The fuck is this
The fuck is this
If you don't understand you're lucky
Why?
It was made to make us think something bad will happen, like they won't actually be in the same room or one of them will deny the hug. Instead, they wholesomely embraced and showed how much they love eachother, something that many virgin redditors have not felt yet in their lived.
Oh okay, I did understand.
It was made to make us think something bad will happen, like they won't actually be in the same room or one of them will deny the hug
Uh... I think the implication was just that it would be some sort of prank.
So itās really too not me irl for me
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Iāll hug you bro
Hope you do well!
You're Awesome!
I knew what was gonna happen. Why did I watch it anyways? God I hate myself
āIāll never know what this feels likeā š¤ āI miss this feelingā
I usually forget how much I miss this by distracting myself with hobbies, work, or just general life.
All it takes is a video like this for the memories to come back and that sinking hole in my heart to reappear.
We move š
why canāt I have this
Edit: spelling mistake
I canāt because Iām me :)
I can't because I rarely go outside and carrying whole conversation while being socially awkward suck very much, so I kinda gave up this dream.
I was like you once. Then out of nowhere some random girl gave me her number, we held hands in a cave, and shared the most awkward kiss on her doorstep. Now we have a 4 year old baby girl, a beautiful home with dogs, cats, a lizard , and a life you could write a song about. Dont give up. You'll get there. Or you'll make it yourself.
So hang out in caves. Got it.
ayy congratulations im happy for you! But you have to admit the odds of that happening are astronomically low. The odds of someone having a crush on you if you rarely go out are low as is, and especially low for them acc confessing. Not to mention SA alr lowers your chances further. As unfortunate as it is you need to make an effort to overcome those hurdles and make a presence if you want this sort of life
I met her at work lol
Cool
Thank you for this. I've been trying harder to be a little bit more hopeful/positive about myself and my future, but it has been extremely difficult. It helps to hear examples from other people. This helped me feel at least a little better.
There always is that one waiting 4 u somewhere
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You said it not us!
I'll be honest this attitude is probably far more responsible than anything else about you. There are other stupid, ugly, useless people in the world and you can go be stupid, ugly, useless, and happy together.
Trump made president, you can do anything dude
Yeah, I hate to pile onto you, but 4 out of 5 of those things, you can do something about.
Stupid- brains are muscles, they get better with work. Podcasts, books, books on tape, other reddit threads, make your brain work a little. Learn a skill. I know, you don't have a burning passion for anything, but there are books of skills. Open one randomly and try whatever it opens to for a month.
Can't fix ugly, BUT wear clothes that fit. There are two mistakes us uggos always make. First is dressing the way we wish we were. I'm fat, trying to wear "skinny" clothes just offends the senses of the others around me. Second mistake is the opposite, dressing to hide how we look. So for me, baggy, baggy clothes. However, this tactic just makes you look untidy, which, for some reason, bothers people subconsciously, like a lot. So clothes that fit.
Useless is a hard one, because how would you define that? What use would you like to be? We are born purposeless. Ideally, our first purpose is to be our parents' child, but eventually we have to define one of our own. Aside from the philosophical questions, you are absolutely right. People prefer that you be useful. The skill helps. Knowing other people helps.
Awkward is the worst to fix and also the easiest. It is, essentially, exposure therapy. (I am assuming that you mean socially awkward. Plain awkward means graceless, like you fall a lot or walk into closed doors frequently.) Talking to people you don't know is awkward and painful. You just have to do it so often that you can't remember all their faces. It sucks. It sucks. I think of it like the first hill on a rollercoaster. I just have to push myself over the top. You never get perfect, but you do get better.
"I don't deserve anything good..." Well, no. right now you are stupid, useless, and awkward and aware of it. . Why would you deserve anything good? Come back when you start working on all your issues. I've found that the people who insist that "we deserve nice things just for being" are always the first ones to abandon you. Fuck those hippies. (nod like you agree with them though or they get insufferable)
Last tip. I call it "through the mirror, darkly." (Yes, I stole it from a movie I never saw, about a book I never read. It sounds cool, so it is mine now.) Basically, my empathy feels real, like I am feeling how the people around me are feeling. This is a lie that my brain tells itself. My brain is making best guesses based context clues. -> Empathy is a form of optical illusion <- Just like that spiral isn't moving, those people aren't feeling what you feel they are. It feels real, but it is NOT. Why is that important? Because how you feel about yourself influences the guessing. The actual empathy-guessing could be phrased as "in their situation, how would I feel?" In a normal person, the answer would be semi-accurate, but in someone like you, who hates themselves, the answer will be darker and will reinforce your preconceptions. So basically, your brain is always telling you that the people around you hate you a little more than they actually do, because the process to figure out how other people feel has to pass through your own self-hatred, darkening the answer. So, empathy in a self-hating person is like looking at your reflection in a darkened mirror. I find it helps just to be aware of that.
