of wanting to see some memes and it’s just either some misogynistic, incel, or neck beard post.

Edit: aaaaand it also turns out OP might be a Nazi supporter. His profile literally has a giant swastika banner

Music?

Sad and depressing but truth is painful sometimes

Okay. One, this has nothing to do with Feminism bro, if you need to talk get a therapist. This has nothing to do with the feminist movement

unfortunately, this isn't nearly as cherry picked or exaggerated as it should be

This is some incel apologist making up a story to justify why they hate women. How is this even a dank video. This is hateful for no reason other than the shit people tell themselves so they won’t cry themselves to sleep

Divorce especially with kids is always depressing.

Whenever I see shit like this I'm always glad that I'm gay.

L + ratio

Life is tuff

We get it, OP. You're an incel that believes that this shit happens with every woman in the entire world. This isn't even dank, just some top tier trash.

I'm a feminist and I'm totally not offended because it's true. There are SO MANY WOMEN who do this and it just...ugh! I want to personally smack all of them!

This is some straight up incel shit my guy

Incel shit

This is just misogynistic and kinda racist.

I get people feel lost and getting cheated on is fucked up... But that doesn't justify generalizing and going with this attitude.

It's kinda sad you guys feel like this.

What a loser that guy. Dude has no agency at all. Just goes "yes honey" at her every whim, thinking it will make her love him. What a dumbass.

This is the most cuck shit I’ve ever seen lol

Shit tier boomer humor

If you’re so afraid of a black guy taking your wife from you either don’t get married or just go to the cuck subreddit

Wow this hits far too close. Almost exactly how it happened

Jesus dude have you ever held a conversation with a woman

Yeah seems right

Bruh

This is the most incel neckbeard shit I’ve ever seen lmao.

"He made me feel special" . . . . . . Call an ambulance...but not for me!

Or OR you could just vanash like a smart guy. Not pay child support. Move to a new state with lower laws on cs and or a contry. She can raise your dam kids all by her self.

Damn bro, you write books or some shit?

incel shit, of course this is on Reddit

Not that dank, just sad because it shows the reality that a lot of people have to face

Redditors really have a black cucking fetish

The pure neckbeard vibes of this

My family situation in a meme, I can’t wait til I’m 18 and I can tell my mother to fuck herself before I steal everything she loves and sell it on craglist

Seems to be my experience.

This shit real af and if you disagree fuck you. Maybe not always, but definitely more than you think. And not just to assholes. There are seriously millions of crazy bitches out there that will absolutely do this. Once again fuck you

This is the main reason why I don't want a relationship.

Stay mad incel. What a ridiculous victim fantasy

don't buy it. rent it. if you marry a woman with those laws you are an idiot.

don't buy it. rent it. if you marry a woman with those laws you are an idiot.

Today I will sort by controversial

This is some incel shit tbh

woman moment

Woman’s uses men

This isn't a meme, this is just reality. Like this is literally what happened to my brother. Except the guy fucking her wasn't black. Or even attractive. Guess she just wanted someone who was still in the military so she could have the easy house wife life without the husband.

This is a lot of work just to say you’re an incel

Wonder what FDS will think of this

Why do i feel like the divorce part is true. Also why is it that the women always get a huge chunk of money and the men are left with bearly anything? Or am i misunderstanding?

Sad reality

Guys. The world doesn’t have to work like that at all. It is up to you to not fall into this cycle not anyone else’s.

I play Prenuptial Agreement in defense position.

Why is this actually this accurate. This is depressing

Jesus Christ, what the actual fuck.

This is why I don't want to get married

This why they should go through a 23 hour torture session each day

This was originally a comic, wasn’t it?

Incel ass shit jesus christ, with a touch of racism too

Incel

Acting as if this was an accurate representation of society makes you look like an angry 14 year old

Where’s the funny

You should post this on r/feminism

On the side not though, this is unfortunately true for many people, and a very big reason of suicides in men.

Wtf this is an incel sub now?

Lmao what weird incel fantasy shit is this?

Show the dad blowing his brains out

The amount of incel energy this video gives off made me think this was posted on r/Cringetopia

Cringe overload.

God this is cringe

Looks like real life truth to me…

Haha. Man good. Woman bad. /s

I genuinely can't tell if this is satire or not. Imagine it wasn't lmao

Ok? Someone’s salty after their divorce

Wtf is this? And how did it get so many likes

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What has this sub reddit turned into? My god

Holy fuck. Talk about an accurate synopsis lol

This is sad because this does actually happen to guys. It isn’t fair but sometimes terrible people win.

This is why I don't leave exes alive

Why am I so pissed off rn?

This is some incel shit if I’ve ever seen it

Damn bro... she even took the dog? That's harsh.

This is the sadest shit ive seen today

What a fucking waste of time this was

Now i dont want to get married. Ill just.. Game

Lol so true!

Life’s true meaning in a nutshell

why am I sad

Sad as it is this shit happened to my dad only difference is, we had his back the whole way and hes moved on thankfully. But yeah rest of it is pretty on point

A 3 time winner hubbie, here.

this is painful and awful.

Never heard that one before.

What a shitty subreddit my god

The good thing about videos like this, is that eventually all the 12 year olds grow up

Gotta love the blatant racism in this

Fuck, maybe its therepy?

This shit pisses me off

How did OP find out about my life’s story?!

who’s the incel that made this video

I’ve seen men/dads get screwed in divorce but I’ve also seen women get screwed over by their husbands’ cheating. But what I find very depressing is that too many women hold their kids hostage away from the dad and feed the kids lies about how the dad doesn’t want them. Unless there was physical/other abuse, dads have rights to parent their kids. Keep your personal feelings out of it, moms, and let your kids be with their dad

In all fairness, I skip all the fixing shit.

That’s just sad

Emotional Damage

Incel trash. Fucking vile.

This is why you’ll die alone with just your angry hand. “OMG, she bitching at me for playing too much video games!” “I have no agency in my own life!” “Some guy who paid attention to her and had his shit together stole my masturbation sleeve away!”

I’m a divorced single dad and you don’t see me crying about it on the internet to the other greasy incels.

Don't let a few stumbles knock you down forever.

This how it be boss ... You never see it coming

This how t beest boss. Thee nev'r see t coming

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Commands: !ShakespeareInsult, !fordo, !optout

Case in point

That part of the divorce and the mom teaching the kids that there dad is bad happened to my cousins, it’s sad because the mom is a really horrible person and the dad actually cares, but gets the shitty end with nothing, luckily he does have a stable life with a pretty good job, so it isn’t all doom

Of course the incel propaganda has the guys wife being defiled by an evil black man.

Clearly you don’t have a girl

ngl when it cut to the sex i thought "why did he start sleeping with the facebook guy"

Cringe 2012 post

This post reeks of incel.

op has never been married

I think people are more offended at a depressing video in the wrong sub over anything.

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This is neither dank, dark or sad, this is plain bullshit

I don‘t say it can’t be that way, but also the other way round assholes exist in every gender, every ethnicity and every part of the world in more or lees equal parts, this shit is misogynistic

What‘s ghe logic behind it anyway? „I‘ll make a misgynic video that proves women are awful and everbody that diagrees is an idiot bc the video just literally proved that women are awful“

Jesus christ OP you really need therapy. Your internalised misogyny is going to make you miserable and is dangerous. Please get help.

OP frequents r/Shemalefuckingmale

https://www.reddit.com/r/ShemaleFuckingMale/comments/shy6e4/lucky_guy/hyyhwnn?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share&context=3

were full video i wanna know what happen

Lmao its crazy how you pathetic ass incels will latch onto this bullshit narrative rather than accept that angry fat goblin men who dont wash their ass are not desirable to anyone.

Just how sad this is but this is actually true

W🤢men 🤮🤮🤮

I'm living in this situation. As one of the kids. I was a second child, but none of my siblings go have the same father. As eachother or as me. My mom always told me My dad did all this awful shit but knowing him he would never do any of it. I'm glad he fought to keep me so I knew that. My mom has been with so many guys and I feel sorry for my siblings that they never got to have a constant father figure.

The term marry someone you truly love is loosy toss around and most marriages end up like this with either gender doing either thing in the video it's sad

I just knew coffee and chat wasn't going to be coffee and chat. Lol

Shit was so scary when my parents got divorced. I really worried I was gonna get stuck living with mom.

Is this an incel PSA?

Can I get some of the patriarchy please

Smells like incel in here.

"woman bad" in 2022 who knew

r/Cringetopia

Sadly i have a friend thats going through a divorce and it went almost exactly like this.

I thought it would have been a funny video, it's just sad, I had to go through this as a kid because of something stupid this happened when I was 7 or 6 but I kinda thought "whatever nothing bad is going to happen" but this is exactly what happened to my dad and so like every summer I went down to California, my dad was a mess, beer bottles all around the bathroom and kitchen he was sometimes aggressive but after his little freakout he broke down crying and so me and my sister would feel a bit akward and just go into the room, this went on for a year or two then he went on to online dating and so he found a woman named, let's call her Kristina yeah so Kristina was a nice girl and she had three other kids they were alright they had a nice home as well and so after all these years they are still together and me and my now step brother still keep in touch on discord my other step brother is in the military and the rest are still kids and they recently they had a girl

It’s the curse of being a man

Sign a prenup boys. Always sign a prenup.

This just ruined my day

That pretty much sums it up for me except for my kids know better. They pretty much know their mom is full of shit and frequently tells only the parts of the truth that are convenient for her. Bonus: my “new girlfriend” and I have been married for almost a year now and she’s better of the two moms

Sad but true

Extremely accurate

R/niceguy

Baggy b!;#&

The dude who made this post is a nazi. Just sayin

The truth shall set you free.

Feat. Walter White

I too enjoy pretending to be a victim

I don't justify murder but in cases like this one it doesn't surprise me that it happens.

Lol this is some bitch made shit right here

This really is some incel shit. This comment section has a really narrow view of the world.

So a dumb video about a fake relationship where somehow the man is Jesus Christ basically, and the woman is Satan, and you say "even after Ll this some feminist is gonna get offended." You're fucking stupid.

Edit: gotta love the black guy swinging in at the end to fuck her. Throw some racism on the sexism just to watch the world burn.

God damn 😂

Is this r/cringetopia ?

"Look at this video I made based on something I made up, now get mad"

Reddit moment

Ever since r/incel got yeeted I guess you needed a new place for shit like this lmao

We get it, you've never been near a woman before

This is the most incel post ever you fucking virgin

Too fucking accurate. All it’s missing is the suicide at the end.

This is the cringiest thing I’ve seen today and OP has a swastika as their profile banner pic. Why am I not surprised?

That's the most accurate shit I've seen online today.

She's turned the weans against us!

Poor incels.

😂

This is just a long version of a boomer comic with the only joke being "wife bad".

This is some incel shit 😭

Shit like this is why I'm gay

WHAT THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH THIS FUCKING SUBREDDIT, GOAND FIX YOUR GODDAMN LIFE

OP has a swastika on his profile

this some incel neckbeard shit right here lol

Statistically, more men cheat than women.

This happened to my best friend twice. And both times I got my aunt to be his lawyer. Now he has custody over all 4 kids and I help him out with making rent at his place and giving him money so he can go out and by his kids and himself good food and new toys and good quality clothes and shit like that. It sucks when this happens to you. I’m not trying to say that I know how bad it is because I don’t. I was dealt a good set of cards thankfully. But I know people who have gone through this and they always tell me that this stuff absolutely sucks so I hope to those who actually had this happen to them recover from it and are able to still enjoy their lives.

dark cuz u know its true lol.

This is why you're fucking stupid for getting married

Look at ops pfp

Well this is quite incelly. The only accurate part's the divorce bit.

Nah bro, if she did that, she wont even get close to the office to file a divorce cause she'll be locked up and be domesticated violence lol. Women still continue that kind of attitude because men have dwindled and grown thinking that women needs more affection and tolerance towards to them instead of men. Punish the bitch and her groin will never feel itchy again.

If any of you think this is true and a risk you'll be taking not having kids is the smart move, just don't.

I just woke up 30 minutes ago and you already ruined my morning.

r/im14andthisisdeep

Hey Nazi OP, the fact you can’t satisfy a woman or find a work-life balance doesn’t make this shit true

And if anybody wonders why I called him a Nazi just check the banner on his profile

The banner on your profile proves you’re an incel.

This is so true and hits me right in the gut! All of my friends too! Finally social media can expose how one sided things are for men. It also shows that we are not alone and its a real thing! Most women are rats but there are a few that aren’t! Women have been hiding behind feminism far too long! You are exposed as deceitful, selfish pigs!

Yea same shit happened to my dad

This gives me sadness and anger

Never get married there's literally no point to it

Surprisingly accurate

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OP is literally an incel and had a swastika as his banner.

The person who made this is 100% a 16 year old who has never had a gf in his life.