I can't have this because I'm in a small town with a small population where like 95% of girls are not my type, but even then I'd be single since I'm socially awkward as hell.
Move to the city.
Used to be in the same situation, moved to the city and since then I've had 0 problems meeting women that I'm genuinely interested in.
What city tho, there's so many
The nearest city you're comfortable moving to. You just want a denser population if you want to meet a wider variety of people
This is why I refuse to procreate: A dense population, a very, very dense population.
"just move lol"
Pretty much. The alternative is stay in your small town for the rest of your life, which for some may be fine but the guy I'm replying to doesn't sound content with that.
Not old enough, can't afford and still nobody is probably gonna date a socially awkward guy anyway.
Youāll become less awkward by default or even by comparison in the City, Youāre making excuses but nobody told You
Take Your time and plan, You have years because so many people die in misery in suburbs and small towns. And to be fair if you never leave you deserve your hell,
At least thatās what I tell myself so I donāt feel bad when I see the sadness
Not old enough and my family can't afford moving to a big city, they'd do it too but we simply won't ever have the money, I live in Serbia which is a poor country in the Balkans, our life isn't as easy as that, we don't simply have the privillege of having enough money to move like your average Western Europe/US citizen.
The earliest I'll be able to move out is 19 which is when I plan to go to university, and that's 4 years away... 4 years of extreme loneliness... yay...
Seems like you know your only option, but Iām even more biased now that you told me youāre in Serbia. Iām from an immigrant family, but Serbia might be poorer than the Caribbean and thereās no nearby nations to thrive in, and you probably donāt have any family outside of Serbia either.
But so much Can change in 4 years. You can get out, itās very plausible
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Well if you think the majority of the women in your area are not your type without meeting them then you are going to have a lonely life. That's not a great mentality to have if you want to be in a relationship. How do you know you don't like someone without meeting them?
At my age I wouldn't date anyone older and younger, and the number of girls my age is quite low and I kinda do know what they're like, as I can tell someone's personality pretty accurately by how they talk and stuff like that, maybe I am a bit picky for wanting a female clone of me but I don't want someone just to "be" my girlfriend, I need someone relatable.
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Personality is what matters the most, I do have some standards and want someone attractive but I'm not that picky when it comes to phyiscal appearance.
Because of a set of circumstances both beyond your control and due to life choices made by you and others. Not entirely anyone's fault, including your own. Some people are just born on hard mode, whether it's genetics, mental health due to genetics, economic situation from birth, parenting... theres tons of reasons it both is and isn't your fault and it still isnt fair. Life sucks, then you die.
Can have you this. Maybe one day will you.
š¤£š¤£ I fixed it lmao
I'm not too sure how to describe how I feel about this.
Envy? No, I'm not angry at them for what they have, and them losing it would bring me no joy.
Jealous? Probably not. It would be nice to have that, but I know that relationships are a big responsability and I'm just not in a good place right now, so I don't "want" it either.
I need a new word for it.
Zjerb
Smh that's to describe when a pickle is a little crunchier than you expected
Indeed. We need a new new word
Itās called feeling lonely
I may be stupid
But i am stupid...
Longing. Yearning for something that is out of your reach.
Same
I'm happy for them. I shouldn't let my personal struggles get in the way of appreciating the love expressed by others.
Still man this hole in my heart doesn't get filled it just get widened every passing moment
Hope you do well!
I wish I could have this attitude. Why canāt I just be happy for others instead of having this rotten, uncontrollable envy?
W Redditor
You're Awesome!
These don't affect me anymore.
Lucky bastard
you and i. we are becoming stronger
Made me feel worse about myself lol
This is so great. Does anyone know what song that is?
Sounds like an 8-bit version of Your Love Is My Drug by Kesha
That slowed down part is the best part of the song too. I honestly wish there was more of it cuz it sounds great like this. The rest, while not a bad song really, just is a regular pop song so not nearly the same tooā¦
Anyone here make beats? Can we loop this somehow?
Depressed - ADM1TR1POW
I need a hug and this isnāt helping
God I need this
Love yourself my bros. Getting into a relationship without being content yourself is not a great plan. I wouldn't say "doomed for failure", but definitely "doomed for trouble"
plot twist: theyāre cousins
Imagine being light enough to be carried like that
-Fatass Gang
u/savevideo
Na fucc this. We both here for a reason. Letās be like em pm me
I don't really want this, though i still hate myself
when you forget to take your pills
I can be happy without a pa-
Hope you do well!
Dam this just made me sad and it's just the start of my day.....
i need a bullet in my cranium
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You saying "go make it happen" is pretty fucking stupid too
I dont see the point in enabling a pity party. That may be stupid to people and I respect that. If you are feeling down and need a stranger to boost you up I'm there but you need to say that. Don't just make a stupid comment about putting a bullet in your head though.
u sure showed them š
Hate to break it to you but this whole subreddit is a pity party
I was drinking w this girl the other day and she accidentally called me her exās name so it could be worse
I thought he was gonna like punch her and knock her out.
context?
Troll face, I guess
God, I miss this. I regret so much with my past relationship and thought that I never wanna be in one again as it changed me, it changed me to the worse, but no.... I want that back. That feeling. That hug.
God fucking dammn
song name pls
your love is my drug 8 bit
Its all fun and games until it's your sister.
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I debated about replying but i feel to have to point something out. Trans women. Some Trans women litterally change the bones in their face. You know what that tells me? That we aren't constrained by what nature gave us. It might not be cheap, it might not be easy, but its doable, and not in a "just pull yourself up by your bootstraps" kind of way. If the body you have is causing you dysphoria then you can change it.
Iāve seen miracles happen š
We used to have the rules of no tiktoks allowed. Now double tiktoks are coming and I'm powerless against it
Why should this be a problem?
Oh god not again
Bro the kitchen is in the bedroom, and the living room is the bedroom, and the entrance gives directly to the living room which is the bedroom
Wtf
It's called a studio apartment.
Bruh, how fucking poor you have to be?
I donāt get it. Whatās the sad part about this
Don't be sad. Here's a hug!
This is an forever alone sub
Ohh lmao. I see. Yeah only a total fucking loser would get jealous at this shit. Keep that mentality going guys. Stay in that rut for all I care.
I donāt think anyone here is jealous, no one would be happy by seeing their downfall. Weāre justā¦ feeling a bit lonely yknow?
I would be happy.
āI wish everyone happier than me would dieā
Will probably get downvoted to oblivion, but if watching this was upsetting to you in some way, then you really should go see a therapist. Hell, I see one myself even tho this didnāt bother me because of my anxiety, self depreciation, and longing for self improvement. Seeing him was the best decision of my life, even if itās still a long, arduous, and on-going process.
Moral is, just donāt wallow around and wait for things to get better (tried that and it doesnāt work). Speak with someone who can give you legit good advice and will help set you up for success rather than failure.
Edit: Also adopting my puppy was the best decision I ever made in terms of combating loneliness.
So sweet, praying on their downfall rn
I wish everyone happy would die
Nice!
Nice!
Lmfaooo wtf. Did not expect to see this
Bruh
Good news, they will
Spittin wholesome shit today
Even if I had someone I probably would still feel just as alone. Man, I should get therapy..
Why is the troll-face sad?Isnāt what happened in the video a good thing?
Don't be sad. Here's a hug!
Is he too weak to lift her off the floor?
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So you think parents lust after their children?
Is that something you think is widely going on?
Pet owners lust for their cats?
Garfield lusts after lasagne?
No. Face it Garfield loves lasagne.
"I've never experienced love, so it isn't real!" Bro shut up and touch grass
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Lmao ok buddy whatever you say
what song is it ?
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Id on song?
What song is this?
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Copium, somebody?
I miss her...
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Who tryna recreate?
I'm happy I can at least imagine it's me
I want that š
Looks like two teenagers in a studio apartment. The red lights are stupid. Ew.
I really didn't need to see that today..
Do you want to see it tomorrow again as a repost?
Haha.. the context of my life prob won't change so it will hit about the same lmao
Because you are a jinx!
ah, yes. I understood that reference
I dont get it, pls explain.
hi! :)
It's an Arcane reference. See that the avatar of BloodWolf? It's Jinx from League of Legends, and in the series the phrase "Because you are a Jinx!" is used a lot to criticize Jinx.
Eh. If it happens enough you reach the numb stage. You get so used to the pain you dont feel much of anything really. Careful though, once you reach the numb AND tired stage you're in the danger zone.
It's called the apotheosis
? Did you mean anhedonia? I def dont feel I'm at my peak lol. Well I guess that works. Peak depression hours let's gooooo.
Don't worry I'll come over to your house and I'll be standing on your bed when you get home tomorrow. Let's just skip the formalities of "How'd you get in my house" and such ok? Love ya see you tomorrow =)
Yeah this was definitely not the way to start my already shitty day... Damn now I just feel lonely