Nah, I like watching movies with a happy ending.

This is more or less what happened to my brother and me (we're the kids part of the video)

What a stupid video.

Where funni :(

OP's an incel, he is incapable of the funni. 😔💔

How did we drop to Facebook level humor 💀

I'm sad

This also goes the same for men… at least dont be stupid while dating

Holy shit this video is everything an incel gets hard over. Right down to the black dude banging the wife.

With my one friend who moved several times, basically, the dad got the kid during the divorce and sabotaged her to make sure of it. My friend doesn’t even talk with the mom and she’s nice and the dad is manipulative

More or less shot for shot of my parents’ divorce. Glad I finally moved in with my dad though.

Keep it simple - stop reproducing.

I didn't know that fedoras could become sentient, let alone edit videos! You learn something new everyday. 🤷‍♂️

r/redditmoment

This happened to my dad other than the kids not loving him. This made me depressed.

Who hurt you.

Lmao I’m not on anyones side but stop giving advice no Reddit user has ever been in a real relationship

If I was that guy, I would honestly take my own life. I can’t imagine having to deal with all of that, working hard just for the wife to nag at me, having her make lies about me, cheating on me, taking my money and the kids and just leaving me sad and alone.

in the full version he hangs himself

Tk kind of incel bullshit is this LOWL

Is the “dank meme” here the fact that it’s hilariously pathetic to post stuff like this on Reddit unironically or what?

Yep, that about sums it up.

Oh no. Oh no...

This is so depressing...

That's not just racist it been posted many times by incel teenagers.

Lemme try posting this on.... other subs.

Ah yes, the black guy who steals your wife… lots of Incel vibes here

This is the truth

Dude, I'm here for laughs, not for getting angry.

Everyone read “fuck yes or no” by Mark Manson, and this won’t happen to you. You’re welcome.

This comment section shows how men are treated so trash, let's go to the corner of the world and live alone boys.

Why is it a black man though? Even though this shit does happen and it does destroy lives, the video reeks of incel, kinda invalidates the point of the whole thing

So is this what my life is gonna be like when/if I get married

Can we all come together and agree it happens on both sides?

A customer of mine is going through this exact scenario right now.

He told me that his daughter caught her mum getting on with another bloke and the daughter hates the mother now.

It’s so sad watching this happen I’ve know him, the children and his now ex wife for almost 5 years and she just betrayed him. Really fucked up.

Long story short. Going through a divorce…. I’ll die before she takes my dog

I was trying to watch memes to forget my ex who kinda did this to me… now I’m depressed again…

Disgusting, but reality for a lot of men unfortunately. Marriage is a scam.

Like I always say it goes both ways my dad had issues but new how get any girl out her pants when I was born he was having a affair and my mom was chasing him to a whole another state to find him while pregnant with me no one’s on either side of my family new I was a thing. But to be honest their both fucked up parents

Jeje woman

Spot on.

Literally what happened to me the difference is that when she tried to blame it on me online i posted pictures of her cheating on me.

I’m so thankful my parents weren’t THIS dysfunctional

god damn you people are fucking nerds lmao

Sign a prenup.

What is sad is this actually happens to people. Not every relationship is like this obviously but it does happen

This is story that my parents are going through but the other way around

I thought it was the guy getting fucked in the ass which confused me a lot

the heteros are upsetero

marry someone you actually like lmao

W*men

I mean. It’s not far from the truth

Where’s the part where he shoots the girl and then turns the gun on himself?

What kind of incel shit is this?

shit like this really happens?

Damn bro this is just sad :(

shit like this really happens?

I’m gonna… erm.. go to sleep now

This is an old post but at the end it cut off him being hanged I think

Can't even tell you how close this hits to home.

We get no love :(

i feel like this is a general situation that can happen to either gender. people are fucking assholes sometimes, doesn't matter if it's a woman or a man doing this.

This pissed me off so much holy shit

Sad but true AF.

Ine of mu greatest fears

Op why your banner a swastika?

This is real but depressing just what I needed on my already shitty day

Bunch of teenagers on here

suddenly i want to die. no laughs, only crying

It's time to follow MGTOW guys.

Seems legit.

This is true story.

The fact these things happen jn real life is just sad

this is why i’m afraid of getting married

you should have done the Up song. you know the one in talking about

Thats real

damn

I advise all the young guys at my work to prenup. Period. It’s not safe out there for us dudes.

Isn't this an average US marriage?

Well. I hope you have a fucked up day too asshole!

Song?

This post is a Reddit moment if I’ve ever seen one

That’s how it be sometimes in toxic relationships

This is so sad

Fucking corny ass motherfucker, you got ratio'd to death on r/facepalm but luckily there's a bunch of 14 year old boys who've never spoken to a woman in their lives to upvote you on r/dankvideos

The trick to avoiding this is not marrying someone just because they want to and not having kids just because they want to. If you do these things for someone else you’re gonna hate your life pretty soon.

The first time feel sad for a stickman

I relate 🥲

Man this would have gone from weird/funny to downright poetic/sad if he was labeled as a threat to society for anger issues after smashing his computer.

Well luckily I am (not) gay

its sad cuz like its tru. especially seeing my family growing up its fucken true. smh #sendwomentoww3

I feel like this either screams “man-concerned-about-society” or “kinda neckbeard”

Ah yes, assuming all women are like this!

Uhhh my DAD did this to my MOM... I know it might be a bit more common but most women aren't like that and guys can be just as bad if not worse?

Thanks. I just decided I’m never getting married.

this is just sad..

Okay, weird incely post, but I’m more concerned as to the fact that OP’s profile background is a Nazi Swasticka

y’all just literally click on OP’s profile

This isn’t a dank meme, it’s reality. Honestly so many guys have to go through this and feminist and people in general still have the audacity to say it’s his fault

They just don’t make hit men like they used to do they?

Are you ok man?

lol this sounds like my mom

like a little too much like my mom

wait

I am a female redditor and I completely agree with the video but at the same time, think carefully before you put a ring on it

I really don’t know what fuels you incels’ mean world syndrome. Men’s mental health IS neglected. A video about some artificial tragedy of a stick figure’s life isn’t the way to show it. This is just… stupid. Don’t be an idiot. Don’t marry an idiot. You don’t have to generalize an entire sex based on you not being able to talk to women, just because you don’t feel like developing actual social skills. I hope whoever took the time to make this video slips on a god damn banana peel.

Many things to discuss in this video. But one notable feature is how it makes use of the 'white women cheats with black man trope'. And the video specifically has the face of a random black guy on an otherwise ambiguous cartoon. So racializing the guy the wife fucked is a deliberate feature.

The trope is fiction based on racist fears of black hypermasculinity. A lot of white men have a love-hate relationship with black hypermasculinity. Sort of both envying the myth of black men being sexually superior, while also treating it as a threat to their women. The black hypermasculine man is barbaric, with huge cocks and lusts for the white woman. A complete myth of course.

That bullshit gets innocent people lynched, and it's still pervasive in the culture. This video is very much preaching that fear. While blaming women for it. The implication seems to be that given the freedom, white women would cheat on their husbands with a black guy, then take the house.

This is a very interesting observation. Racism is neatly tied to sexism.

What neckbeard made this?

r/incelsinaction

So true. Lol

Holy shit go to therapy

Depressed....

This comment section is actual people who have witnessed and went through this shit vs white leftist suburbanites. I’ve legit seen this gone down

This hits hard because my dad is actually going through this

😔

A video 100% made by someone who's never even had a gf

You’re a Nazi though?

you’re missing the part where he gets contacted by the CIA

Hence why marriage and kids are a no go for me.

Yeah pretty much

it sucks that you had to create a fictional story to feel sad about and justify negative feelings towards women

Yeah... I see this with my family... dad goes make money with another woman, BECAUSE it was a risky job. And my dad knew my mom won't ride with the risky job.

My dad was arrested, and my mom started to bad mouth him to me and my sibling. I hated how she did that. Everytime we argue, she will bring up my dad. We lived in a poor environment, my cousin saw that. They brought us to go live with my other cousin(their sister).

My dad came out, and started to bad mouthing about my mom to us. I hated that too. I now live with him and my stepmom.

My mom has a boyfriend, he propose to my mom.

Gosh wtf is wrong with my life.

This video sums up why I hate romance, and why I don’t want to go through any of this. And also, OP why is your profile background the nazi Germany swatsika?

Op what the fuck. This has nothing to do with feminism and has everything to do with being a shitty person. Dont generalize women just because you felt bad for this caricature.

Not the nazi banner

Madarchod even though I'm not I'm married still this shit hurts like a bitch from husband's perspective

That's pretty fucked up, looking at it from a males perspective. Just know not everybody is like that, I see and know plenty of people who are opposite of this kind of marriage. Stay positive friends 🌝

None of these commentators have ever actually been in a relationship and it’s obvious

It's so sad that this video reflects some people's worldview. You attract what you give off, that's all I'll say.

As a woman, I absolutely HATE that women do this utter bullshit. Then they have the AUDACITY to also be the ones asking where all the good men are and put down men for not paying support. So many women dog men like they're scum of the earth, but from what I've seen, women can be vicious as fuck and evil as a human can possibly be. Why both men and women can't just stop fucking each other over and playing games is beyond me.

Yeah if you make a situation where the girl fucks over the guy at every opportunity, you're gonna make women look bad.

My heart still goes out to anyone who gets put in this situation regardless.

no bitches?

I mean, these things also happen. If you're a feminist and you are triggered...you got to understand that males, like females, equally have experiences in things like these, it doesn't mean that the thing in the video happens all the time, but it just means that males are not completely shitty and sometimes, the females are the problem. Equality man, no one is perfect, we are all equal.

shitty story not dank or a meme

All these idealistic Redditors acting like this is only incel speak and this never happens etc. when this is literally exactly what happened to my dad when I was growing up. Down to the point of my mom telling us he hated us. I actually have several stories like this.

So accurate

So fucking true - we need to stop giving more than we get

And this is why I don't like women and the government

anyone who agrees with the caption definitely is starved of any affection from a woman and doesnt know how to talk to girls

How are you so brave? Did you make it? I love it

How is this dank? I thought memes were supposed to be fake and fun, not true and sad.

How did I wander into an incel sub?

no dank, only sadness

U good op?

Too close and too real!

I’ve always said in my next life I want to come back as a smoking hot woman. Just find a rich man and have a kid with him. Boom. Set for the rest of your life

u mad? 👻

Men really get the worst of it these days.

Why is the one dude black ?

the sad truth

cope and whine more op u get no hoes

This just described my life right now. And now the depression is hitting hard

As long as there is air on this planet there will always be something to offend a feminist

Thats why you shouldnt get married. If xou have a girlftiend dont merry her

Maybe, quite possibly, the worst video ever made since the Melies invented the very first functioning movie camera

Woman are hypocritical.

Hogrida

Man you this video isn't dank whatsoever it's sad

And this is exactly why I don't want to get married. Sooo many horror stories of good men getting fucked over. If there is a hell, there is a special place there for the women who treat their men like this and the judges who enable this behavior.

I honestly thought would end in a suicide slide.

What the computer do

This is fuckin dumb...

Did I make this and forget….wtf, my life to a tee (with a little re-arranging)…Don’t get married just cuz you got someone pregnant at a young age!!

This isn’t neckbeard it’s some people’s realities

I can’t relate. I still love my husband. It’s the kids that need to find someone else.

I got divorced almost 40 years ago and parts of this still gave me flashbacks

The guy is being used both by his wife and for his employment,and as he comes home he isn't all smiles. That is why the girl says he mistreats her. All the money he earned was for not for him in the end, at least not in a way that contributes to his happiness.

All this guy had to do was work from home to emphasize his family life. It's that easy I don't understand why mire people don't do that

What a fucking whore

"Or you'll never get to see me again" I see this as an absolute win

N that’s why guys dnt wanna get married anymore, 80% divorce rate I’m goood on that 😅😅

Looool when did this become an incel sub? Bloody pathetic

🤣😂🤣🤣🤣

Well... that was depressing.

My second longest relationship was 3 years, it hurt because it started like this (without the kids and marriage) I would love to play my PC and even encourage her to try, she just saw it as stupid and ignorant because it makes me not pay attention to her, she would get mad at every female friend I’ve had, and she would push me around all the time, I was so scared to actually say stuff about it that I never broke up with her, it hurt me to much to think of it, this video hit home hard, especially the cheating part, she had many male friends, and I never cared, but the only difference with me and her is she would flirt with some of her friends, I would try and say something about it and she would have the same exact statement each time, “you have friends that are girls, it’s only fair” I’ve never flirted with any of my friends, and at the end of the three year mark, I caught her cheating, she started crying and yelling, I was oddly calm about it, didn’t make a fuss, it just, broke me, and he went around next day saying I abused her and cheated on her, I had screenshots of texts between me and her, and even video recorded the incident, she moved about 3 months after it happened, life’s a bitch.

a woman can easily ruin a man’s life in three words “he raped me”

holy shit

go outside

Kinda sad it could happen to someone else.

I didn’t know you could smell a gif

What the fuck

Sad but true, a woman has the capability of feeling guilt nor remorse and being the victim is their speciality

Now I am having 3rd thoughts on everything

This is just incel bait

  • 80% of comments: oH tHiS iS sO tRuE, I wAnTeD tO lAuGh :'(

  • 15% of comments: holy shit dude, go to r/niceguys instead, you fucking nazi

  • 5% of comments: people that know how the sun looks like

murder is good in these situations

r/justneckbeardthings

It's true. The system is so rigged against men in these situations. And before anybody dares to tell me otherwise I know it first hand. It's fucking bullshit

Because it's a strawman argument?

My worse nightmare in one video.

Lol what sort of incel shit is this.

How to make a sad short film out of bathroom logos.

This shit is depressing

Now I understand my dads pain, he has gone through this twice…

Anon i understandeth mine own dads teen, he hast gone through this twice…

^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.)

Commands: !ShakespeareInsult, !fordo, !optout

God damn you stupid bots, you don’t understand my pain that I’ve gone through watching two divorces…

Not all womans are the same. (I tell this for You Know who)

This is almost 100% accurate to what happened with my mom and dad

That’s why we should chosen goal Instead of hoes

Quick someone make the opposite of this video to show both sides are bad, and you shouldn't get married

The accuracy of this video is remarkable

The absurd fact that this is actually true

Yow this is true

thats a reason I walked out in dating

redrum will solve things

Damn. This kinda increased my hatred towards most women I know

Alas. This kinda did increase mine own envy towards most distaff i knoweth

^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.)

Commands: !ShakespeareInsult, !fordo, !optout

No bitches?

Y'all need to read "rational male"

Ha, I called a black guy the n word the other day and knew he would be offended, I am very intelligent 🤓

Either way the gender roles can goe, this is such a horrific toxic situation 😤😖

Where is the rest of the history?

I want so see him become a fucking trillionare by selling anti depression medication

Never get married, like seriously what are the legal advantages of it? Can't ppl just be together, make kids and eventually break up without all this men destroying divorce stuff?

Men, this is why you dont get married. I got full custody of my kid , paid off house, and still get to beat it up with the ole baby momma whenever I want. High school drop out , self employed construction worker , that travels the world here. If I were to ever get married, it would be in another country ( won't count here legally ) with a non-American woman.

I expect this is mild compared to the actual experience of some. Disgusting and sad.

I.... It seems like this kind of thing is not that uncommon huh?.... I hope that anyone else who has gone through a similar situation doesn't stumble upon this video.

🗿 I’m scared that this will happen to me when I delete reddit

Nothing as fine as a dose of depression first thing in the morning.

It's not about feminism, it's about a bad person, A bad POS person

The first mistake he made was agreeing to get married the rest is history…

and then the woman's boyfriend leaves her because he dosent want to take care of the kids anymore.

then she tries to go back to her ex husband but he also doesn't want him anymore.

then she'll be a single mother.

Whoever put that background music must be braindead.

This is so true for all men . they get to stay home and spend the money abd have a great time out. Then some ugly asshole shows interest and it is done.

man…this made me cry so bad… them princesses want the world and once you give it to them they are still not satisfied…

This is so fucking cringe bro

This is some incel bs.

This happens so much I’m 26 and met many men with this situation. Like yea don’t have kids with someone but things change . What is life man…. In todays day and age you have to settle there’s no way to meet the love of your life on tinder maybe if your lucky but if you don’t meet your significant other in high school your kinda screwed because whoever is single after high school comes with baggage ….this made me sad

So what about all the single females who take care of the kids coz the dad's are dead beats n prolly got like 5 kids to 4 other women... Smh, women or men it doesnt matter coz at the end of the day men OR women can be pieces of shit. We are all human all with emotions and morals and values n thoughts that drive the decisions we make..This isn't the 50s where women stayed home n took care of family n divorce was rare to see this is 2022 where u have about 50% chance of divorce, there are more then 2 genders u can indentify with and the sad truth is that most families require the mother and father to work in order to "get by".

The fuck kind of incel shit is this lmao.

Y’all are some sad lil boys lol. Shower and get some women, half y’all don’t even look horrible it’s just ur ugly ass personalities and thinking that this is the way people work

Yep.... not that men don't do bad stuff they do. But yeah this is accurate.

Yep. not yond men doth not lacking valor stuff they doth. But yeah this is accurate

^(I am a bot and I swapp'd some of thy words with Shakespeare words.)

Commands: !ShakespeareInsult, !fordo, !optout

Damn.... This is actually... Pretty sad I'm gonna have a bad day knowing that this is the reality we live in

This is not dank this is just true in many cases and I’m sad now

This is oddly specific OP

Meanwhile: ⏺️🔼⏹️

r/sad

This is pretty close to what happend between my parents

People really do be out here getting upset over situations they make up in their head. I’m sorry the bathroom lady hurt you bro.

you know this isn't the majority right？

Those of you who don't sense how frighteningly accurate this is, you are living in a bubble (and you're probably under 25).

If you think this is unrealistic, put your money where your mouth is. Go get married and see how it works out for you, good luck.

The US system seems pretty broken

Marriage is and always has been a social contract. All this bullshit about undying love and devotion is utter nonsense.

Fucking hell. The mother of my two sons cheated on me after six years. She spent all my money which led to me working more and more and resenting her. Our intimacy plummeted and a year later, she cheated on me with our raid leader from wow... Lol. Fun times.

Is it bad that this is basically my father and my step mother? Like almost exactly the same.

Too much feminism

Great now I'm depressed

It's the sad reality, you gotta accept it or "you're misogynistic".

Important rule for men in life : married at your own risk.

This is fucking garbage

Moral of the story: don’t be a yes man.

here in my country before mirage they agree on how much the husband pays in case he! is! the one who wants to divorce but if she ask for it without legit reason then she will not get any thing. but if he asked or she have legit reason than she takes what they agreed on (usually in gold currency) and if they have kids she and the kids will live with her till the males get 18 and till females get married and then father will take the house again . if she got married she will lose the right to keep the kids and the house unless the father agreed to let them stay with her. and same to him if she doesn't look like right fit for the children then the father keeps them. it sounds vert simple but it's more complicated than that i was just sharing

litterally an incel meme lol

Public perception will almost always be biased against men when compared to women. Women are generally more visually appealing than men. Good looking people are perceived with more positive traits than negative. Psychological abuse is wildly ignored, and psychological abuse made by women is scaryingly subtle.

In general, people find it harder to believe that any woman has some kind of ill intent or that they are incapable of doing any harm.

But women are humans too. They can be as hurtful and cruel as any men can.

The sad thing about this kind of situations is that men are the ones blamed for all of it and it gets laughed off as if this wasn't a present fear for a lot men.

Dark Dank Memes, but Dank nontheless.

millions have gone through this exact life

Lmao sad but can sometimes be true

/r/dankmemes not be literally the single most unfunny entity in all of human history challenge [scientifically verifiable objective impossibility]

this exact scenario probably happend to thousands of men and the fact that nobody even cares or knows about their situation is so deppresing...

Now you know why more and more people stop getting married

Welp, humans are really strange. Don't get me wrong, I'm not talking about we should not marry each other or how to find your true love. I'm just expressing my opinions.

In the video, it is seen that the woman told the man that she did got fucked. She is being honest BUT I think she's one of the scammers which basically get married and divorcing after less than 5 months. Also the fact that she is using the man's kid-loving to threathen the man to not talk anything to the kids, causing misunderstandings. So, in the story, the man is the victim.

In real life, everyone can be the victim or the scammer. It all depends on whether one of them is willing to give the another anything and work him/herself to death while the partner feels too low affection. While this happens once, the scammer would get the 50/50 money if successful. He/she would also feel like this is a great way to make money! Right? (I don't know about average but what i know is that majority of the people are selfish, greedy and such. If you disagree, you might be one of the rare ones!) And this cycle would go on.. forever, until the lawsuit changes and adultery becomes an actual crime and whatever.

As someone who exactly lived through this as a kid, shits hurts on a different scale

Thank you society, laws, for allowing a gender to be treated like shit and having their life torn apart even when the other is clearly in the wrong

Fuck. Bro....

0:35 is the hardest second of them all.

Someone tag YE

My mum tried this shit on my dad but my 4yr old ass wasnt that stupid

My father is the opposite, he’s so annoying.

the title.. yikes

I want to say; it's funny because it's true, but it isn't funny.

Holy fuck it reeks of incel in here. Enjoy getting mad over scenarios you make up in your heads and convince yourselves that it's the women and minorities who are to blame for you being alone until you die.

So is no one going to mention this guys profile picture?

True story……….

That's life

Is this your story?

incel tier no-hoe cope

This saddened me really hard I feel that guy

My man, this video was a bit funny at the start... but in the end it almost made me cry

This is one of the weirdest incel baits ive seen.

I have plenty of friends this exact same sequence of events happened to. Whoever made this is dead on

Wah wah woman bad, grow tf up and stop living in your own fantasy world.

Haha looser

Lol this isn't a meme, this is just pure persecution fetish with a touch of misogyny and racism.

The sad sad truth.

Fuck Women amiright

In what context

one and the other

Today's modern women has at least 5 different suitors we know about and 10 others we don't. This video was to modest showing only 2 or 3.

the moment she said she wants to get married should've been the moment he leaves, no one should rush the other to get married, it is an important decision that needs to be thought about well and if the other can't wait until the other one is certain to do so then that's an instant no, i feel like some people are rushing into marriage and making a family for validation or just blinded by love.. i feel like before marriage you should live together for a few years because that's when you learn about the other one

Depressing but the worst part is it happens more then once

Don't think I've ever cringed so hard at a sub, post or comments

That's why i prefer to be Sigma every single day. Don't get involved too much , stay strong.

That’s why you gotta watch out for red flags and green flags in girls, and not just looks.

I came to the comments section to search for a feminist comments and downvote it. Turn out there is none 😟 I guess i have to get back to being a virgin

50% of U.S. marriage end in divorce.

Infidelity accounts for about 55% of those. - https://www.wf-lawyers.com/divorce-statistics-and-facts/

Men are more likely to cheat than women: 20% of married men vs. 13% of married women.

  • https://ifstudies.org/blog/who-cheats-more-the-demographics-of-cheating-in-america

If we assume this data is only for heterosexual couples, then there’s a 60% chance the cheater was male, and 40% chance female.

This means the chance of this exact scenario occurring is about 11%.

But still, data shows that women tend to initiate divorce more than men: 70% of cases.

  • https://www.whitleylawfirmpc.com/3-reasons-why-women-initiate-divorce-more-often-than-men/amp/

What a stupid video

Sorry, no sympathy for people who get married, have kids and end up completely miserable. You could have had a much easier single, child-free life.

Ow

She took the fucking dog?

Bro your cringe broke the fucking strawman alarm

haha I powerful

Why do you think marriage rates have declined? Also that men nowadays are getting more and more hesitant or downright against marriage unless a prenup is signed? Movements like MGTOW?

Before y’all say anything, I’m not being an incel, I’m stating cause and effect. This meme sadly shows actual truth in what happens across the globe to thousands of men. You don’t think we all will start learning? Fucking hell men across my campus talk about stopping dating all together since being single nowadays is a lot better in many aspects. It’s sad, it just is really sad.

Modern day love Story wish people had hearts

incel lol

Weak shit, cheaters are foul but this has a degenerative view of women by portraying all women act as self serving evil people and shaming women who don’t meet their beauty standards(by the way you don’t need to date people that you aren’t attracted to on dating apps). There’s no punchline, there isn’t even a joke, not dank 0/10.

This is the perfect “reddit” moment

This isn't dank and doesn't deserve all those upvotes. It's just boomer "humour" and sexism

Also women being prioritized in divorce courts is misogynist, because it assumes women are supposed to be only focused on family and not capable of taking care of themselves financially. Men's feelings being ignored and them being seen as replaceable is another result of this stereotype. TLDR: libtard feminazi triggered and owned with facts and logic

There was a story that a actress killed another actress on a parking lot and her boyfriend was there when they went to court the boyfriend took all the guilt so the girl which was pregnant wouldn’t have the baby in prison then when he got out of prison he discovered that the girl had cheated on him, took the kid and took all the guys money.

this is sad 😢

Bruh

L bozo

I’ve never been happier that I couldn’t get a girlfriend

Wtf womwn

Hey buddy, want to talk about it?

Lmao how can you say "even after all this some feminist is gonna get offended". This is a made up scenario created solely because whoever made it was offended. Also you're a literal nazi you aren't fooling anyone over 17.

Depressing

Song?

Dude how old are you?

What the fuck? What’s this incel, MGTOW shit? Get this off my screen, I came here for dank memes, not commentary on sex double standards.

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huh that's weird, i thought r/incels got taken down

And this is what happens if you're a sub-five man. Dating is ovER.

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This legit happened to my dad when I was in high school😭😭😭 shit not funny! Parents doing this can ruin a child’s life or inpact their mental state in bad ways. Society makes me sad

let's buy back auschwitz and put every woman like this in it

Lmao reminds me of two and a half men

Funny sad and true all at the same time.

This is what radicalized me

What’s the name of the song?

He can just go to court

This is why instead of getting married I just bang married chicks. Thanks to my military buddies I have a steady supply.

Hahahahaha

This is the most cinematic shit ive ever seen

You really owned the feminists by making a shitty animation about scenario you made up

o7

It’s so true lol

I think i sorted by cold

This is the funniest post I've seen here in a while!!!

Anyone can kill anyone

I was looking at this sub for funnies, not to get sad bruh

Lol love to see the triggered incel snowflakes here

Damn who hurt you?

the incel levels are high

This video is like a peak Facebook boomer meme.

Men are being discriminated against in our society.

now im depressed

Some incel shit 💀

It's sad when u think about it that this probably happened somewhere in the world.

The point of the story is to never marry an American woman. I'm soooo glad I didn't.

Oof right in the feels :(

I can't wait to have this type of life. Free money, sex with African American guys, the kids to myself. Awesome.

Will Smith 101

How?

Well only the divorce is left.

That's most of the story

I don't know what to say... my breathing became slowed I was angry and horrified all at the same time. Is this what married life is like. I'm still in school and I hate it, and you mean to tell me if I play my cards wrong ill end up like that?!?!? Why does life suck🤔

Not if you play your cards wrong if you marry the wrong person you need to be really sure that she's the one for you otherwise this could happen and has happend but it's luckely not the norm but don't ignore the 35% change (not actual statistics just what I think light be around the actual number if I'm way of don't shoot me).

I’m constantly defending my wife x husband from this toxic divorce culture shit.

I'm not the one who's angry af and cursing at those heartless, soul sucking, hell-crawling, shit for brains, bitches- you are!

I-i'm not sure if i understand are you saying these women are bitches. Or that op is a bitch for posting this since it makes it look like all women are like this. Or are you just delisional and think this never happens and op is trying to make women look bad.

Bruh¿?? I will break it down for you since either you are a dumbass or you're offended stupidly so you ignore other things. This vid was about cheating wives who ruin their Men's lives and they get to be happy after that. So that's who my comment was for. Do you get it or you need some further details too? This doesn't happen in my country that often but in Western it's a common. Must suck huh

Ok I'm not offended never was I'm just incredibly stupid. I get what you mebt and I know that these People are bit he's I know one of them I wish I didn't but Can't because she's my mother.

Who? OP? OP's your mother? Or the one in the video? Oh sorry then

The one in the video is my mother

Dang. Why are all redditors' background sad af. Everyone's depressed here. Anyway stay up! Peace!

Because secretly everyone is depressed and the one who aren't don't have time for social media

Boomer meme

What is the song in the video

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Parts of this remind me of my dad's relationship with my stepmother. Still married, but holy shit is she an abusive asshole. It's not physical, but it's just that anything anything slightly out of order makes her angry, and she responds to anger by saying the most hurtful shit (according to her brother she's been like this her whole life).

Somehow she managed to hide this from my dad until they actually got married. My dad is a genuinely nice guy who works ungodly hours, but he's a bit reserved which I think is the problem. I don't know how their relationship started, but they worked in the same place and I suspect she was the instigator of it, she's a lot more outgoing. Thing is, after they got married and she wanted kids his response was basically the same to the guy in the video.

My dad is too forgiving for his own good. He understands my stepmother perfectly but is willing to try and accept/adapt to her behavior rather than leave her, although considering they have young kids that would be difficult anyway.

I guess what I've learned from this is that you should never be in a relationship with someone who can walk over you. He was married to my mother for almost 2 decades, almost half of which before having a kid. The difference is they met after coworkers made them go out when neither made a move, and I think that more equal footing is important.

sorts by controversial

You should go outside NOW!

Kill her

Who’s just trying to find the jam?

Too fucking true, quite frankly.

Too accurate to be true

isn’t there a version where he kills himself

Mate, where's the funny?

Where are the jokes? This isnt funny

It’s actually sad

b e c o m e . a . t e r r o r i s t

Honest, that's what I'm scared is gonna happen to me when I'm an adult. I'm 15 so I got time to prep but still

Ok, what the fuck? Why does the person the wife cheats on with need a black male face. Why not just make like a green dude or something. Seems to me like this is trying to push some kind of prejudice.

Um, she fucked multiple races in this video. Lol. I think you are trying to make it about race. What if the two people in this video are black?. Check yourself dude

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They are clearly making it about race, they could've have discerned it was a different male other than her husband in some other way rather than pasting a black male's face on the dude. Give him a tie, make him another non-human color green, purple, red, blue, put fucking Spongebob's face on the body, literally anything else other than this racist schlock. Why don't the original figures have human faces?

Bro if u wanna see race, by all means, the figures are fkin black.

Now fk off u racist shit

Then why don't they have human faces of black individuals like the one guy? Either they should all have a human face or none of them should.

Racism in its most general form, is rules around race, u r trying to enforce a rule. That makes u racist...its ok, this is not the woke mob. Nobody will hurt u we are all human and make mistakes :)

If you talk back again though, fuck off thx

The reason they didnt have faces is for simplicity and the black dude had a face because they had to make clear that it was a different person.

They simply put the faces of handsome men, you osmium.

Because dudes who don't have a wife really think life is like this when you have a wife. When in reality it probably happens to 1 guy out of millions and its never exactly like this. The black guy is used because op thinks all wives eventually cheats on their spouse with a black guy on Facebook. Just feels like boomer shit to me.mix with Intel shit.

Intel? Don't bring hardware into this (unless you want me to resort to violence)

probably chose that face cuz that dude is attractive as fuck....I mean, you're the one who got angry when they saw a black face ._.

I got angry because it's perpetuating a negative stereotype that doesn't belong in society. You blade of grass.

For all you know the picture was included because the guy is handsome. Him being black doesnt actually mean anything. And race shouldnt really be that relevant here. But you might be right. I guess we’ll never know

It's because people with bigoted views on one subject are likely to have bigoted views on other subjects due to the psychology behind what makes people prejudiced; the patterns of how they think and "reason", basically.

That's why this misogynistic incel trash has bonus racism thrown in.

Beizedi.

And just to think that marriage and having kids started all of that.

Fuck you Boomer Bitch.

I... Am, wow this is really sad, im a feminist, but i gave some thought into ur title and thanks for mentioning, there are a lot of women that make me being a feminist a tough job, but i wont break easily, not with this video, and ngl, this is somewhat 70% true... im feminist, but i can guarantee im not losing my virginity if it increases my chance of a depressing life

Casa que é gostoso.

Quer se lascar? Se lasque, se lasque, se arrebente.

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It's a phrase of Don Sandro, a man of the brazilian manosphere.

Nobody here speaks Fr*nch

Portuguese, not french.

Everything about this is stupid and if you think this is true to life you live in a bubble and have never lived.

Perfect summary for mgtow

This is serious incel shit trying to justify to themselves why they wouldn’t want to get married anyways.

It’s literally every angsty, angry entitled teens fantasy on what they think is wrong with women.

lmao who wouldve guessed this sub wouldve ended up being an incel circle jerk. even the addition of the black dude's face so we're all on page about who exactly you're afraid of

What in the holy incel bullshit is this?

OP, are you fucking retarded?

Racist and misogynistic incredible bait op

Where’s the punchline?

“There is no punchline”

What the fuck has this subreddit turned into?

Cringe

This happens maybe 0.1% of the time, but y’all gonna use it as an excuse for being single still

Misogynistic video. Incel caption. This isn’t a meme. It’s cringe. This is what every red pilled 15 year old thinks justifies male chauvinism.

Women are gold diggers, women are shallow, that man is such a good husband but still the wife can cheat and win custody, woman can get away with abuse so easily, this is so unfair

If this isn’t a wholly ironic post, it’s gross. Bad

Sure, the same can happen to the Woman, look no further than former Wrestler Brian Pillman‘s story of how his second wife Melanie destroyed the life of Brian‘s first wife and Brian did nothing to help and in fact stayed with Melanie, leading to the woman to kill herself.

But this doesn’t change the fact that what you saw is something that doesn’t happen all that rarely in the US and most Women do abuse that. They know they are the women and that they will always be seen as the victim and favored by the mass public, even thou they were absolutely not the victim. One of the best examples of that is the ProJared incident where the Woman played the victim card so much + a stranger accusing Jared on false accusations aswell, and the media immediately labled him the bad guy. Only for him all alone to disprove everything and his career still hasn’t healed because of the Tantrum of a Woman.

Not to mention that at one point, from all the accusations of Rape that women came to the court and accusing the man of it, 63% were false accusations. And sure, you can say that in those 63%, it was legit rape and the attorney did a bad job. But also don‘t forget that also this exist. This one too and let’s not forget this one. Women CAN get away with abuse and other things and they know it. Don’t act as if everything is just „oh, men stupid sexusts“.

Okay? And? I never said this scenario isn’t something that happens in real life. What’s the point of this sub? It’s not to start a productive conversation in the comments. A post like this only appeals to the loser incel crowd who can revel in this fictitious, poor circumstance this man is subjected to. It’s just something to instill a victimhood mentality in impressionable males who seriously think women have more privilege than men in todays age.

If you seriously think women getting away with domestic abuse, or winning marriage court more frequently than men is a pressing issue that needs to be addressed societally, you’re either not an adult or don’t have any female friends.

It’s not that it’s not an issue. Or it doesn’t happen or doesn’t exist. It’s that this video isn’t addressing a situation. Or posing any kind of question. It’s just painting a villainous picture of a wife destroying a man’s life. For what reason? To appeal to losers who think this is the plight men have to endure. And they can vent about how unfair men have it compared to women nowadays in the comments.

Wild how many times has this happened?

a lot?

This is only the 2nd time i've heard of this occurring and both times have been from biased sources, usually there's more nuance to relationships that people like to leave out on purpose and not because theyre emotional. As well w/feminist mad part seems more like a person jilted with the female sex.

your entire argument is ‘well IVE basically never heard of this so it must not exist because I am always right!’

you sound ridiculous. heres some proof on my end:

https://www.huffpost.com/entry/drinking-after-divorce_n_1812235/amp men are more likely to become alcoholic than women after a divorce.

https://visme.co/blog/wage-gap/ while women do get paid less on average, men tend to work more hours. This affects divorce rates, as men working more means that they are more likely to get a divorce, as shown here.

Its an incredibly common situation, as the stereotype of men is that they are not allowed to show their emotions and have to bottle up their feelings, and even if they do release them, they get ignored or shamed, since they 1. are not allowed to show their emotions, and 2. are seen as less of a man.

shut up. you are stupid.

That's most way people gain their opinions from personal experience until shown other wise. Here's a statistic for you one of the most common reason for divorce is infidelity, who do you think cheats more in a relationship? Ding ding ding it's men! Another reason is communication issues and you have also stated men are horrible at this. If we were to use the excuse well society taught me this then we wouldn't progress at anything. This conversation is reductive too, pointing fingers and demonizing genders is some of the most cringey shit ever, I can sympathize with issues mostly men deal w/ just like I can w/ women both genders have faults that they need to overcome then shitting on the other grow up.

???? you started it by essentially claiming men rarely ever suffer effects from divorce. talk about being able to sympathize…

plus, your communication point is incredibly flawed. you use communication against me because i have previously stated that men have difficulties expressing their emotions. well, as I have said before, this is because society has made it that way. who in society? ding ding ding its women! men are made to feel less masculine by women because men are supposed to hardened, cold figures who have no emotion.

you claim you can accept problems but at the same time claim they don’t exist. you are contradicting yourself. shut up

I never stated men don't suffer from divorce. The whole reason I commented on this post was to make fun of situation that does not exist that tries to paint women as insensitive and controlling cheaters who cant see any of their own wrong and men as poor dumb babies who can't control their situation. And do you seriously think women are the reason men can't express emotions dog? Who has been the dominant gender since forever, women weren't able to do shit back then and those gender roles were still alive and rampant. Again this isn't just mens fault nowadays women also perpetrate this mentality now but I only really see this from religous and coservatives of all genders . Im not contradicting myself youre just stupid, don't want to take responsibility, and need a big boogyman to excuse your behavior. Heres a crazy concept both men and women can be bad it's your responsibility as a person to choose good intelligent ppl to fratenize with.

r/oddlySpecific

It really isn’t someone in this comment section (at least one person cause i didn’t read the entire 1000 comments) had already had it happen to them

This is sad tbh

Skewed

Emotional damage!!!